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Human Social Lives

This is the most important part of being human, or at least thats what i think, without it, you cannot be anything or even have communication with anyone else, to any degree at least. We need social lives, from the age of small children till the day we die; it is what gets us through life, explaining sub-level what you should be thinking, acting, doing, etc in repsonse to the "actions" of the others around. We should be thankful for our increased abilities and socialising, even those who think they are poor, trust me, you are not, you just believe you are poor, that can be changed, or not, it depends on what you want, sub-level and top-level.

But when do social lives start having a bad effect? When it starts taking you over, when you become its tool, and lose who you are, to be who "they" are. It can be anything and really everyone is a tool, to some degree, but if it becomes too much, then what do you become? Say what you are changes, then you are outcasted because you cannot change, due to the almost "religious" beliefs you have in the social style you currently have.

Humans have the ability to change and adapt, but it can have bad results! Have you ever had any experience of when you became a heavy tool of the social style, or know of someone else who was? How did they change, was it for better or worse (in your opinion!), was it for better or worse (Thinking for them), was it better or worse (For their family)?

My story will be here tomorrow, but for now, i want to here others and see what else can be seen, i am not saying a social life is bad, nor the styles, but that you shouldn't let everything you do become so "social" and "styled" that you lose yourself, because thats the best thing about who you are! You uniquiness!

-Coko

I agree, being social is good (and can also be bad).

But you must also realize that some people just aren't social, like me. School is plenty of socializing for me. I might see a movie every once in a while with a friend, but not much more than that.

I am a total introvert though.

b.d

social i have no social life. All i do all day is Playing the computer, fixing bugs on my computer. Thats my truth and my life. Untill i find work again.

What is this conception you call a social life?
Is it like the sun? Where in my room I have never seen or felt.
Tell me is this a new science break-through?!?

i am the apifany of anti-social

i dont even no what other people look like
if i did, i would probly shoot them like poor innocent unprotected hamsters

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Sure, to much of anything can be bad, and to little of something can also be bad...

Social life is important to me, but not as much as to other people I know.Theres people out there that will commit suicide because they are not excepted with someone. With me, its more of like "stick up your middle finger and move on".

If you know how to socialize,and with who,it's okay.

Personally,I'm extremely shy with girls. That could be because our course we're all boys and...ughh no we're not gay you fool!
I have to say I'm not very sociable,but there are those people that I consider my friends,or at least,that are friendly, and those guys you're always forced to socialize but in the deep,you think they're all idiots.

Yes I know,I'm complicated.

Heh, I'm like Volka. And a bit like Yoshi, in terms of the middle finger thing. But then again, I have very little friends, and nothing for a social life. Actually, I act the way I normally do around girls (except I tone down on the profanities), which isn't exactly the greatest idea of me ever. Yes, I HAVE been effected by my friends, and I'vve seen my influence on them. I have changed (gradually without me realizing) that I've become more like them, and they are becoming more like me. Not entirely a bad thing, but some things, like thier laziness is starting to rub on me a bad way.

Oh well, I guess that's life. It is inevitable. Even over the internet, you're influenced by what you read of others. I'd me lying if I said that going to forums has not effected my personality at all.

I have no social life...I'm involved with theater, and that takes all my time and energy...
and money..

What is a social life? Is it something you drink or something that makes you feel better?

"We should be thankful for our increased abilities and socialising..."
Increased over what?
My social life...
I'm sort of anti-social. People tend to hate me.
The few people I don't mind so much at school are the ones I get fewer chances to see than the rest of the immature assumption making freaks.
I tend to make mor friends online than otherwise...

I just found social life at my local grocery store. I drinked it and realized I have no life since it's 12:40 AM where I live and instead of going to sleep I'm making stupid jokes about social life...

You go to an male private school. How you find time for that?

Isnt being here and posting a form of social life? i mean we all "talk" to eatchother in a way and i think we have an effect on eatchother also.

Yes it is, but this is without contact and therefore everyone reads the posts with almost no emotions at first, just their own so it never is the same of each person, more like reading your own mind, albeit a part you've never read before.

Well, i am normally very social, at school i am good friends with many people, maybe because i am almost 18 and therefore have gotten to know most of the people in my year at school, i also have many friends in the lower years, the majority are actually girls, because there are loads in the lower years, but thats just whats it like.

I do go out with friends normally ever weekend or two weekends, its fun, but sometimes, a little wierd, specially when i bump into an ex. I'm not so nervous around girls as i was before, but i've been around them for a while and been quite intemit with a couple so its different for me, yeah i still get a little shy now and then, but i normally just act happy and gentleman like, though i fail to mention my Online Social Life, most girls don't appriciate it...

Usually when the girls come over for Robotics, or something like that. Still, it is true that I really don't interact with them much. I have no real life, other than computers.

Pfft, I'm getting more and more depressed writing this. Ahh well, off to some game to bleed off some stress.

*cracks out poking stick*

Look, don't feel depressed, don't think just because you are not having sex or anything like that, that you are less of a man, or weaker.
I didn't have sex till likely, 6 months ago, and that was a mistake, and ruined something i had with that girl.

Most of the things that will ever happen to you, happen on the spare of the moment, its hard to plan anything, so don't try. IE: saying you will have sex on prom night or whatever, most of the time you won't.

Remember how you felt trying to talk to girls? Well, the first few times you try anything dirty, its just as bad, thats why if you are relaxed with that girl it is great. Sure if you feel comfitable, AND SO DOES SHE!, then start trying things, but go slow, sex isn't the best feeling in the world, just being with someone you feel really happy and relaxed with is just as good, or better!

I hope this isn't to personal for any of you, but really, you never get told this by friends or relatives, well most of the time you don't, but all these sex in relationships, and what comes with it...well don't put too much on it, its better to just have your hands full of a girl you like, and a girl that likes you back.

I found that the first were not the ones that loved me back, they prefered the occasional meeting, these ones will hurt you, while acting all nice and innocent, but you'll meet some who will be great for you, while you don't know or care, looks are not everything! Just keep your options open and don't close yourself in!

SOCIAL TRUTH!
-YOU WILL HAVE A BROKEN HEART AT LEAST ONCE!
-YOU WILL TRY IT WITH A WHORE BECAUSE YOU WANT IT BAD!
-YOU WILL PRETEND YOU HAVE HAD SEX AND GET CAUGHT OUT!
-YOU WILL TURN SOMEONE DOWN BECAUSE YOU ARE HOLDING OUT FOR SOMEONE ELSE!
-IN TURN THEY WILL HATE YOU AND YOU WILL HAVE HURT SOMEONE!
-LIFE IS GOOD, BUT YOU WON'T FEEL IT IS SOMETIMES!
-BE HAPPY WITH YOUR LOT IT IS GOOD!

- Coko

Haha, yeah I can admit I'm shy around girls sometimes, especially when I make jokes that don't go over well and I'm just like -_-;

I've only been in few relationships, never had sex, and never been crazy about anyone yet. I don't think guys fall as hard as girls do in a relationship though. I just wish there were more girls with british accents where I live

Coko, I feel like smiting you for making me read that. Hell, I probably won't even go to any dance, much less the prom. I'd rather stay at home and continue to spam post here. And I think you misinterpret me saying that I "act" normal. That means that I'm:

- Occasionally hyperish with violent activity (i.e. hitting a random thing with another random thing, like bashing a wall with a hammer)
- Followed by my "work" state, where I ignore everything around me.
- Finally, going to a depressed state where I sit in a corner and eat. Well, that, or do more work.
- And then returning to my hyper state. loop this again and again until the end of the day.

Relaxation is the farthest thing from my mind. Well, not exactly, bu more like...er: "Must work...and work...and work...Oh look! A bunny! And work...and work...and...Hey! Candy!" and so on and so forth.

Some how I doubt this really helps my social life.

girlfriends are not equal to a personal social life...
it is equal to their social life...

-.-;

jeez, ya'll are freaks. At least I get some excerise in doing theater work...

This strikes me as odd. I am currently writing a satire paper on this subject...

Excercise? You meant the stuff they do beyond the window? 8)!

Oh well, I guess living heavy metal pieces and then filing/sawing them would count as excercise. And also including changing the milling bit of the milling machine. Now there's something that takes time and a lot of strength. Okay, so I don't do much work.

On the other hand, I should really learn how to weld better. I only know how to weld iron/steel, and not very well at all. And praticing is quite expensive as well. Oh well, I really should learn glazing and welding aluminium. Though that means that I'll have even less of a social life. Aww well.

Look at it this way FireKame, at least in Theater, you interact with people a lot. You're not a loner like me.

hehe...have you ever met a theater techie? or must be thinking of the actors...techies are the ones who dress in black and roll their eyes when their counter-parts go all melodramatic on them...

I do that anyways...