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Staredit Network -> Miscellaneous -> This isn;t one big blame game.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2006-01-04 at 08:53:42
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I comeforth not as a friend, administrator, or member of the site. I comeforth as a human being, extremely offended by the conduct of how people (by "people", I don't mean pointing your fingers at DT_BK, I mean everybody who participated) handled the death of a member of this website, nuclearrabbit.

Some of you are speculating that it might be a prank or joke. As I have said before: death, is no joke. Apparently almost everybody at SEN has no shame, as events over the past few days of handling the loss of the SEN family doesn't appear to have any effect as everybody is acting like a complete idiot.

I know someones going to think that someone guessed the password to my account or is using some sort of spoofing technique to pretend to be Yoshi_da_Sniper. This post contains EXACTLY what I think. I am aware I have left but I after seeing the heartless actions of many of the people here, I have decided to truthfully express my feelings.

First off, WHY IN THE **** WOULD YOU CAPITALIZE ON THE DEATH OF A MEMBER OF THESE BOARDS? Yes. I'm sure nuclearrabbit would of wanted a tournament in her memory, or how about various signatures created by ripping off her avatar? If a friend or family member died, would you start hosting starcraft tournaments or creating photoshop signatures and avatars in honor of them? NO! You all absolutely miss the point. I'm pretty sure her friends and family are pretty much sickened by the heartless actions of people here. Whats even worse, is I haven't seen the current administration or moderation staff step in and take action. They actually find this acceptable...

"Showing respect" does not mean "spreading complete lies and sarcasm". I see some random person posting something like "I'm crying myself to sleep everyday" or "omg is it true lol" is not respectful. The sad thing is, these people didn't even know nuclearrabbit. I sure hope none of her family or friends were reading the kind of garbage you guys put up, because it was nothing but sarcasm and lies, from all of you. You cannot get anymore disrespectful if you treat the ones who know the deceased like complete idiots.

Honestly, I made the site, I have seen it grow, I have seen it have some good times. This my friends, is the end. We have passed the peak and it now appears that the site is in a decline, because apparently all the people I knew who had common sense are now gone or not very active. Nobody is left but apparenty people who have no clue how to treat serious situations.

As of now, a lot of the respect I had for many people is gone. There are like one or two people who treated the situation like it should have been in the first place. My message for you, is that you should step up and tell people what they are doing is WRONG. I think my future visits will be more infrequent and shorter in length now. I just can't believe the way people acted.

By the way. I notice that everytime I make a post like this, the people who applies to apparently change their additudes so fast and attempt to look smart or cool. Just for once, spare me. Pretty much everybody is gulity. What you should do instead, is reflect on the action, REALIZE there is something morally wrong with the actions of people here, identify future problems and speak up/take action about them. It is far too late to fix the damage that has already been done.


After this topic created by yoshi, I still can't believe what you guys did. You just bashed other members, blamed it on other people, instead of owning up to your own actions, I'll admit I was wrong, bashing DTBK, but even after these words from yoshi...

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identify future problems and speak up/take action about them. It is far too late to fix the damage that has already been done.


You guys always find someone else to blame.

"OMG DEAD IS SUCH AN ASS WITH HIS CONTEST, I WAS WITH IT ALL THE WAY, BUT NOW THAT YOSHI SAYS ITS WRONG, I'M GOING TO BLAME HIM FOR THIS MESS."

And oh, the people with the avatars, blaming it on other people, thats like fat people blaming mcdonalds for making them fat, seriously.

Now, i don't want any replys, so i'll lock it, because i know it'll end in the same bloody mess it did with yoshi's topic, but seriously. Own up to your own actions. Its time to act like big boys and girls.
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