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Yeah 5 is my count... dating too often would take the fun out of it... and I've NEVER said the 3 dreaded words:

"I LOVE YOU"

I wont say those 3 words in that order to any chick until I'm sure I mean it.

Nooooo.

i asked her to the movie and she said she could'nt plus shes acting really wierd lately all depressed or something everytime i ask her whats wron she says shes just tired. exept she acts like that when i come over too. i didnt get the chance to ask her to prom since she didnt go. ahhh whats wrong. actually i think she doesnt trust me because i called her at 12:00 drunk. what do you think it is?

....Big mistake Imo.

There's a 90% chance you've blown it. You were probably giving her too much attention (in one way or another). If there is ANY chance of something happening, then I'd advise you to STOP TALKING to her all together. Don't call, don't start any conversations. If you have class with her, then INGNORE her. Odds are, you've messed up for good. But if there's ANY chance left at all, then wait for her to come to you after you stop talking to her (don't fold, hold your poker face as long as it takes). If she does start talking to you again, then act like you didn't notice, make a joke out of it or something. NO serious stuff. If she doesn't come back to you, then it's time to move on, my friend. You're in for a world of hurt if you try to get her now with things as they are.

Trust me, I've been through this more times then I'd like to admit.

Another reason not to get drunk. Lmao!

Well you said you heard she liked you right. Did you ever think she didnt go cause you didnt ask her. Maybe she got her hopes up that you'd ask her, but since you didn't she became depressed? Although, it's also quite possible that Doodan is right. So it's pretty much up to you to decide since well.. you know her more then we do. If i were in your position, i'd still sometime before she moves tell her how i felt just so i would know. I wouldn't be able to live wondering "What if.." and stuff. I'd just go like insane.

How did you get yourself into this??
1. Girls never wanna go out with thier best friends (except for that crappy movie the trojan war or whatever)
2. I would value a good relationship more than a close bf+gf relationship.
3. Most people who go to prom just go with thier friends as dates anyway.

My suggestion: Find another girl to be your love. The one you have a crush on is never going to want to go out with you, stop decieving yourself. Keep her as a good friend rather than someone you possibly end up hating cause you thought it would be fun to try and go out with her. That doesn't mean you can't ask her to the prom tho. I would if I didn't have a gf by then.

I have yet to confess to a girl I like too...

Anyways Sinister, I think you should do it. There is nothing to lose, is there?

this is the second weirdest topic on sen i have ever seen. Thats a big thing. The other one was religion which was pritty stupid. I mean why would you fiht over religion and why would you ask computer nerds about Girls.. i'm sorry. This is weird.

Umm.. excuse me but the way you make it sound like none of us have relationships. I don't know about you but i've had many girlfriends. Just cause we play SC doesn't mean we have no lives.

hehe......right......

for me:
a woman much more intelligent than me and has the same interests, dont really care about her looks

Noob, there's definantly a topic for that, this is 'counseling' for this guy.

I know what it's like to love your best friend (Who's opposite sex). I asked her out, and she said that we should 'just be friends'. *sigh*

im sort of giving him advice....go for teh smart ones!

That really wasn't advice, but I'll let you slide.