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Report, edit, etc...Posted by Azu on 2006-02-12 at 01:36:48

To hell with the bullies !

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Detestable_Evil on 2006-02-12 at 14:35:03

QUOTE(smasher25 @ Feb 11 2006, 07:39 PM)

hmm I know martial arts and should pummel the next guy who attempts to pick on me. K there's this

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who doesn't even know me but tries to pick on me, and think that im this nerd kid whos weak just because one of his friends hates me. That kid who doesnt even know me but tries to pick on me starts to show off to his friends if he does one single

ing thing to me. Once he ATTEMPTED TO pull my binder down but failed. He just went up to his friends tried to act cool and said "I knocked down (my name)'s binder." I mean is knocking down a simple binder of somone who doesn't bother to fight him etc. an accomplishment to be proud of!?!? you know I could pummel this

kid right now because I know Martial arts (TWO) would it be legal? would I get in trouble? Would this whole thing be worth beating this kid up would it be self defense? grr he pushes me into the locker, and makes up lies that I said junk whatever to his friends after he did it. He acts like pushing somone to the locker is kicking somone's

. WEll i could kick his

if I wanted to but I don't know if it would be worth it. I dont know if I would be busted hard/ suspended for doing this.

[SIZE=14] HELP SOMEONE PLEASE
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Mesa have 4 things to say.
1) Tell an adult. If they do nothing about it. If it's a minor punishment the bully recieves, then nag at the teacher/adult until they really do something to stop it.
Tell them what good is a authority if they do nothing against anything. A power not used is better having not that power at all... or was that knowledge? O'well can use for this too.

2) Take matters into your own hands. If the teacher/adult is giving minor punishments because the person that is bullying is lying about an incident, ask the adult/teacher if you can record it and prove them wrong.
If they offer to follow you around, that won't do a thing. When out of sight of an authority is when actions start. Get a small sound recorder and stick it in your pocket or something.
Make sure it's not visible, and good to have backups. (Like one in your shirt/backpack.)
Try them out first if they can record the sound. I never tried this but I think this will work.
If not, then continue nagging at all the adults. If they call you a rat, well tell them rats are smarter than humans, they know when to stop taking a toxic, and bullying.

3) Best not to have conflicts. Try something else without having any conflict, you could get into trouble too.

4) When you become an adult, make a thingy in your area that helps stop bullying. May be reporting, may be stopping the reasons, anything. Or actually you could do it now. If your school has a leadership council or equality council or something... I guess you could join up, and say bullying is a problem, and maybe the school should do something to try to stop it.

ALL THE POWER TO YOU! GL! HF! KA!! DD!!... whoops... kinda got carried away... just good luck to you!

QUOTE(nimadude @ Feb 12 2006, 12:31 AM)

The 10% that are victims is a variable percentage. Victims come and go, not all of them will remain victims forever, thus allowing for new victims, so everyone gets a chance to be bullied.
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Every percentage could never stay the same about the populance. The only thing that I can think of that would never change in percentage, is The law of Conversion of mass.

One more thing, I don't think my percentages are right either. I heard that somewhere, but I'm not so sure what the exact percentages are.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Centreri on 2006-02-12 at 17:16:53

People who pick on those weaker then them in all areas are either cowards or pragmatic. Usually cowards, and of course by pragmatic I mean above average pragmatism. Most people pick simply for feeling of power and superiority; when unprovoked this is an act of cowardice. Others pick simply to be more well liked in a class of idiots, etc. That's pragmatism.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Demaris on 2006-02-12 at 17:20:55

QUOTE(SiLeNT(U) @ Feb 10 2006, 11:35 AM)

That's not cowardice, it's called common sense. What kind of idiot picks on someone who could kick their ass?
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Either cowards or idiots? Sounds right to me.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Hofodomo on 2006-02-12 at 18:03:21

A coward would knowingly pick on someone who could kick his/her ass...something doesn't sound quite right....

Yes, we all know cowards go around instigating fights with people stronger than they are...

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Azu on 2006-02-13 at 00:52:05

QUOTE(Hofodomo @ Feb 12 2006, 04:03 PM)

I think the truth is the exact inverse of that.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by smasher25 on 2006-02-13 at 00:55:55

QUOTE(Detestable_Evil @ Feb 12 2006, 02:35 PM)

Well I've got to wait until they bug me first. If I go tell on them They'll probably call me a bush and stuff and my reputation will go from bad to worse. I dont know if this is worth doing anything about. (because they occasionaly (not always) pick on me)

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Azu on 2006-02-13 at 00:58:45

QUOTE(smasher25 @ Feb 12 2006, 10:55 PM)

If you can do something to stop bully-ism but don't, due to selfish reasons, that is cowardice.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by smasher25 on 2006-02-13 at 00:59:22

Oh yea by the way I keep my knowledge of martial arts a secreat. I dont go boasting about it everyone I know. I look like a prep, I am slightly weak, but my bones are sharp as

Look one punch from me and the unlucky victom collapse and cry (using my martial arts technique). They judge a book by its cover (its how they judge me) yep yep. That's why.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by SiLeNT(U) on 2006-02-13 at 19:08:54

QUOTE(smasher25 @ Feb 13 2006, 12:59 AM)

Oh yea by the way I keep my knowledge of martial arts a secreat. I dont go boasting about it everyone I know. I look like a prep, I am slightly weak, but my bones are sharp as

Look one punch from me and the unlucky victom collapse and cry (using my martial arts technique). They judge a book by its cover (its how they judge me) yep yep. That's why.
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Smasher, I'm going to tell you this now, you should have beat the shiz out of them the first time they messed wit you. That would have sent the message loud and clear and they wouldn't have bugged you anymore. However, now that you've decided to keep it a secret, they'll think you're weak and won't do anything when they fight back, my advice is to just beat the shiz out of them. But that's just my two cents.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Mr.Camo on 2006-02-13 at 19:09:50

Hell yeah it is. Especially when you turn it around on their ass when they say something to you first.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2006-02-13 at 19:20:54

I agree with Camo.

Also, it makes you cool when you do it to people that everyone hates.

Like Nimadude

Report, edit, etc...Posted by olaboy- on 2006-02-13 at 19:26:26

But if everyone else hates them, aren't you sinking into mob mentality? Thinking like that so you yourself won't get picked on.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Gradius on 2006-02-13 at 19:40:46

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hmm I know martial arts and should pummel the next guy who attempts to pick on me. K there's this censored.gif ing censored.gif who doesn't even know me but tries to pick on me, and think that im this nerd kid whos weak just because one of his friends hates me. ou know I could pummel this censored.gif kid right now because I know Martial arts (TWO) would it be legal? would I get in trouble? Would this whole thing be worth beating this kid up would it be self defense?

See you have your martial arts abilities and the other kid has a a giant fist. He's going to be pummeling you. Most martial arts is useless in a normal fight.

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Either cowards or idiots? Sounds right to me.

Then you go up to a kid way stronger than you and see what happens. Unless youre a coward.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by smasher25 on 2006-02-17 at 02:57:24

why does everyone have negative minerals is there that much bad stuff on sen!?!?!

ADDITION:
Hello Is anyone there? I'm not sure if bullying is cool or not yet. But looking on the poll i guess its safe to say Bullying is not cool. Oh nevermind i mean Picking on people. I guess it's not cool. If anyone disagrees tell me.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Minority on 2006-02-18 at 09:25:32

Eh... I don't bully anyone, and I don't get bullied. In my experience, if someone doesn't like someone else, they'll just hurl insults at one another until the teacher tells them to get back to work. And no, it's not cool to pick on someone, it's happened to me before, and I'm just lucky I thought "Argh, sod this," and started sticking up for myself.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Detestable_Evil on 2006-02-18 at 15:01:13

QUOTE(smasher25 @ Feb 12 2006, 11:55 PM)

Dreams and nightmares live on the same street.
If you want to win more, then you have to bid more.

QUOTE(olaboy- @ Feb 13 2006, 06:26 PM)

But if everyone else hates them, aren't you sinking into mob mentality? Thinking like that so you yourself won't get picked on.
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That... is the lowest sense of cowardice, or however you spell it. Also very selfish.

You hide behind the cannon, so you don't get fired at. But the cannon will continue to fire until they run out of ammo, then they'll bring in a new one, somewhere else...

Hiding doesn't help, stopping it does. I however have no right to say this though...

QUOTE(Azu @ Feb 12 2006, 11:58 PM)

If you can do something to stop bully-ism but don't, due to selfish reasons, that is cowardice.
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I agree, and that makes me a coward too! DAMN ME TO HELL!!!

QUOTE(smasher25 @ Feb 12 2006, 11:59 PM)

Oh yea by the way I keep my knowledge of martial arts a secreat. I dont go boasting about it everyone I know. I look like a prep, I am slightly weak, but my bones are sharp as

If they physically assault you, then use it!!! Isn't that what it's about? Defend yourself. If you never use it, then what was good in learning it in the first place? (Less you had fun learning.) Knowledge not used, is better off as not having it at all. That was a quote from someone famous, but I don't rememebr who...

QUOTE(SiLeNT(U) @ Feb 13 2006, 06:08 PM)

I agree... to a certain extent. Just make them back off. If they try it again after that then certainly increase the damage, until they get it. However, one must think of all possible consequences for certain actions.

QUOTE(smasher25 @ Feb 17 2006, 01:57 AM)

People have negative minerals because, well my reason that I had negative minerals was because I gave a friend all my minerals for something, and then I looked at a post of mine and thought it was silly, so I deleted it. Then I had -8 minerals. The end.

One more thing...

QUOTE(Lithium @ Feb 2 2006, 01:33 AM)

For those who are lazy and get picked on guides.

1. Take a shower every morning.

2. Take deoderants after you shower, when you sweat.

3. Bring deoderants to your school.

4. Workout, get up, go walk, do something else, get good grades.

5. Be nice to people, don't be so shy.

6. You'd better not blush.

7. Act plain. Don't get hopes high.

8. Brush teeth 3 times a day, no yellows.

9. Humor Tees are better than game tees.

10. Don't be obsessed with anything.

11. don't act like a gay, or the opposite sex.

12. don't take insults/jokes seriously.
( you better know what to take serious or not or your screwed in your life )

P.S. Iam the kind of a guy that i would pick on somebody if you looked like a nerd. even though i am one.
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I'm sorry but, about the complaint on the list, but I have to let it out.

#1-3 What if one can't afford it? People have different sweat glands-thingies, so some may sweat, and/or stink more.

#4 What if one is too busy? Also some people that are handicapped may not be able to work out. Get good grades? Some people are bullied for that.

#5-7 Some people are as they are. Blushing? What's wrong with blushing, i'll admit I don't like to blush but humans are the only creatures on Earth that can... or so I've heard. God

people are people!

#8 Some people's teeth are that color. Same with their gums. In fact, some people's teeth that are yellow and gums that are red, are healthier than some that are white!... or so I've heard.

#9 Has me all confused.

#10 If one has no obsession, then one must be constantly served a new item.
This reminds me of the olden days rich. One takes only a bite or 3 of a dish, then is served the next.

#11 Some people are gay! How are you to stop that? Some people perfer to act the opposite gender. If you do then good for you not being normal! God

normals! God

me!

#12 Jokes and insults... sometimes are overwhelming. Just like a zergling. One may not break your base, but many will over run it.

Picking on another because you have been picked on... how is that justified in any way? Will bullying ever stop like that then?

Again I want to apologise for doing that. I really had to just let it out.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Zwitch on 2006-02-18 at 16:39:07

Good to see "No" is in the lead

. 3rd Choice should've been "Depends if Friends are Around" b/c its prominent in groups

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Detestable_Evil on 2006-02-18 at 18:49:23

QUOTE(Zwitch @ Feb 18 2006, 03:39 PM)

Good to see "No" is in the lead

. 3rd Choice should've been "Depends if Friends are Around" b/c its prominent in groups

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Why is it that people do that? When their friends are around?
I have a situation where a... silly person in my class only acts stupid with his friends around.
Why is that?

Report, edit, etc...Posted by olaboy- on 2006-02-18 at 20:11:12

To seek attention.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by smasher25 on 2006-02-19 at 19:10:17

Attention attention being cool being cool I guess that's why people bully all the time. TO make them look better, and much stronger. Well Picking on weak people is more like making them weak and making them look worse to me, but why don't everyone else see the world like that. You beat up a nerd, and everyone's like "GOOD JOB" etc.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by olaboy- on 2006-02-19 at 19:13:44

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Then again, the rightous people call the one picking on the nerd a stupid loser.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by SkuLL on 2006-02-19 at 20:25:31

QUOTE(olaboy- @ Feb 19 2006, 07:13 PM)

Then again, the rightous people call the one picking on the nerd a stupid loser.
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People who pick on people are lame and only does it to make themselves feel good and superior to others.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Snipe on 2006-02-19 at 21:15:26

i have never been picked on. Unless your in a really bad school you will. I mean why people care i don't get it. I think it's just human nature to somtimes feel dominant even though your reccessive. lmao.. fun.. i was doing science earlier.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by smasher25 on 2006-02-21 at 02:43:16

Lol I thought the term for people who picked on weak or lowly people were called "Loser". The cool people dont use that term they refer to it as "fag" or "retard" simply because they think that "loser" isn't cool. THen again the people at my school say that bowling isn't cool.

not that I bowl alot.

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