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I'll try to keep this short...


There's this girl, and I like her. A lot.

She's extraordinarily beautiful.

She has a brilliant personality.

She's nice to me. Muchly so.

She has great taste in music.

She hugs me every time she sees me. She's very soft.

She is two years older than I am.

She thinks I'm hot and that I have the most awesome hair ever. I don't understand this but why question it?

She goes to shows and stuff all the time while I on the other hand never get out. I'd totally be willing to change that if I had someone to go with though.

I don't have much make out experience. Not to say that I'm bad at it or anything, just that my love life sucks, that's all.

I don't have money, a job, or a car.

I sort of feel like there isn't much I can offer her.

A friend of hers told me that I had a good shot with her.


That's all you need to know. How should I handle this situation? Should I ask her out or try to get her to ask me out? If she asks me out then I know that she wants to be with me and that it isn't a "sure, why not?" thing. I'm confused. Clearly, I suck muchly when it comes to theses sorts of things. Help? Please.

Did you forget what section of SEN is? I seggest this goes into the anything goes garbage section, and it's a 25% warning becuz it's totally offtopic, did you just like click the wrong button or something dude?

Oh. Wrong forum. Can this get moved to garbage?

EDIT: Yeah I had two windows open and I accidently clicked New Topic in the wrong one.

I figured that happend, not a biggy im sure beer will move it soon. Sorry if i sounded angry

Topic moved.

Thanks Yoshi.

So... back on topic... any advice?

EDIT: What the hell? Serious discussion, Mike?
EDIT2: Eh... why not.

If waht you say is true then she is totally yours without much effort.

If she likes you and you like her and they both know it, it couldn't be easier.

But I don't know if she likes me and she doesn't know I like her.

The way you describe her, it sounds to me that you should ask her out. She sounds like an awsome girl, and you should enjoy her while you can before she goes off to college. I say give her a chance, and ask her out.

buddy valentines ay is coming up, come up with a smooth pick up line, but not cheesy, to make her see that you really like her

Tell her "I like your boobs" (j/k)

Ask her out, maybe to a school dance if you have them.

Pick up lines for you to use:

"Hey Baby, come sit on my lap, we cant talk about the first thing that pops up"

"Hey Baby, lets play builders, ill be the hammer so i can nail you"

On a serious note.

When she says your hot, what context is it in?

I say this because i know some girls who joke around with that kinda thing, and you can never tell if they are serious.

On the age thing: Your 15, shes 17 right? Meh, dont really like the older woman thing myself, this might cause some problems

i find older women the best since they have the best experince

anywho....

just ask her man.... if you dont you could always be wondering what it would be like.

It's not all that easy to ask a girl out, you guys do realize that, uh?

Best thing I can say (from my tiny lil bit of experience) is that you need to let time do its job. Eventually, something or someone will trigger a reaction, a momento, and you'll know that will be to right time to tell her (dito on her side, w/e the situation is).

PS -- If she really likes you, a car, a job or money ain't gonna save your love. And common, if you're really 15, that's kinda normal. I'm 18 and I don't have any of these either

As someone who's had plenty of experience (and trouble) with girls, the first thing you have to do is tone down your enthusiasm for her a bit. No chick wants to feel adored when they don't feel much, yet.

Next, don't "ask her out". Ask her to hang out with you. Does she have a car? If so, invite her to chill at your place with your friends. After that, ask her to watch a movie with you. Things will happen on their own, no worries.

Make-out tip: Don't go straight to it. Withhold the promise of a kiss from her at first. Brush your lips against hers a lot of times times while rubbing her back or something, without actually kissing her. Don't use any tongue, make her bring it to that point. Use restraint, it drives 'em nuts.

Lastly, always keep in mind the following: She's just a chick. There are 2.5 billion other chicks out there. Screwing things up with one really won't matter. Besides, you're young, there'll be plenty of other girls in your life. What do you have to lose if she doesn't go for it? Nothing! If she's as nice as you say, she'll still want to be your friend, and usually hot girls have an assortment of hot friends you can hit on. So by being denied and becoming her friend you can actually increase your prospects.

could we see a photo? PLEASE

lol - perv.

Sounds like you have good chance, but I wouldn't ask her out. That's just me though - I prefer to keep people as friends rather than become committed in any way. It's also something to do with low dopamine levels in my nervous system.

erm... What you should do depends on where you live, what is your culture, your char and hers. Hope you get me ><

I recently had my first girlfriend and lost her shortly after i realized I had her. It was the greatest and worst feeling I've had in a very long time. Inspite of that I have learned so much.

You should list her Personality first, That is the soul reason you should like her apperance is just the bait and a niffty plus. If you can love a person for who they are there phsycial apperance will be twice as appealing (or it is for me anyways).

The age differance shouldn't matter, its not that big. (besides women live longer anyways)

Don't worry about what you have to offer her. You have yourself, If the material things are the things that matter to her then you shouldn't be interested in the first place. Even if you had those it wouldn't make a differance.

I say go for it, If you like her ask her out on a date. Its better to be turned down than to not ask at all.

Of course I am by no means an expert in this stuff. Recent events have given me a whole new perspective on my life and relationships in general. I always knew it before but now I feel the things i have known.

Don't make out with her unless you have a plan to keep feeding the addiction.

Thanks. Still not entirely sure what to do though.

Haha, the whole appearance thing. I added that in as an afterthought, that's why it's at the top of the list. I was reading it over one last time and I was like "oh crap how could I forget?"

EDIT:

Eh, I'll get around to it.

So far I've been treating her no differently than anyone else.

I did that with the last girl that I was trying to ask out and we ended up as "just friends."

A friend of hers told me that she was edge so taking it slow at first would be a good idea, yeah.

"Does this rag smell lick chloroform to you?"
"You look really sweet. Mind if I like you and find out?"

She seriously does think I'm hot. I can tell my the way she says it. Besides, a friend of mine talked with her, and she is also very sure that she thinks I'm hot. Yay.

She does joke around about a lot of things. Last thursday she asked me to marry her and to be her valentine (I'm only half sure she was joking about that last one).

I'm 14, she's 16.

I would sooner kill myself than go to a school dance.

I only can say to you to... Go for it. If you don't trust me you will regret...

Money is not a problem, One of my friend is poor, But he original. Instead of going to Movie theater he just prepare a meal and watching a movie at home with his Gf...

Well, If she don't want at least you tried. But NEVER wait, or you will regret...


Ps: In every joke there a part of truth.

Thats exactly how i had it. Except it went on for a really long time, we would both allways tell people were getting married and she would show me the kinds of rings she wanted and all that.
Some how, thank God, we ended up going out but we were both very much still ourselfs. Then shortly after I realized that I actually had something great going on, she started feeling unconforable with her feelings. Afraid of commitment.

It is of my personal belive that if you want to go out with her ask her out strait up. If she wants to be friends she will tell you.

- Bolt_Head (The No-So-Relationship-Expert), Over and Out

Meh, this girl trouble thing is very very common. I also got girl troubles as well. There's this one girl i like in school, but she doesn't know me and i dont really know her either. It would be extremely awkward if i just suddenly run up to her and say "Hey how are you?" and considering that we're both of difference races (me asian, she white), it would also seem extremely weird as well.

And also, i ahte it how society is made so that guys ask girls out instead of vice versa. I mean, mostly the girls are outgoing and stuff so they should do the asking as well