Wow... some really mature anwsers. Especially from you Falcon

, and I of course expect nothing less of your Doodan

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Ex boyfriends... Hmmm... The more abusive the guy was, the greater the chance she will go back. You have to maintain the dominance in the relationship between you two for the best chances, but some girls are just too stupid for their own good. I hope your girl is not.
I wasn't planning on getting into my personal life too much, but due to this quote, I shall. I really wanted to make this a generalized topic for more discussion-type responses then just about my life.
This ex was incredibly abusive. They used to collect decorative but real weapons, like battle axes, swords, maces, etc. They were used on her. He also cheated on her, lied to her, raped her... and I don't even know the half of it. She was with him for 6 years. Through-out the first 2 months of our relationship, she really wanted to continue a friendship with him. And from how I saw it sometimes, she still had serious feelings for this guy. I laid down a line that she couldn't see him in person without me being there. That was broken twice that I know of, not entirely to her fault... perhaps. She might have lied about him just popping up, but like the 2nd time he came over, she called me on my cell and told me to come home from work because he was outside the apartment.
So... maintain dominance? I pretty much intend to. I don't see it as a trust factor.
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As far as question #1... there's a few guys that like her. The one I have a problem with the most says some freaked up things to her like "It's been awhile since I got laid" and crap. She's going through a situation that he's been through before, so he's trying to use that to his full advantage to get to her. He sexually harasses girls at work (not just my girl) and is generally a pervert. He's like 39 or something (we both are 22). My girl says he freaks her out and would never go out with him to get coffee or etc... but that doesn't stop her from talking on the phone with him. That confuses the hell out of me.
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Sooner or later, he won't be able to hold back his "true feelings" anymore, and then she will file the restraining order. He will take care of himself.
Haha, yeah... that generally happens. And yes, girls tend to deny another guy's true motives, even if they are blatantly obviously. I think they just like the attention the other guy gives them so much that they want to be blind... or something.
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For that reason, if you two stay fairly close while you or she dates someone else, you two WILL cheat on your partners with eachother.
I haven't cheated on my girlfriends with her... never will. But she'll cheat on her boyfriends for me. Getting back with her... is like... impossible. I don't see how there can be trust. I'm not physically attracted to her anymore.
She cheated on me... with my sister...
Haha...
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Falcon: Haha... girls are full of double standards. But you really need to stop spending more time with girl b instead of girl a. I would be worried myself if I was dating you

. I wish you luck.
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As far as this being in lite discussion, it was my intentions to make this a discussion about jealousy / trust / etc... instead of my life. Another mod can move it if they wish.