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Ahem, I feel I must address the big elephant in the room.
One major problem in the world is the belief that racism has been for the most part "cured" when in fact the meaning of the word has changed.
Take for instance a study that was conducted recently in which a college admitted several students from Zimbabwe. The study was done to see if there was still racism around today. When the researchers asked the white students already attending the college whether or not they were racist, they all proudly said "no."
Yet when the new students came in, they were not able to make many friends and in fact, most of them left before finishing college, because they couldn't live as secluded as they were. Yet the same question was posed after the study, of whether or not the students were racist, and they all again said "no."
What was determined by the study was that it was not the color of the skin that set the students from Zimbabwe apart from their classmates. That form of racism has been effectively dealt with. Yet the cultural aspects of the Africans were so much different that communication between the two cultures was almost nonexistent.
Racism has nothing to do with any of that.
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In our society, we have a certain way of talking to one another. We stand at roughly arms length, and talk in what we have come to call "classroom voices" or something like that. When we have something important to say, we say it louder, and when we speak to one another we generally change our tone of voice to make points.
Now in the African students culture, they had many French influences. When talking to others, they tended to stand at roughly shoulders distance, which invaded our cultures comfort zone. They also had the tendency to talk louder than we normally do in our society. The effect this had on what many of the white students thought of them was that they were loud and annoying. While this is not necessarily racist, the minorities could not understand why nobody else wanted to talk to them, and concluded that the entire school was in fact racist.
To conclude, our society, although we may be able to look past simple skin color, still has this problem dealing with the way people act differently.
What's your point? Just because they couldn't understand some aspects of American culture doesn't mean anyone was being racist. If you were to go to Africa right now in your current state, people would think you were a strange person. You can't just expect people to accept cultural differences in their own country, it's courtesy of the visitor to learn to assimilate in the new country. People these days want to be so politically correct that they are invading things that are already as good as they get.
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People often say that they don't really dislike African Americans, but they hate the "gansta" attitude many hold. In much of society we have pretty much accepted that there can be "wiggers" who are white kids acting in the same fashion, and it has almost become an accepted norm. (Living in a place where 99% of the people are white, I see lots of them...) But why don't we see many punk Africans, or preppy for that matter. They are not as accepted by the rest of us. (In fact the only black person I have ever seen dress punk is Saul Williams, who is a great poet and puts many racial differences to shame.)
I experience the direct opposite of what you experience, this is just dependant on where you live. Also, more Africans tend to dislike "punk" and take education less seriously. That's not racism, that's just what happens.
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You think if a white child who had no influence from parents met a black child they would wanna hang out with other kids that are thier same skin color?
Of course I think that. Let's make an imaginary situation. You like ice cream. You see a man who doesn't like ice cream and a man who does like ice cream. You prefer the man who is more like you. That's basic human preference. It's just natural, not bad intentions.
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Even black business owners still have to constantly prove themselves that they are qualified for the job, and they have to work harder at it. (A national poll suggests that African business care roughly 20% more about their job then leisurely activities and family.)
You argue in the same paragraph that we should accept cultural differences. Haven't you considered the possibility that this is another cultural aspect of Africans? Evidence like this doesn't support anything in your statements.
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Besides, that is racism, just because its not derogatory doesn't mean it isn't segregation or unintentional unequality.
With groups thats for each race, a hierarchy within society is built and usually some will feel like they are outsiders and it creates tension between the groups.
Look up racism.
Also, outsiders aren't restricted to race. I don't see anyone complaining about how "goth" people don't like "punk" people, or anything of the sort. We just like people who are like us, that doesn't mean we think we are better than anyone else. You can't just tell people to make friends with others who don't share the same interests, that's an invasion of freedom.