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Report, edit, etc...Posted by MicAarZur on 2007-01-26 at 00:31:42
QUOTE(DT_Battlekruser @ Jan 25 2007, 10:45 PM)
Don't they have lunch at your school? Brunch? Before school? After school?  Opportunities abound.
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Not with her there isn't. She says her schedule is tight but I don't believe her.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2007-01-26 at 00:37:33
QUOTE(MicAarZur @ Jan 26 2007, 12:31 AM)
Not with her there isn't. She says her schedule is tight but I don't believe her.
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Hence:
QUOTE(Doodan @ Jan 25 2007, 09:45 PM)
If a girl can't make time for you, she's probably just flat uninterested. I know from experience that girls will make some amazingly ridiculous sacrifices if they are really into you.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by MicAarZur on 2007-01-26 at 00:43:02
QUOTE(Doodan @ Jan 25 2007, 11:37 PM)
QUOTE(MicAarZur @ Jan 25 2007, 11:31 PM)

Not with her there isn't. She says her schedule is tight but I don't believe her.
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Hence:
QUOTE(Doodan @ Jan 25 2007, 08:45 PM)

If a girl can't make time for you, she's probably just flat uninterested. I know from experience that girls will make some amazingly ridiculous sacrifices if they are really into you.

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Hence:

QUOTE(MicAarZur @ Jan 25 2007, 12:25 AM)
I think that if she doesn't ask me I'm completely moving on.
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Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2007-01-26 at 00:55:48
Well put.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by DT_Battlekruser on 2007-01-26 at 01:22:44
Not making time for a high school dance and deliberately hiding during lunchtime are two entirely different things.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by NerdyTerdy on 2007-01-26 at 02:13:43
QUOTE(DT_Battlekruser @ Jan 26 2007, 01:22 AM)
Not making time for a high school dance and deliberately hiding during lunchtime are two entirely different things.
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Lol, I love the way you put that. deliberately HIDING during lunchtime lol.

QUOTE(Doodan @ Dec 22 2005, 04:04 PM)
QUOTE(NerdyTerdy @ Dec 22 2005, 00:00 PM)
What happens in the "Friend Zone"?



Absolutely NOTHING! Beware. If you don't know already, you will soon enough. It's like one of those glue traps for mice. It's hard to resist, but once you get stuck, there's no getting out. There's a reason why good friend's can't be lovers (at least not until mid 30s):

Women are like snot-nosed toddlers that wanna be spanked. If you are incapable of holding their attention for every SECOND, then you're toast. God forbid you should be boring for one day, because they will be history. They will sacrifice their children, friendships, family ties, and millions of dollars, just to chase someone/something that interests them. They don't wanna be nutured unless they're either playing you, starved for affection because they're social outcasts, or they get past their physical prime and they have shrinking options. I date a lot, but I personally find that I do not really like women as people unless they're WELL into adulthood. Ironically, the ones I don't treat well are the ones that are hard to get rid of, but that's not what I want. You have to play against yourself to win with women. I realize my opinion may be warped by my countless bad experiences with them, so I hope you guys can find a good one and keep 'em somehow.


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I know a lot of guys associate "being friends" with a girl to not having a chance of nailing them. That is true some of the time (moreso in highschool, when neither guys or girls have any idea what the hell they're doing), but if you want it to last any length of time, you gotta be friends. Even if you find out the two of you don't click, you can still go on being friends. In short: Even if you don't win, you don't exactly lose, either.


Talk about huge opinion change?

Anyway MAZ, I don't know how you feel about this girl, but if you feel about her as I felt about Sam all I can say is good luck getting over her. I still feel an ache in the spot in my heart where I had to rip her from. But that's another subject. Anyway from the advice I've heard from guys the main theme I've picked up has been 'Be yourself.' GL.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2007-01-26 at 10:47:35
lol, I was a bit more bitter when I said that over a year ago. I did say in the recent post that the "friend zone" was more a problem for highschoolers, since girls themselves don't always believe they can date their male friends. Of course, that can still happen at any age, but women do broaden their horizons a bit more as they get older (most of them). Notice how I said it doesn't work that well until they're in adulthood in the older post. My opinion has changed a little since then, though. I think its possible to be lovers with a friend at a younger age. I have observed it. However, getting stuck in "friend zone" has everything to do with YOUR expectations. If you're only after a girl because you want her, then you run a higher risk of getting hurt by "being just friends". But as I said in my newer post, if you meet girls just to make friends with them and see what happens, then you won't be hurt if nothing does.

So then, I guess you could say that I have broadened my horizons a bit since then. I still stand by what I said back in '05 if you are determined to have only a romantic/sexual relationship with a certain girl. But that sort of passionate persistance isn't exactly the best mindset to have if you want a healthy relationship. Still though, you're a lot more likely to get a girl to deepthroat a cucumber on command than you are to find one that'll rub your back after a hard day without being asked. Or so my experiences have taught me.

But nowadays, I'm recommending taking the friend route. That way, you can talk to as many as you want, and weed out the nimrods without prying too much or getting your feelings hurt. Of course, you should still play a little hard to get it if your instincts tell you one of your new friends is really starting to like you.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Yenku on 2007-01-26 at 18:19:50
One thing to know, don't ignore girls, if they talk to you even, it means something.
If she doesn't ask you out, she doesn't ask you out. Maybe she doesn't want to go all together? But, one thing is for sure, if she doesn't ask you, the world won't end, and neither will your relationship.

But here is another thing to know, when you know you're close with another person, you don't start dating someone else. That kinda hurts.

I'm a magnet though, I don't even have to hit on girls and I got 4 I could have at anytime. I feel bad though, I don't wanna commit to any. So I sit at home and masturbate or hook up with a hottie at some party.

Don't get attached too early. Best thing to do is to just make friends that are of the opposite sex, and get some when you can.
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