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Thing is, I haven't seen her in almost (if not more than) a month. There's no way to do any of that stuff if it even was needed (But I do understand your logic)

ROFL... you couldn't hang out because your parents couldn't drive you? Can't you just bus? By the way, I agree with Doodan, grow some balls and get in the game.

There's no bus. I live in the middle of freaking nowhere. I live 20 miles from her house, I can't drive, bike or walk. Plus her mom's being (-.-) and won't let her go on a 'date' with me (movies etc) 'cause she's 'too young'.

Have you gotten this directly from her mom, or was the girl in question the only one who told you that? That's a common maneuver. They establish early on that there's something that could suddenly take them away from you (overprotective parents, busy job, kids, etc...), and if you aren't quite what they hoped for, then they use this as a way out. If a girl is really into you, then she will make the most unbelievable sacrifices to be with you. They're no better than men when it comes to clinging hard to someone they like.

Too long. NEXT!
(The second coming stories are usually better anyway).

It was from her, but she's not lie aboot that. Her mom's just very overprotective.

Well... judging by some of the things that you've said she's into, and from what I've heard you say about her, it doesn't sound like her mom is on watch duty. It only seems her mom comes into the picture when you're the issue at hand.

Anyways, what I'm getting at here is: Date other girls.

What Doodan said, just break it off. If you havn't seen her in a month she doesn't care about the relationship as much you do.

I guess you're not reading. Neither of us can drive and neither of us have rides to anywhere. It's not like she's avoiding me. I've seen her actively try to fix the 'dating' problem by trying to arrange a group movie. (I'd do it, but she doesn't know any of my friends).

So let me get this straght... her overprotective mom won't let her see you but its okay with her for her to get romantically involved with other women?

Two girls can't make babies.

That's what I was talking about. Her mom only comes into the picture to conveniently hinder Kow's progress.

I don't think that her mom knows.

If she gets away with that, then why does her mom have to know she's hanging out with you?

Because going to a friend's house (whom's a girl) is not going to a guy's house (whom she's dating) or to a movie with just the guy.

I might suggest that telling people what kind of girl she is, might help with advice for winning her back.

I'm not trying to win her back...

Ah, my bad.

Sorry, kinda tired, read through it a little too quickly.


But even so, knowing what type of a girl she is could help with alot of things(From my experience), I went through the same stuff with my g/f, except some ****** was filling her mind with BS.

Yea, I hate it when people corrupt/fill their minds with false information, especially about people.

Especially when you're with that person for a year and a half, and suddenly some jerk comes along and starts sucking up to her, being completely fake and making her feel like a goddess, making me out to be a badguy because I upset her sometimes.

Yea, wasn't there a commercial with something along that premise? For like body spray or something. Game Killer, I think it was called.

Right... I don't watch TV.

But anyway, my point is, say if she's considering leaving you and you want her back(This is just an example) and if she's told you she loves you... don't talk to her, and let her come to you, say you two talk to eachother on a messanger program and you always IM her when she comes on, don't IM her and usually it'll drive them nuts.

Again, that was just an example, and really, Doodan sounds like he knows his stuff more than anyone here.

Edit: Forgot to add that would be an example of something you 'could' do if she was the clingy and used to routine type.

I agree 100% (with almost all girls, some this doesn't work for) that the 'slightly ignore' thing works.

Again, all depends on the girl.

So maybe if you told everyone what type she is, then I'm sure it might be easier to help.

I don't get what you mean by what type.