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Immidiatly after, he got all angry, if it was over PM I wouldn't have minded, but he'd start topics about "OMG I GOT WARNED BY A GIRL!!" thanks to the admins, he was done away with, since it was repeated spamming and flaming.
You forgot the most important reason to ban him. It's sexist. If you're including sexism in the catagory of flamming you're proving how vague you are.
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Later, one of the people with more expierence than me told me that it wasn't a good idea to tell people when they are warned, because it creates problems like that.
Confrontations are a part of life. At work, at home, with friends. Ignoring it is kinda pathetic. If the theory here, is that if someone breaks the rules, they're not worthy of the site, fine. But different moderators have diffrent policies, so it messes up the whole system.
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I see your point though. I'll tell you when I warn you, unless an admin has a problem with that. Deal?
What on Earth made you think that would be a good thing to say?