Sigh. Is it so hard to understand the points I've made? Please, this topic is not about Christianity or the Bible, so STOP dragging it in only because I said I was Christian, k?
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If you think being gay is "unnatural" or anything like that, then I guess being straight is "unnatural" too.
It isn't exactly just one day some random person wakes up and says "I am going to decide I am gay!" Its a bit more complex than that.
Some of the basic reasons why people are gay is because they chose to be (that I personally think is a bit wierd..), they were born that way, they were raised in a homosexual environment (E.g.: your parents are gay), or they are people who think with their dick and freak the first thing they see.
And it isn't just humans that can be homosexual, there are gays of many different types of animals; penguins, monkeys, gorillas, dolphins, and many more. My friend did a report on it and found lots of things, such as a male penguin couple who were trying to mate and hatch a rock together. They were given a fertilized egg, and raised the chick together.
If there is something so wrong about someone being gay, what is it? I'd like to know why people female dog about it so much; its not like thats going to make them go away. I think that worrying about homosexuality is just a big waste of time and effort
I never said gay is "unnatural". In fact, I said this is a bad argument.
I never said someone just "wakes up and says, I'm gay!"
Why bother worrying about anything then? What a dumb point to bring up.
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The ex-gay schtick is a bunch of bull. The posterchild for ex gays, a John Paulk, was found in gay bar in 2000 after supposedly "giving it up". Jeremy Marks, director of Courage, United Kingdom, left the group in 2001 after declaring "None of the people we've counseled have converted no matter how much effort and prayer they've put into it. There is much more benefit to the more honest view."
Not only that, the majority psychiatrist view is that not only do these groups not work, they are actually damaging to the patients involved. So not only is it not verified by fact, it is also viewed as being an ineffective and harmful process by the majority of the medical institution.
Now, the "religious" argument: In the ancient Near East, homosexual rape of a masn was the ultimate public humiliation, having little meaning besides utterly demeaning them. The men in Sodom and Gomorrah are sadists, taking pleasure from humiliating and inflicting suffering.
Leviticus either specifically prohibits the action of penetrating a man, or is referencing a Egyptian/pagan cult practice where a priest would dress as a woman and have orgiastic sex with adherents ("lie with a man as with a woman"). If the former is true, then not only does it make no reference to the desire, it also doesn't particularly apply to modern culture.
Remember that the ancient Hebrews lived in the desert, where starvation or disease could've hit at any moment and potentially kill many of them. The "seed" was thusly valued highly, as they needed to have many children to ensure the survival of their line (remember also the high infant mortality rates). Taken into context, it's a prohibition of wasting something that was the essential to their continuing existence. We live in a society of comfort, and the chances of dieing before reaching reproductive age are relatively slim. So, our population is very large, and we don't need to use every single drop of semen for procreation.
The Bible was never meant to be taken literally, and the laws must be viewed in context.
Ok, I'm not going to address the Christianity aspect of the argument because I've made it clear at least twice that this topic is not about this.
So, if a "prominent" homosexual actually molested a boy, would this mean all homosexuals are pedophiles?! No, it's important not to allow "prominant" members of a group define the group.
What "group"? There are many ex-gay groups. It's not just some club or something. I can't comment on this Marks fellow because I've never heard of him and I don't like speaking of things/people I don't know.
Actually, it seems most psychologists have concluded that homosexuality is not inherent. Odd, eh?
Statistics show that homosexual relations do not last nearly as long as heterosexual ones. Also, there is much more violence in homosexual relations than non-homosexuals ones. Hum, can it be then concluded that being a homosexual is potentially more dangerous than being a heterosexual? Let's be clear here, if homosexuality is truly a measurable social phenemona, then of course turning away from it will be difficult.
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Yes, and while we're killing the gays, let's get rid of the blacks and the jews!
Blacks and Jews are a race you idiot. Homosexuals are not. This is almost as dumb as when I used to call people on the phone and asked their race and they'd say: "I'm American!" (no offence to Americans, but I encountered this more times than I am willing to remember)
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I hate gay people and they shouldnt even deserve to live.
A man and woman come together to reproduce
But when a man and another man comes together, its for no reason and its stupid. Gay people dont even deserve to live in America. They should be sent to Uranus or something.
Extreme.
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Where are these supposed "ex-gays"? WHERE?! I've never seen an ex-gay in my entire life. That point is VOID until you can ****ing prove it. That's why you've had to repeat yourself so many times. Because no one believes you!
Google it.
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e Newspaper in your example made a concious effort to tell homosexuals they are sinners. Homosexuals do not make a concious effort to hurt you. The same way you can tell people who eat Jello they're evil, but they don't hurt you by eating Jello, at least not on purpose. Or how about a more relevent example. A hacker hacked SEN as a concious effort. SEN unintentially apparently annoyed the hacker. Whose problem is it?
And the Toronto Star said, "Christians, you are wrong. Change now and accept our doctrine". They made a conscious effort to hurt Christians by questioning their beliefs? Yet, questioning Christianity is ok? One cannot question homosexuality? Question homosexuality is NOT ok? Let's stop the double standards and take a sharp look in the mirrora.
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didn't say you were of the conservative political party, I said you're of a conservative state on this issue. Meaning you're unwilling to adapt your beliefs to new enviroments, despite the old enviroment being completly different from todays.
I wasn't talking about politics either. But it seems you yourself are unwilling to adapt your beliefs at all. Old/new environment is a bad argument because history shows that there were many eras where homosexuality was completely ACCEPTABLE. Look at Rome. In fact, they practiced many things we consider barbaric and illegal. Let's look at history in a broad view please before we slap my view as "old/conservative".
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But homosexuality in part. DUH. And this proves my point about people making life tough on homosexuals. You just said that they're contributing to the failure of the human race. Nice one, prick.
I still believe that homosexuality can be pure nature. And repeating "EX GAYS PROVE THEIR NON-EXISTENCE!" 50 times isn't going to convince me. There's such a thing as a deviant in society. It's a major element in psychology.
I never said homosexuality in part. I just stated a random statement that was completely off-topic pertaining the imperfections of the human race.
Repeating "ex-gays" should be convincing enough. You cannot change what is genetic. If so, then people who are born blind should be able to change to become "ex-blind", but obviously they cannot. Thus, since ex-gays exist this PROVES that homosexuality is NOT genetic. Yet, you still blindly stick to your ideology? Why do you bother posting if you are not open-minded. If someone provided unequivical proof that homosexuality was by nature, that without a doubt they were born that way, I would change my point of view. Of course, it would be difficult, but I would change my point of view because I'd reather admit to an error than blindly sticking to a flawed ideology to "save face" or because I'm to prideful. Open-mindness =