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You can go ahead and hate your parents if you want to, Hey its your choice, but just think of all the things you have to do if you choose this path to follow. If you keep loving your parents you get what you need to survive, house to stay in etc. If you dont you could run away then what do you have, are you going to go to school, get a job, pay for food, pay for anything. Have fun out on the streets with a stolen shopping cart picking up bottles at a whopping 5 cents a piece!

I think you completely missed the point of the topic. There's more to being a parent then having your children a place to sleep. That's very minimal amount. As I said before, if you only bare with them because you HAVE to in order to protect your life. Then there's something wrong obviously. Parents are suppose to be people you love and care about, and if you don't because of of all the crap they cause you then you have every right to hate them.

I was just using some things as examples, obviously there is more than just the things that I said that parents help kids with, or the post would be a mile long. Yes I do get the point of this topic, I just gave my opinion on it!

its probably wrong, but i hate my parents.

They've freaked me over in so many ways just today it isnt funny.

I was a personal slave, they refuse to leave me alone, i can't go to this party that i've been anticipating for months, and this is leading to insane relationship problems that i wish i didnt have to deal with, and it just gets worse from there. because of my dad being an irresponsible detestable human being, we cant get dsl or cable internet, he has no job, etc etc.

and my mom is way too overprotective.

i hate it every day. my only escape is imagining suicide and playing video games. xD

I hear people all the time talking about how much they parents. I could understand if they abuse you, steal from you, ect, but most of it is because mommy wont let you go to a party, or daddy wont buy you a new Ipod. Well, for those ones, I must say, I want to punch you in the face so hard. Some people have it so much harder, some people have to get those tehmselves, or don't get it at all. They also don't get like, $150 to spend on American Eagle clothes. Oh noes, what would you do without that? There's so many people like this, and all I can say is, if this is the worst problem that you have in your life, you should thank your God that that's all you have to deal with.

Besides, the people who's parents wont let you go out or whatever. Lie. Say your going with many people. Some things are more important than what you parents thinks.

I also hear so much about "I don't owe them anything, they decided to have me, so it's there fault" ect. Well, you do. Last time I checked, it costs several hundered thousand, or a million, something like that, dollars to raise a kid. Probably even more. Good luck paying that off.

But with people that have abusive, or just bad parents, I can simpathize. A bit. A small bit. True, abusing a child is one of the worst things you can do, but, hey, if you have such bad parents, move out, or call f-bomb-ing CPS.

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Agreed, with Shmeeps. Also, anyone who hates their parents for those reasons, and also hates 'emo' (the culture, not abbreviation) kids is a hypocrite. Be grateful you get free room, board, console, and company for give or take 18 years. There'll be times you're pretty pissed at your parents, but they're human too, so give them a break once in awhile and let them know you appreciate their kindness. It is incredibly rare for a parent to want anything but the best for their child (though some cultures have contrasting ideas of what is best). There's not a sane parent in the world who wouldn't give up their jacket on a cold day to their child, who wouldn't work overtime, who wouldn't take a bullet. Family is a beautiful thing, try not to spoil it.

then you woulda've been happier either you just suicided, or your mom killed you when you were very young? I probably would be happy if you were dead... if your mom was cannibalistic and cut you to pieces and ate you?
if you dont have a good reason to hate your parents, you really shouldn't. just because your moms a little paranoid, you shouldn't just turn away. try and convince them that you are not "untrustworthy". my mom lets me do all the things i want to because iam such a good person :3
but yeah. theres is no debt in bringing us to this "world". Soul is a perception. such things do not exist before we are born. "Souls do not exist". It is a perception caused by our thinking. You may refer your subconcious mind and the ability to decide on your own as a "soul". Even a clone or an artificial intelligence could achieve such a thing. We are just a subconciously formed offspring of your parents. How ever, we do owe them for feeding, and raising us. Although it has its limits. When you are an official adult, your parents cannot interfere with your decisions. Although some decisions may bring upon consequences. Technically in america, people who are under 18 isnt considered an full fledged citizen.

If your parents are alcoholics, hit you with no reason and don't treat you like a human - it's normal to hate them. If they just are overprotective it's normal for parents to be like that. That's what I think.

i'd run away if my parents were like alcholics.
my mom is overprotective.

We already established that point. That there are some kids who hate there parents for stupid reasons. But then there are complicated reasons, and no one has yet replied to my situation personally. My mom doesn't abuse me or steal from me. Not that this is why I hate her but i'll just put out there she doesn't buy me anything, I have to go with my dad grocery shopping in order to get food I can eat. I'm basicaslly a personal slave for her. She yells at me all the time for no reason at all, like if I ask her when we're leaving if we have to go somewhere she'll scream the answer to me. And she keeps complaining about anything I do, even community service because it's "helping the crap country" (Aka america). And she's like that to my dad and sister to. Am I not allowed to hate her because she doesn't hit me? If so that's really retarded.

ah. well. you arent really restricted on your feelings. but i would hate her if i were you. ( Aka "She feels that you're annoying and stupid" )

this is kinda of a joke topic. It's a natural instinct to hate the very thing that tries to teach you. You see, some parents could be abusive and alcholics, what reason is there to love is you continually being beaten. I'm not one of those. But i still hate my parents if they have a bad day and take it out on us. It's a teenage mentallity you can't stop -_-. Of course a lot of things "aren't right" but some we can't stop regardless.

Anyone and everyone has the right to hate anyone or everything. it's your god given right. i don't hate my parents but i do hate a lot of people

Well here goes my life story...

Im a very private person. I do what i have to online, play some games, and im out the door on my motor scooter (<-- <3 ) . If allowed i could go for motnhs without so much as a hello to my folks.

Generally, 85-90% of the time my parents respect that i am a private person. But when the dont i get angry. Infact, recently ive just been more angry for no apparent reason. However, my parents are easy on me, because my brother is a total screw up.

Due to the fact i will not do so much as associate with people who drink/smoke/insert any drug here, my parents let me do things. My brother, whos gone through rehab and has been to the hospital with near liver failure and the list goes on, is watched carefuly.

I think the secret to being able to have your parents trust you is to have a sibling who is a freak up. It worked for me, why not you?

-DB

That's called verbal abuse. If you seriously have a problem, just try to talk to her. If that doesn't work, ask a psychologist, and if that doesn't work, call the child protection agency.

I truly do think most parents want the best for their child. Most of the time, mainly because they don't want to see their child go through the problems they faced when they were at that age. Think about it, would you want to make your child miserable?

I believe that the only time to hate your parents is if you're being abused.

I guess that means I should be allowed to hate her without anyone fussing?

Abuse doesn't always have to be physical.

In a way I hate my parents(actually just my mom) and at the same time I dont. Like I'm 100% sure I hate her but this one time she kept pushing me and started hitting me, I gave you a shot to the gut and she started crying, I felt so bad for doing it but and wondered if I really hated her or it was just that I feel bad whenever I hurt anybody? I'm still trying to figure it out.

you see, my mom will trust me to be responseble with keeping track of stuff, and i do, but like, if i wanna go out with my friends, she'll be all like, NO! your friends will blow ur head off.

You could, but the key word is allowed. You are allowed to, but is it really necessary for you to do so? Usually when people reach adulthood and move out the house, they realize that their lives with their parent(s) was easier and tend to gain a better friendship with their parent(s).

I'd hate to make this "Golden-Fist's biography" but if I had to live with my mom you guys can see me writting a death notice. It's only easier because my dad does a lot of stuff for me.

Slave? Are you f'kin' kidding me? Be glad you weren't born on a farm. Those kids do a lot of hard labour and it's not a necessity to get rewarded. They understand working is just part of life... Nobody pays you to chew your food, why should they pay you to go shopping.

If it really is that bad, I'm sorry, but then you shouldn't be complaining to us, you should be complaining to police.

What's the point of critising me about why I hate my mom and then telling me that it's so serious I should call the police?

Refering to verbal abuse.