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Report, edit, etc...Posted by Oo.Insane.oO on 2005-11-28 at 20:56:07

Just when he follows you turn around and beat his

and than he wont follow you again

Some black guy followed me the other day and I was forced to lay down some smack because he wouldnt stop alltho it wasnt much he got the idea that I didnt wanna be follow by his gay

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodle77(MM) on 2005-11-28 at 21:07:33

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I actually think it's a good idea as well, the stuff like that could show him how much people disapprove of these stalkerish ways... I mean it'd probably be a pretty rude awakening for him, but tomorrow when I go up to him with my friend and tell him I don't like this shiz and he needs to stop is gonna be a rude awakening too.

Well, which do you think is better to do first?

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Do-0dan on 2005-11-28 at 21:09:27

the scary part will be if he doesnt stop no matter what you do

Report, edit, etc...Posted by NerdyTerdy on 2005-11-28 at 21:19:18

Good question Moose77, previously Doodle77 right? I think I'm going to talk to him first tomorrow then tell him, if you think it's just me that doesn't like this stuff, then I've got a whole thread in a forum full of people who don't think you should be doing this. o-0 He'll stop following me, trust me. I'll be nicer about it at first, but if he doesn't stop I won't be afraid to gang him with a group of friends (I know it makes me sound like a bush, but would you be more scared if there were like 3-4 people beating you up, or would you be more scared if it was just 1?) That would be a last resort however. Insane I'm gonna try to do it nicer first.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Do-0dan on 2005-11-28 at 21:23:13

violence is never teh answer
just tell your councellor or his parents that he's bothering you

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Oo.Insane.oO on 2005-11-28 at 21:35:44

QUOTE(o-0 @ Nov 28 2005, 09:23 PM)

violence is never teh answer
just tell your councellor or his parents that he's bothering you
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I wasnt at school nor anywhere near my home and I wasnt gonna let that guy keep following me and find out where I live I tried that once and he threw a rock threw my window

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Do-0dan on 2005-11-28 at 21:36:46

then you should report it to the police

Report, edit, etc...Posted by NerdyTerdy on 2005-11-28 at 21:39:00

Sounds like the sorta wuss way out.. Just stand up for yourself sometimes, I'm not saying violence is always good, but it IMO is a good last resort. Or in Insane's case a good thing to resort to because the other thing didn't work.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Do-0dan on 2005-11-28 at 21:42:16

you're not showing that you're better than that person if you attack them
only when they attack you first may you "defend" yourself, but if you attack them, they have the right to report you to the authorities

Report, edit, etc...Posted by NerdyTerdy on 2005-11-28 at 21:54:52

Well, I'd rather deal with him myself than report him to a teacher, IMO it would teach him more of a lesson than reporting him to a teacher for stalking, then him being either suspended for a few days and being allowed to come back, or having to go to counciling. The suspension would teach him nothing, and counciling would teach him little to nothing, while something physical would at least make him not want to mess with me anymore, and probably not anyone else. That's my opinion anyway..

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Do-0dan on 2005-11-28 at 21:57:33

you arent seeing the consequences of physically hitting another person! YOU CAN GET INTO A LOT OF TROUBLE FOR IT

Report, edit, etc...Posted by SiLeNT(U) on 2005-11-28 at 22:30:05

Sometimes, you have no choice but to attack someone. I think it sends a good message, if you mess with me, you're in for some pain.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Do-0dan on 2005-11-28 at 22:31:53

you always have a choice not to attack
if they arent hurting you physically, you should not hurt them physically either

emotionally hurting someone is good

maybe u can call him gayz or something......yes i am 100% against gays

Report, edit, etc...Posted by NerdyTerdy on 2005-11-28 at 22:34:11

Thanks Silent, sometimes it's just the necessary option. At this point I still don't plan on hitting him o-0, I said that was only a last ditch effort to get rid of him. Also I know you can get in a lot of trouble, last year we got 3 days suspension for something like that, this year we get 5-10 days suspension AND our teachers apply us for the Juvenile Detention Center. I wouldn't plan to be dreadfully obvious about it, I mean it might be like a brawl afterschool or something.

Edit: Just saw o-0's post before mine. Dude there's nothing wrong with gay people, I just don't like it when they come onto me. Also I don't like it when it becomes stalkerish. Emotional pain is bitter, it's worse than physical hurting him IMO.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Do-0dan on 2005-11-28 at 22:37:33

so what is your plan A O.o

emotional hurting isnt against teh law, and it also gets the message through

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Joshgt2 on 2005-11-28 at 22:38:36

Did you consider something known as the police. The goverment made them for a reason.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by NerdyTerdy on 2005-11-28 at 22:39:41

Well I've already said it, but I'll repeat myself, just for you o-0. I plan to go up to him in my Technology class tomorrow with a friend, and tell him I don't like the e-mails and stuff he's sending me, and that I want him to back off. My friend will be there to support me. I was going to e-mail him this thread, but he probably wouldn't want to read about how I would gang up on him with a few friends if he didn't back off, but I'll send him this thread IF he doesn't back off, before I take physical action. It'll be like a warning.

Edit: Just saw JoshGT's post, in response to that, I think someone stalking me, as long as I don't feel in danger is something small to go to the police about, if he goes like insane and starts sending me e-mails, like "I'm gonna kill you Robbie" or something after I tell him to back off, then I'll first tell my teacher to get some help, because my teachers will contact one of the police officers at our school

. That is one of the few cool things about our school, we have policemen who just watch out for us around the school, I dunno if that's standard or not.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Do-0dan on 2005-11-28 at 22:42:09

why dont u be upfront with his sexuality and ask if he's gay first (confirm it cuz he might not be gay..or think that he's gay)
THEN u can tell him to stop harassing u

Report, edit, etc...Posted by NerdyTerdy on 2005-11-28 at 22:51:51

o-0 your not really getting it, even if he's not gay I want him to leave me alone, it's creepy to have an eighth grade guy tell another eighth grade guy he loves him, no matter what circumstance. I'm not ready for something like that, and I want him to leave me alone whether he's gay or not.

ADDITION:
Okay I got an update, and now I definetly think that he thinks I'm gay, and I think he is gay.. I told one of my friends today about him like stalking me, and so he like calls out in class "Hey Taylor, do you like Robbie?" and he responds "Hell no," but didn't really sound like he meant it and then I got this e-mail from him just now.

"I'm sorry I said I didn't like you when your friend asked me but I didn't know what you wanted me to say. If you want me to say yes then tell me tomorrow. But if you told them, please don't at least not till we talk.

Taylor"

I'm definetly feeling kinda sorry for him, but I'm definetly not gay. So yeah, I'm gonna have to tell him tomorrow, now I'm pretty sure it's not a misunderstanding.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Joshgt2 on 2005-11-28 at 23:00:22

Your feeling sorry for a guy that is stalking you? It almost seems as if someone is using some reverse phycology to get somewhere, meaning to you. I don't know the whole story but this is my vision of this whole thing

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2005-11-28 at 23:00:50

Sounds like you know what to do. Like I said before, just don't be afraid to take action. That's the only way this'll be over. Don't be your own worst enemy.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by NerdyTerdy on 2005-11-28 at 23:02:24

Thanks Doodan, you actually made me feel reassured this time. JoshGT I'll try to explain better in the morning, I've got to go right now (bedtime). This is disturbing.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Joshgt2 on 2005-11-28 at 23:04:05

You got the goverment and the police on your side i would think. Use them if you must.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by NerdyTerdy on 2005-11-29 at 06:09:55

I've got this under control, if he talks to me in Homeroom, I'll tell him that I'll talk to him in Technology, and say nothing else, then in Technology I want to tell him that, I'm feeling creeped out by his e-mails, and ask him what he meant by "well..... I love you!" in an e-mail.. I think forcing him to say something like that would erm help.. School in two hours and twenty minutes..

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Aikanaro on 2005-11-29 at 07:15:46

QUOTE(NerdyTerdy @ Nov 29 2005, 06:09 AM)

....NerdyTerdy, I think your on the right track. But..meh, you should've repaired this earlier anyways, he already thinks your both in love, since you havn't repelled his first e-mails.

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