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Do any of you have a child? Have any of you been a parent? (And yes I'm sure that a small percent of the SEN community may have children)

[OPINION] But, many and mostly of you aren't. You are just a couple of teenagers who think the world is revolved around you. You have no clue what it is like to bear a child. You don't know that sense of love, to think that you were a part of making something so beautiful. I'm 14, and it seems I'm smarter than half of you here saying, "My mum is a femal dog cause she hates me!". Yeah I'm sure some of you do have some abusive parents (My dad threw a rake at me and cut my foot open pretty badly - hospital badly) but I forgave him because I KNOW he loves me.

Although, Some people aren't fit for parenting I think. And, if some of you have those kind of parents, then seek help. But to all the ones who hate them because "they won't let me go to the movies, or mall!" then grow up and learn that everything is always about you.

P.S. I love my parents with all my heart, even if we do sometimes fight and squabble. [/OPINION]

Hating your parents is just a childish syndrome. The fery fact that they are alive, are dressed, are not hungry tells that their parents love them. Those who hate their parents for stupid reasons like "my mom doesen't let me drink" are spoiled and ungrateful.

I don't really "hate" my parent.. but I find them extremely annoying.
I like being alone, and my parents enjoy talking and conversing. I will tell them to go away, and they will say "ok..." and lay down on the bed and either be very loud and/or try and talk about things completely irrelevant to life and the world.
My mom will call me. After I hang up she will call again within 5 seconds, no joke. Maybe even a 3rd time. And then she will call some more within the next few minutes. And then people wonder why I threw my phone at the wall.
On my birthday my parent decided they wanted to do all their work and talking in my computer room. I was about ready to yell "Shut up and get the f*** out!" (Now I am glad I have laptop, because in that situation I could have just picked it up and go in the other room.)

Now, normally I can put up with hours of my brother and people asking me to go do things with him (E.g.: weight lifting. He is obsessed with athletics). But with my parents it is all day, every day, every week, etc. and not just half an hour to an hour. (With my brother he is the one who gets bored/annoyed and gives up )

So what ? My mom's overprotective, but every time she tryes to "protect" me I turn it into a joke or say "Yes, of course". That's all. You gotto learn the technique of relaxation

Hmm hating your parents eh? Well i'll share my opinion.

I don't see why teens or kids would hate there parents. They raised you to were you are now but that isnt an excuse. This reminds of this indian comedian who said that Black,Asian,India Indians maybe hispanic are "disiplined" unlike white families.
But back to the point. Sometimes parents might put pressure on you but there is eventually a cool down point (lol cool down) but you know there is somethings better done then not doing it at all like say your going to a rock concert but your parents told you that you cant go for blah,blah reason like there gona preform firestunts. Next thing you know the whole stadium is set on fire thus that life was saved. And there are others rules that might seem unnessicary till done.
But even if you do have a grudge on your parents there is no way of saying "man i hate these people" after during there final minutes of there life they will even confess to doing some wrongs of your own. But hay depends on what parents whoever has if there strict or dead on nice. Well thats my thought. You can get angry at your parents untill you think of other things they have done.

Wow, you're a jerk.

My situation is the same as farty, they talk about the most useless stuff...

I really only hate it when my mom reiterates herself again and again. It's like, I got it the first time mom, I don't need to hear it 8 more times. It's even worse when she's had a little alcohol in her.

She does it becawse she cares for you.

My mom will say the same "Did you know.." or "I heard that.." type of things at least 4 times in a 10 minute period.
She will ask a question, I answer. She will ask it again, I answer. She asks it again, I answer. She asks it AGAIN and I say "I answered you 3 times already!" She says "Oh, I didn't hear you". I say "If you are going to an answer, at least LISTEN for the answer instead of asking the question then ignoring the world."
Even just now she went right outside my door and yelled "HI!"

ADDITION:

How am I a jerk? I like silence, and my parents like to be loud. I can barely even stand the sound of my computer's fan.. (that is why I like this new computer, then fan is only on when it gets hot )

Why would anybody want to hate his own parents?? That crazy.

Yes, I understands little fights and stuff, but how can you actually hate your parents. thats sad.

I've come to terms with this. Most of my 'hate' for my parents comes from problems with myself that they see and they act on. Its really over-rated hating your parents, unless they beat you.

Well first of all you said didn't want to be with your family on your birthday, and that you were about to cuss them out just because they were there, and then you actually blamed your parents. Then you started talking about how you tell your parents to go away when they try to start a conversation with you. I don't know what everyone else thinks but I sure wouldn't want to be your father.

I only say that and do that because its all day, and it gets very annoying.
And if they were trying to center things around me why did they just go in and take all their laptops and then start talking loudly about business and family issues? I don't care about the things they do.
Also you may have missed a big point..

I hate being in fights with my parents, I am reminded of this because I am in one! I am in a fight because of my grades right now. I hate school! Grades suck

What do you want them to talk about? Jerry Springer?
Also, wanting to be alone isn't a reason to dislike your parents because you wouldn't exist there to enjoy being alone in the first place.

Uh. You are again missing something I said.

You tend to not like someone who is extremely annoying to you.

... That's what she says. I love my parents dearly, but they can really get on my nerves.

Telling me again and again, telling me what to do, thinking I'm the only person that can actually do things and actually use to the phone to call people.

My mom nags me a lot about stuff. Like, she'll tell me and I'll know what she wants so I'll say Okay, but she keeps talking. And then she asks me again and again.

Imagine what your kids will be like when they're your age. If you are strict on them, they will probably hate or loathe you but in the end become better people later in life. But if you go all nice on them, they'll be spoiled and become bad people; thus contributing to the downhill in the quality of your country, thus the downhill of your country.

My dad also enjoys repeating my name 50 times. Yes, I know my name. You don't have to tell me it over and over.

I hate you for loving me, I love you for hating me, save yourself. Hate and bitterness are the only weapons wielded by the blade.