QUOTE(Yoshi da Sniper @ Dec 30 2005, 12:15 AM)
I comeforth not as a friend, administrator, or member of the site. I comeforth as a human being, extremely offended by the conduct of how people (by "people", I don't mean pointing your fingers at DT_BK, I mean everybody who participated) handled the death of a member of this website, nuclearrabbit.
Some of you are speculating that it might be a prank or joke. As I have said before: death, is no joke. Apparently almost everybody at SEN has no shame, as events over the past few days of handling the loss of the SEN family doesn't appear to have any effect as everybody is acting like a complete idiot.
I know someones going to think that someone guessed the password to my account or is using some sort of spoofing technique to pretend to be Yoshi_da_Sniper. This post contains EXACTLY what I think. I am aware I have left but I after seeing the heartless actions of many of the people here, I have decided to truthfully express my feelings.
First off, WHY IN THE **** WOULD YOU CAPITALIZE ON THE DEATH OF A MEMBER OF THESE BOARDS? Yes. I'm sure nuclearrabbit would of wanted a tournament in her memory, or how about various signatures created by ripping off her avatar? If a friend or family member died, would you start hosting starcraft tournaments or creating photoshop signatures and avatars in honor of them? NO! You all absolutely miss the point. I'm pretty sure her friends and family are pretty much sickened by the heartless actions of people here. Whats even worse, is I haven't seen the current administration or moderation staff step in and take action. They actually find this acceptable...
"Showing respect" does not mean "spreading complete lies and sarcasm". I see some random person posting something like "I'm crying myself to sleep everyday" or "omg is it true lol" is not respectful. The sad thing is, these people didn't even know nuclearrabbit. I sure hope none of her family or friends were reading the kind of garbage you guys put up, because it was nothing but sarcasm and lies, from all of you. You cannot get anymore disrespectful if you treat the ones who know the deceased like complete idiots.
Honestly, I made the site, I have seen it grow, I have seen it have some good times. This my friends, is the end. We have passed the peak and it now appears that the site is in a decline, because apparently all the people I knew who had common sense are now gone or not very active. Nobody is left but apparenty people who have no clue how to treat serious situations.
As of now, a lot of the respect I had for many people is gone. There are like one or two people who treated the situation like it should have been in the first place. My message for you, is that you should step up and tell people what they are doing is WRONG. I think my future visits will be more infrequent and shorter in length now. I just can't believe the way people acted.
By the way. I notice that everytime I make a post like this, the people who applies to apparently change their additudes so fast and attempt to look smart or cool. Just for once, spare me. Pretty much everybody is gulity. What you should do instead, is reflect on the action, REALIZE there is something morally wrong with the actions of people here, identify future problems and speak up/take action about them. It is far too late to fix the damage that has already been done.
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QUOTE(SpaceBoy2000 @ Dec 30 2005, 12:16 AM)
I completely agree here. I have been here almost since the beginning, and I have never seen such insulting acts. I'm pretty sure most people would be banned long ago if they started posting anything like this. First of all, all the avatars and pictures just smacks of "let's all join the bandwagon". Even in the topic about her death, people start joking around, and act like goddamn ass holes. This sound familiar to you idiots? "*Removes hand from pants* Well shizta. You just ruined the moment, thanks -_-" You might as well start spitting on her grave. Is that what SEN has degraded into? A bunch of goddamn moron making lewd "jokes" when someone has DIED?! And the even worse part is that other people followed up on this as well. And no moderator or admin even commented on this at all. This shameful behaviour is acceptable on this forum?
Ah yes, the CTF tournament. I must agree with Mini Moose. I completely fail to see the how the tournament "honours" nuclearrabbit. Maybe if it's a map that she made, or one that she played a lot, it would've even made any sense at all. But now, it just look like an attempt to use the death of a member to promote one's map. As for "representing" nuclearrabbit in the tournament, is there no end to your depravity? You all seem to treat this as a big farking joke. Are you people immature lemmings or immoral bags of filth?
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You have no right to say I have no decency.
I mourned her death. I payed my respects to her. Wow.. I posted one, pathetic post to try to liven the mood, and make people laugh, but I get biznatched at for it?
How pathetic is that.
Don't YOU GUYS have decency?
QUOTE(Hitok1r1 @ Dec 30 2005, 03:27 AM)
Yoshi is right. We acted like idiots by saying "OMG, is she really dead?", or "Wtf, Nuclear is a she". Thats basically missing the whole point though. We should of just mourned for Nuclear instead of just spreading lies and flaming. The tournament has nothing to do with Nuclear, and is doing nothing to remember Nuclear.
QUOTE(Revelade)
Basically, I'm saying mourning is a phase and we eventually need to move on.
Are you basically saying that, whats done is done and we have to get on with our lives eventually?
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So wait. Let me get this straight.
You're saying everyone that posted, "Wtf, nuclear was a she" has no decency? What the hell is your problem? Ever heard of not being informed? Maybe they publicly wanted to announce that, so what the hell?
We get biznatched at because we try to liven the mood and make people laugh, and we publicly announce something we was ignorant of? What the hell is your guy's problems? People make mistakes. You come on here claiming you're here as human beings, but you degrade everyone here because they were ignorant? What kind of "human being" are you?
That's like me going up to somebody and beating the shiz out of them, because they asked a question to try to inform themselves. You just don't farking do it.
I thought you had more brains than that, Yoshi. I guess I was wrong.
I also think you have no right to say no-one has decency because they were in DENIAL (One of the steps of greviences) of nuclear's passing on.
Some decency YOU have.