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Okay, now I'm just telling everybody here strait out, not with that friend bull ! Well, anyway, There is this girl at school I really like, and I want to ask her out, but I just don't know what to say. I love her, I mean, she is cool, she is nice, I like being around, I wont say how she looks, because that is going into my opinion (However, I think she is damn hot)! I think she is the perfect one! FireKame, Don't ask who, because I'm not telling! Well, anyway, what should I do?

: : Don't ever make some one feel like crap, or they may make you feel the same! : :

If it was me Flame, id just go up to her, ask to speak to her and then tell her how you feel.

Try to speak to her friends first; they'll probably tell you if she's thinking about you too. That's my tip...

Speak your mind with her but just have confidence, if you can pull that much off then at least shes seeing the best side of you.

hehe it took me ages to dare to tell the girl i like what i tough about her but when i did it was well worth it..

Oh definatly, when i was in highschool... once i got over my fear of that it became alot easier to do it again. Its just something that comes with experience, that and getting over pointless fear.

Ya the fear is ver pointless, If you ask ehr and she hates you or something bad atleast you know and can move on right? I dont got mutch experience since I havent really liked any girl exept for one.

Exactly, just do it Flame, the worst that can happen is she will say no. And then its as simple as moving on (even though that usually isnt the easiest thing). But at least you know that she knows and you have something to work forward to or something to work away from.

Worst that can happen is she says no, then she's a #####, she starts rumors, she mock you, people start to point at you and you look stupid and ashamed.

I hate people that says "the worst she can says is "no""...

Well if that happens all you need to do is start a rumor about her... something around the line that you had sex with her or something... works evertime

But if you like the girl and you know her you should be able to tell if she the type of person to just say no, or start up and bunch of .

Right on.


SP: I kinda agree, but that really is true. If flaming_x thinks she's great, and she turns out to be a #####, would he really have wanted to go out anyways?


I say just be true.

To be honest that just happened to me, ive been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks, ive been true, honest, and romantic... and basically shes being a #####, she screws around with other guys and ignores me at times, so im basically just saying "Hey Guess What!.... #### You Im Out!"

Then she loses... Find somebody better. There's always somebody who likes you, whether you know it or not...

If you both like each other, you got a good thing going...

Oh most definatly, if you just pay attention to people you can find out who likes you and if not all you need to do is work toward somethig and its pretty easy to have feelings grow... and trust me when i say highschool relationships are usually a joke... so dont get to serioous unless it feels really right.

Then she loses... Find somebody better. There's always somebody who likes you, whether you know it or not...

If you both like each other, you got a good thing going...

Theres no harm in trying. If she starts spreading rumors about you, then shes only hurting her own future relationships.

The 2nd girl I ever went after did that too me. She was ms. popular with the boys, so she got a bit selfish and decided to tell me off for no reason. She started telling lies (her favourite one: I apparently enjoy picking my ass and sniffing that finger) about me, those guys asked me about those things. I told them she was a liar and that most of the things were unbelievible anyway, so they stopped going after her.

About a month later, when she released that no guys wanted to be with her, and she wanted to give our relationship a "second chance". I told her to go pick her ass and sniff it. There really is justice in this world...

Anyways, continuing.

You really dont got nothing to lose. If your afraid she'll spread rumors about you, then shes obviously not the right girl for you. Don't go after the ones that "look hot" or whatever, go after the ones you can like as a person.

yea.. also if she would spread rumours or do anything like that, is it worse then forever wondering if she likes you or not??

As I said, spreading rumors is only for those who dont want any male contact (lezbo?) or is too mean and uncooperative anyway.

They'll marry some failure which is the sad part

Yea i have had a girl TRY to spread rumors about me but a couple of my friends had been with her too and knew some dirt so basically anything she said about me was overruled by whatever I had to lay down, but still that may not have been the ebst way to go what it sure was fun.

That's why I restrict my relationships to girls I speak ALOT only... Not like I'm gonna see that girl I find pretty, duno her much at all, and ask her to go out...

well i started talking with this girl i like when i got in the same class as her so i knew her a bit before i started to like her alot so i knew that she wasnt the kind that would spread any evil rumours or something about me..

Then go for it my man! If you know she wont do that you have nothing to lose...

He did go for it... Flaming X is the one needing help xD

Come on, most of the people here just sit on our computers all day. Are you really expecting any good advice here? Basically, you just need to have a conversation going, start to leave, go "wanna chill sometime?" or something of the like, and get out of there. You want to leave immediately for 2 reasons: leaves her thinking about you, she can't object once its done. There's nothing to it but to do it.

Its funny how you expect us all to be freaks who sit at the computers 24/7 when you are far from the truth (more or less haha). Im leave mine on during work and use the site to pass time... Computers are just second nature to me but not my biggest passion... all i gota say is "Think before you speak" we all have had life experiences that you dont know about.