Report, edit, etc...Posted by 00cnr on 2005-11-19 at 16:33:41
Enjoy your friendship, maybe go to prom together as friends, that's probably what I would do.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Freedawk on 2005-11-20 at 07:25:57
This is the same exact thing that happened to me yesterday... 
...But don't piss her off and maybe call her up and invite her to a movie or go hang out at the mall. If you can explain that breaking up doesn't ruin your friendship since you can just say that you can just be friends after the break-up, then your in good hands.
...But don't piss her off and maybe call her up and invite her to a movie or go hang out at the mall. If you can explain that breaking up doesn't ruin your friendship since you can just say that you can just be friends after the break-up, then your in good hands.Report, edit, etc...Posted by UN-Rommel on 2005-11-20 at 12:19:33
Just try to be a nice guy with manors and give her gifts and take her to her favorite places.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by RedNara on 2005-11-20 at 21:20:29
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my best friend doesn't help ether
wow if your best friend you should totally ask her out and tell her you like her... man dont care about that other dude who got rejected. just be even nicer to her and like what does she like
get her something she likes and asking to the dance is way better then just like "hey wanna go out with me" i donno first ask her if she wants to go with you and then ask her out later. or listen to what other ppl say.. on this thread not me
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Sinister_X on 2005-11-21 at 07:57:51
actually everyone already thinks we are going out. so heres what im ganna do, ask her to prom if she says no ill go anyways. if shes there ill request our favoret song "You and Me" and dance with her. ill see where it goes from there. one more thing. i already get her presents and stuff and we sped holidays at eachothers houses. we hug and go bowling and to the movies together. so not much will change. got any advise on what we should do together? moneys not an object. i have endless funds to work with.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Oo.Insane.oO on 2005-11-21 at 15:40:18
Eather take her to a decent or nice resteraunt not like fastfood or just see what she wants to do and go with that
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Snipe)r( on 2005-11-21 at 20:00:23
take her to a NICE resteraunt not mcdonalds or wendy's LMAO. like Authority said.
so did u ask her yet? or are u going to? if she says no, i like ur idea.
so did u ask her yet? or are u going to? if she says no, i like ur idea.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-11-22 at 12:38:26
Ask her out, then fark her. Dump her to the curb afterwards 
No. Be nice to her. Females enjoy kindness, and compassion.
No. Be nice to her. Females enjoy kindness, and compassion.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by I-X-King-X-I on 2005-11-22 at 13:46:27
be friends for now..
then if BOTH of you want to have a stronger relationship..
etc..
etc..
if YOU BOTH get grandchidlren..tell them about me about being Godly and such
then if BOTH of you want to have a stronger relationship..
etc..
etc..
if YOU BOTH get grandchidlren..tell them about me about being Godly and such
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2005-11-22 at 16:38:38
QUOTE(Kellimus @ Nov 22 2005, 12:38 PM)
Ask her out, then fark her. Dump her to the curb afterwards
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HAHA! That's how it's done!
Money or no money, just don't put her under too much pressure. Don't put her in a position where she feels like she OWES you a favor or something. Sometimes you get lucky and the girls that feel obligated to repay you for kindness do so with sex or affection (I've had my share), but I do prefer it when the girl is diggin' it too, ya know
When brainstorming, if it FEELS like a bad idea, don't do it. You gotta play these things by feel.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Sessase on 2005-11-22 at 17:11:09
A Best friend is forever, A Girlfriend won't last forever...
It's all about you, Keep a best friend, Or get a girl for what.. 1week to 3 years?
Or.. Maybe a fark friend?
It's all about you, Keep a best friend, Or get a girl for what.. 1week to 3 years?
Or.. Maybe a fark friend?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2005-11-22 at 17:35:13
QUOTE(Sessase @ Nov 22 2005, 05:11 PM)
A Best friend is forever, A Girlfriend won't last forever...
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Are you gonna take advice from a guy who has "god of sex pleasure" in his av/sig?
Heheheh.That brings up another thing I wish I'd done when I was younger. That is: Don't place too much value on a single person. I know, I know it's HARD not to at that age, but not caring too much will put you at ease. You'll act more natural around her and not regret it if anything goes wrong.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Freedawk on 2005-11-22 at 22:03:42
QUOTE(Sinister_X @ Nov 21 2005, 07:57 AM)
actually everyone already thinks we are going out. so heres what im ganna do, ask her to prom if she says no ill go anyways. if shes there ill request our favoret song "You and Me" and dance with her. ill see where it goes from there. one more thing. i already get her presents and stuff and we sped holidays at eachothers houses. we hug and go bowling and to the movies together. so not much will change. got any advise on what we should do together? moneys not an object. i have endless funds to work with.
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When you dance with her, try to tell her that you love her, you would take a bullet for her, and you would do anything for her...If she doesn't do anythign stupid with you or anyone else. Get her something that she would keep forever, like a necklace, or a picture, or a ring, or an earring. And out her close to you while you dance and just Chill and relax and just sweet talk. Whisper in her ear things that you like about her.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2005-11-22 at 22:12:12
QUOTE(The_Falc @ Nov 22 2005, 10:03 PM)
When you dance with her, try to tell her that you love her, you would take a bullet for her, and you would do anything for her...If she doesn't do anythign stupid with you or anyone else. Get her something that she would keep forever, like a necklace, or a picture, or a ring, or an earring. And out her close to you while you dance and just Chill and relax and just sweet talk. Whisper in her ear things that you like about her.
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RESIST the urge to be over sweet. Telling girls how you feel about them WILL NOT make them feel the same way. It's like informing them of a terminal illness. Even if they do like you, telling them you love them will still hurt your chances. Girls only want to hear you say you love them when they can't take anymore of your distantness. It only works in Hollywood movies because most screenwriters don't know how to get girls in real life. No offense, Falc... but you're a bit young to be giving advice on this. I've been round the block a few times.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Oo.Insane.oO on 2005-11-24 at 11:26:17
If she ends up being a golddigger than dump her thats the last thing you want is to end up with a golddigger
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Sinister_X on 2005-11-29 at 08:00:03
exellent advice. and guess what i just heard from a reliable source that she herself said she likes me and was wondering if i liked her. so today i shall invite her to the movies on saterday to watch "Just Freinds" and ask her to prom. is this a good movie for this? also i wont be able to fark her because she is very religius and only believes in marital sex. the funny part is since someone mentioned takeing a bullet. you know those nightmares where everyone is getting killed by zombies or whatnot. the first thing i always do is try to find her and make sure she is safe. im late for class i have to go. i also got her a braclet for Christmas. everyone so far thinks itws perfect.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Slayer_dt_ on 2005-11-29 at 09:52:27
There are 3 scenarios here:
1) She'll think your nuts.
2) She'll confess that she likes you too.
3) She'll ask you to just remain as her friend.
And if it's 1) you'll still be friends.
And if it's 2) you'll end up getting married.
And if it's 3) you'll still be friends though less closer.
And if it's neither of the above, I have no idea what she'll do so good luck
1) She'll think your nuts.
2) She'll confess that she likes you too.
3) She'll ask you to just remain as her friend.
And if it's 1) you'll still be friends.
And if it's 2) you'll end up getting married.
And if it's 3) you'll still be friends though less closer.
And if it's neither of the above, I have no idea what she'll do so good luck
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2005-11-29 at 10:23:45
QUOTE(Sinister_X @ Nov 29 2005, 08:00 AM)
exellent advice. and guess what i just heard from a reliable source that she herself said she likes me and was wondering if i liked her. so today i shall invite her to the movies on saterday to watch "Just Freinds" and ask her to prom. is this a good movie for this? also i wont be able to fark her because she is very religius and only believes in marital sex. the funny part is since someone mentioned takeing a bullet. you know those nightmares where everyone is getting killed by zombies or whatnot. the first thing i always do is try to find her and make sure she is safe. im late for class i have to go. i also got her a braclet for Christmas. everyone so far thinks itws perfect.
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Seeing a movie like that is a good idea as long as you kind of rub in the "Just Friends" thing. Imply that she likes you too much and that you're uncomfortable with it, BUT DON'T SAY THAT! Girls love that sort of thing.
As far as the religious stuff goes... if you play your cards right, she won't be able to control herself. There's a saying that goes "If a girl is NOT attracted to you, then there's nothing YOU can do about it. If a girl IS attracted to you, then there's nothing SHE can do about it."
Heheheh... Another funny thing. Religious virgin girls are 4 times as likely to give other types "un-natural" sex than nonvirgins.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by KrAzY on 2005-11-30 at 02:11:59
Advices from SEN will never work out, even this Advice.
Find a True friend and ask him or her for an advice. People in SEN might give advices for you to pick a nerd girl or a retarded one.
None of the above will work unless it looks like a success.
Find a True friend and ask him or her for an advice. People in SEN might give advices for you to pick a nerd girl or a retarded one.
None of the above will work unless it looks like a success.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Sinister_X on 2005-11-30 at 07:55:17
Are you implying that the girl i like is a nerd or retarded? if you read correctly you will see that i have already chosen the girl and am simply asking advise on how to develop it further. If you think she is a nerd because she is a virgin you are mistaken, she's a sweet innocent attractive girl. you must be speaking of past experience. I on the other hand find the advise here on SEN very helpful. its real people with real advice. why not try to give some. 
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Diggidoyo on 2005-11-30 at 08:50:08
QUOTE(KrAzY @ Nov 30 2005, 01:11 AM)
Advices from SEN will never work out, even this Advice.
Find a True friend and ask him or her for an advice. People in SEN might give advices for you to pick a nerd girl or a retarded one.
None of the above will work unless it looks like a success.
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Find a True friend and ask him or her for an advice. People in SEN might give advices for you to pick a nerd girl or a retarded one.
None of the above will work unless it looks like a success.
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Hey Krazy I resent that remark. Just because we post on SEN doesn't mean we have to have nerdy girlfriends... Take my case for example... "Give me a V!" Give me an "arsity!" What's that spell?????
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2005-11-30 at 09:24:18
some nerdy girlfriends are hawt.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kow on 2005-11-30 at 15:49:30
There's different levels of nerdy...
Report, edit, etc...Posted by NerdyTerdy on 2005-11-30 at 18:17:03
Sounds like it's going good, although I wouldn't really know... Rofl I've gone out with probably like four girls in my life, I'm lame lol. The last girl wanted to fark me the first time I went out with her, lol I wasn't ready, probably good choice too, looking back on it this girl was pretty weird.. She collected condoms lol.. Anyhow good luck man, hope you have better luck than I have with girls so far.. I got shot down twice, then I was in two relationships one right after the other, none of it was very good...
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kow on 2005-11-30 at 19:28:27
The reason I haven't had 'many' girlfriends ( like 5 maybe) is because I dont think a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship should be taken lightheartedly. A new partner ever week is absurd!