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I dont have any Never had any either... But I want...

It sucks, doesn't it?

Being shy is teh suxorz... I'm lucky I got mine from four states away...

You've never had a girlfriend?!?!?

He should feel lucky. lol

But some people are gluttons for punishment.

funny how everyone on battlenet has a girl friend lol or at least they say they do. ill admit that i dont

Don't have one. Don't feel like I need one
Useless money wasters -__-

Why are ya'll sad about not having a girlfriend? I mean, I'm sure it'd be nice to have one, but quite frankly I don't really care for a boyfriend right now. Stop using it as means of self-validation. Syphon, there's no reason to be suprised that someone has never had a girlfriend. You only get to marry one [sans divorcies], so its pretty much useless bragging about a two week relationship you had in eighth grade.

rofl. I second what Lisk said [should've read his first and just put 'ditto']

I never had a girlfriend, I kind of want one.

But it's pretty difficult for me to find one since

1) I'm asian
2) Not that great looking
3) I'm not the talkative type of person
4) I'm shy
5) All the good girls are taken

SORRY, RESPONSE INVALID.
I'm going for any actual answer to a question. Heck, even her just saying "just wondering" would be better than you saying "because she is a girl". "because i am a guy/girl/ethnicity/youshouldgettheideabynow" is a freaking terrible response.

I was actually having a trouble with my girlfriend for a couple days, right now is just about 20 minutes after getting off the phone and seemingly, most everything is good again. We've actually been going out for nearly two years, October freshman year to now, as juniors. That was half self-validation half me just explaining further.

I have had so much advice against our relationship, though. "What you feel is lust, not love". "Don't take High School relationships seriously" etc. I don't know how to take it because what I believe is love, may just be lust and I have no clue because I just don't know it yet.

EDIT: Reply to MA.
I don't think I am good looking. I used to be more quiet, but I've become more outgoing, mostly because of the fact I know I need to build confidence. I am all kinds of shy (figure of speech), because of my lack of self confidence.

Ok I appologise, I'm just kind of surprised, I don't think I've ever met someone that didn't ever have at least somethng...

Here's a PM )Keiko( actually sent me once:

Nope, single and proud of it I have friends that r girls but I never dated them.

No, What are the chances i'll marry/stay together with them until i get into high school///University

No girlfriend, never had one either. But I'm sure I can get one, but I have other wories, il take care of my life an dreams first, the girls will always be there. Even though I like a few right now.

Does it matter if I have or had a girlfriend? What if I said I was gay, and had a boyfriend? Does that change how you would see me? Do you judge people according to the fact that they are in a relationship or not? How would you see me if I said I've never had a girlfriend, or if I said I've gone through a dozen of them? Do you see them a trophies of some sort?

Bragging rights perhaps? I think it has to do with the fact that people think they're "cooler" if they have a girlfriend. Or maybe because they can join in on some macho pissing contest.



1) Why should race play any part in this?
2) Looks? If you get a girlfriend just because you look good, then I pity you.
3+4) Ah. So are you willing to change your personality just so that you can tell people "I have a girlfriend"?
5) Oh, so is that how you see things? That girls are property that can be claimed and taken. That they must pass a selection criteria for you to judge if she's "good" or "bad"?

That's the only way to get the best ones. I used to be shy, and respectful of women, but now I'm a cheavunistic pig. My success has gone up dramatically.

Alot of boys are shy cuz they're raised by their mothers. Their mommies tell em all the wrong things. I'ma make DAMN sure my son grows up to be a MAN.

I have friends that are girls. But not a girlfriend
I like to play games, alot. I'm sure I'd get "me or games"...

Also I've found that "I don't need a gf" sounds just as nice as "I have one"

Never had one. I mean, there is no point in having a relationship at my age because there are no validity that the relationship will continue (due to many many reasons), or if she'll get into university or not. Correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think people take relationships seriously at my age, and all they care about is bragging, self-validation and making sure that they can be popular and known. Relatiionships that occur later will probably mean that both sides are more mature, and actually take into account many things that might happen in later life, and consider values the other person has, and not just self-centered on their own.

Had one, poured soda down my boxers and that was the end.

Sounds painful

ADDITION:


And of course, having someone to gratify you... Sexually

Last year(junior year) i had 2 and almost had 3. This summer i has 1 for the summer. But i broke up with her. Now this year(senior year) i've been talking to this girl named sandra during the summer. We both have a "thing" for each other, but i havnt asked her out yet. one of the reasons is because she is a freshmen this year, and i'm a senior. 3 years apart.... soo i dont know... i heard that 2 of my past girlfriends still like me and got mad when they heard about sandra. 1 of them still talks to me everyday. the other one, i talk to everyonce in a while.... oh and one of my past gf's started to talk best friend yesterday, and he was hitting on her and she told him that she still likes me.... eh, girls.... ohwell........ anyway thats my 2cents for the day as well as my life story!... just kidding.......

Well, I now actually do have a girlfriend as of today, so I think some w00ts are in order.



Took a while to find a girl who appreciates my nerdy side.

I currently do not have one. Currently.

I think I'm due for one though , I'm rather lonely, and just want one with whom I can hug and put my arm around, etc.

There's this one in particular. She's rather pretty, not tall (As in, if she wore heels, she'd still be shorter than me), and a great personality. The only problem I'd see is that I hardly ever see her and I'm not sure if she like me like that. I've always liked her ever since she moved here when I was in 7th grade, 3 years ago.

Homecoming is coming up, I don't know if I want to ask her to go with me, as I do not know if I'm going at all. Social gatherings with a lot of people tend to get me depressed, and I can not entirely enjoy it.

There are other girls that like me, but I just dont know who else I like. One is rather immature, and never will be more than a friend. The other is pretty also, but I just dont know if I'd like to date her (Date is used roughly as 'going out', or 'going steady', but we rarely go on actual dates, as I am not rich. I need a job).

Another girl I like is taken, so that sucks. I'd asked her out earlier last year, but she said she might have needed to move. Sometime soon later after that, she dates a Junior (We're freshmen at the time). That hurt me a bit.

In short, I just want a girl that I can date for a while.

There, I got my emotional rant out. I just had to write something other than about facts. I've been doing literary and historical projects non-stop since school started.