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Report, edit, etc...Posted by Falcon_A on 2006-03-17 at 14:46:16
Is it just me, or does this piss me off too much and is it normal?

Everyone just wants to go get drunk and laid or make out on the couch. Every relationship has turned into either "ya i tap that ass" or "yea i talk to her online we been goin for a year now, its gettin really steady, we arrange a weekly chat on saturday night and do the cyber, its ok that i never met her in real life" or just some farking ascii art hearts drawn in some aol profile and going over to make out with her after writing some bullshiz poem that makes her smile.

Or like my friend's brother, who's girlfriend thinks men are inherently evil and gross and shiz, and she talking to me about him: "sometimes sort of listens to me. its ok that he's a blockhead to talk to, but hes sorta cute and nice and all, and SOMEONE has to have him."

And I just think...how do people shoot so low?
Girls don't aim for a god damn thing and just take what's come along? Can't be. But I see it over and over and OVER again. And the thing is, they look for nothing. They seem to want a "confident" guy that is proud of every farking pile of shiz thing he does that I can do better but I don't go around boasting it (because I know that there's people around that are better than me, and I don't like to show off how I'm 2nd place.)

Anyway, I was just gonna see if anyone on here has annoying shiz to add to that or disagree or something.

And tell me maybe someone holds a slight standard for what they look for, not the first person to 'ask them out'. And mind you when I see these...er... "couples" together...the guy is just making garbage jokes and the girl laughing and then there's silence and then "wanna make out" "ok" and then they do that and I'm thinkin to myself "god damn, just ask and thy shall recieve, hm?"

I just gotta take a shiz on the world.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Deathawk on 2006-03-17 at 14:58:01
I sort of agree, especially on a younger level. There isn't much to do when you're kids, and I guess they're eager to expirement. Later on, around your 20's or something, things start to change. Usually, those type of couples you are talking about won't get married, and hopefully won't have a kid together. I'd feel bad for the kid.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2006-03-17 at 15:00:33
My virgin alarm just went off.

Seriously, though. Your feelings will change. A lot of young teens resent the nature of sexuality. Once you get things in control, though, I promise you won't be making such rants anymore.

You'll just rant about the bullshiz that comes with sex... pinch.gif
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kow on 2006-03-17 at 15:08:39
"Everyone's a lost romatic, since love became a kissing show. Everyone's a cassanova, come and pass me the mistletoe. Everyone's been scared to death of dying here alone."
- Switchfoot - Easier to love

Tis so true, and I'm sick of such material views of women!
Report, edit, etc...Posted by SiLeNT(U) on 2006-03-17 at 15:15:19
Can you honestly tell me that you wouldn't make out with your girlfriend? (Assuming you have one)
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Mini Moose 2707 on 2006-03-17 at 16:53:52
What SHOULD they be doing in their teen years then? Moving in with each other and raising families? Good luck, that's even worse. Cross the west and head out on the Oregon Trail to start a new life? tongue.gif
Report, edit, etc...Posted by MyStIcAl-MySt on 2006-03-17 at 17:57:24
QUOTE(Mini Moose 2707 @ Mar 17 2006, 04:53 PM)
What SHOULD they be doing in their teen years then? Moving in with each other and raising families? Good luck, that's even worse. Cross the west and head out on the Oregon Trail to start a new life? tongue.gif
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Exactly. Teenagers, on the most part, are supposed to go out and party and have one night stands. Not everyone wants to find a "serious" relationship and just live a calm and normal life. I myself say that people should be going out and drinking and getting laid. I've been part of that crowd and I dont feel any different then before. I myself say that you should enjoy yourself when your young.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by n2o-SiMpSoNs on 2006-03-17 at 18:29:19
QUOTE(MyStIcAl-MySt @ Mar 17 2006, 05:57 PM)
Exactly. Teenagers, on the most part, are supposed to go out and party and have one night stands. Not everyone wants to find a "serious" relationship and just live a calm and normal life. I myself say that people should be going out and drinking and getting laid. I've been part of that crowd and I dont feel any different then before. I myself say that you should enjoy yourself when your young.
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Amen.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by PCFredZ on 2006-03-17 at 18:48:03
To quote Homer Simpson:

"Woo! STDs!"
Report, edit, etc...Posted by DT_Battlekruser on 2006-03-17 at 23:24:07
QUOTE(Mini Moose 2707 @ Mar 17 2006, 01:53 PM)
What SHOULD they be doing in their teen years then? Moving in with each other and raising families? Good luck, that's even worse. Cross the west and head out on the Oregon Trail to start a new life? tongue.gif
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Or teens can just play Starcraft and rant on SEN. I agree though, the material view is sickening. Sex is not the point of life, or marriage*. It is possible to be friends with someone while not making out with them or moving in with them. Honestly.

*The point is to raise a child, and having sex once will fulfill it.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Hofodomo on 2006-03-17 at 23:29:40
technically, the whole purpose of sex is to increase genetic diversity in the next generation so they are less vulnerable to specific diseases =P

that why it evolved to feel good (...theoretically speaking for me...)
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Falcon_A on 2006-03-17 at 23:39:05
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Or teens can just play Starcraft and rant on SEN


My computer is like half virused, so starcraft multiplayer fades to black...

But I think some people are taking this wrong.

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Can you honestly tell me that you wouldn't make out with your girlfriend? (Assuming you have one)


Obviously I would. What I mean is, people treat the girls like shiz. And don't appreciate them. And they don't really care. And if a guy like me comes along, who probably would appreciate them (Depending on if they're two-timing whores, of course), they probably would either

1: switch at the first moment and leave their current boyfriend
2: never know because said appreciative guy doesn't show that he likes her
3: stay with old boyfriend because 'he's sorta nice and loves me'

And I just think that like...you shouldn't just go and ask to make out with some chick. or go and ask to fark her. maybe yes, maybe no, maybe it should just sorta happen. maybe not, maybe i'm too conventional and don't think that you need to go and sorta force it on the girl.

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My virgin alarm just went off.


Yeah, well...I just sorta wanted to know what people think, because I'm -sorta- involved with this girl, but she really really looks to the future a lot, and after like 2 years, I noticed I'm a different person. ie, 2 years ago, I woulda just went and wanted to fark any girl I see. Now I'm sorta...guilty about a feeling like that, and I make it stop happening.

But the thing is, I'm pretty damn paranoid and any guy she talks to I think she could be cheating on me with, and like...who knows, maybe she is.

And hell, if I've waited this long for some unpure biznatch, I'd never forgive myself, and sorta think maybe I should be going out and getting drunk and shiz like that.

But I dunno if I even would if I didn't have the prospect of this girl. Ah well, too much information for random people I met on the internet ;P
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Zwitch on 2006-03-17 at 23:44:27
Let's go back to Courting like in the Old Ages tongue.gif
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Falcon_A on 2006-03-18 at 00:18:48
lol that's not what i mean either.

I mean people shouldn't just set people up with other people. People shouldn't date the girl their friend's friend's brother met at a party just because they talked a couple times, and people should go find someone they actually care about, and sex up THEM, not some random person, so that it's actually mutual, and the guy isn't just using the girl for his own pleasure. Then again, I wish I was a guy that could do that with no guilt. But since I'm not, weeeeeeeeeee, I find someone I actually care about and claims to actually care about me, but ugh, I can't push her back till before 18 to fark me. She wanted no sex before marriage but that's bullshiz, just a MEGA cover for her farking someone else in the meantime, I'm sure...though she seems to have plenty of opportunities to, and doesn't...but I don't get to see her that often so who knows, if she isn't talking to me, whatever whatever, I don't wanna put my mind in that place right now. But I just wanted to see if people think that if someone like me, with some girl to think about who would never know if he went out and started farking other girls if he didn't tell her, but would probably go mental over the guilt, should go out and party and shiz. I dunno if I'd even like something like that, but maybe I would, maybe I wouldn't, and if you actually read this whole post, congradtulations, you don't even get 1 mineral from me.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Mr.Camo on 2006-03-18 at 00:23:02
I hate when people think of Women as materials or sex objects and not people who should be cared for just as much as everybody.

I have a girlfriend, and I treat her like everybody should, respectfully, and I get more rewards for that any guy could from having sex. (Hell, going shopping shouldn't be this fun!) but it works out fine for us, and we have a working relationship. I find when the time is right, it will happen. Also I've known her for a few years now.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Lithium on 2006-03-18 at 07:33:22
this topic is stupid. BE like them if you wanna get laid every friday night.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Freedawk on 2006-03-18 at 08:32:54
Actually I am 13, right? And I had a girlfriend that would be willign to walk everyday and run at the park to have fun. I think the best date if you can't drive is just walking to one's house and walking places.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by DT_Battlekruser on 2006-03-18 at 13:25:32
QUOTE(Hofodomo @ Mar 17 2006, 08:29 PM)
technically, the whole purpose of sex is to increase genetic diversity in the next generation so they are less vulnerable to specific diseases =P

that why it evolved to feel good (...theoretically speaking for me...)
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Right. Having sex 100 times with 60 people in 200 days does absolutely nothing to fulfull your genetic purpose in life.

QUOTE(Falcon_A @ Mar 17 2006, 09:18 PM)
But since I'm not, weeeeeeeeeee, I find someone I actually care about and claims to actually care about me, but ugh, I can't push her back till before 18 to fark me.


Get your hormonal feelings under control. Honestly, why do you think porn was invented?

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She wanted no sex before marriage but that's bullshiz, just a MEGA cover for her farking someone else in the meantime, I'm sure


Absolutely no guarantees there. Innocent until proven guilty.

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But I just wanted to see if people think that if someone like me, with some girl to think about who would never know if he went out and started farking other girls if he didn't tell her, but would probably go mental over the guilt, should go out and party and shiz.
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There's nothing missed if you never get drunk before eighteen.

QUOTE(Mr.Camo @ Mar 17 2006, 09:22 PM)
I hate when people think of Women as materials or sex objects and not people who should be cared for just as much as everybody.

I have a girlfriend, and I treat her like everybody should, respectfully, and I get more rewards for that any guy could from having sex. (Hell, going shopping shouldn't be this fun!) but it works out fine for us, and we have a working relationship. I find when the time is right, it will happen. Also I've known her for a few years now.
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QUOTE(Tizzle @ Mar 18 2006, 05:32 AM)
Actually I am 13, right? And I had a girlfriend that would be willign to walk everyday and run at the park to have fun. I think the best date if you can't drive is just walking to one's house and walking places.
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Wisdom, both.

A dream of a time might be sitting on a porch in the sunset in lawn chairs and talking, not being in bed having sex. There are the kind of girls that will go out and cheat on you if they don't get any sex, and there are the kind that don't. Find the second kind.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Snipe on 2006-03-18 at 13:42:26
yup and one question usually follows in the death trap and that's marrage. Lots of fighting and blha blah life sux. lol.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Mini Moose 2707 on 2006-03-18 at 13:49:05
QUOTE(DT_Battlekruser @ Mar 18 2006, 01:25 PM)
[color=#b5b5ff]Right.  Having sex 100 times with 60 people in 200 days does absolutely nothing to fulfull your genetic purpose in life.

If the woman is impregnated and a healthy child is brought into the world each time, it does everything to fulfill one's genetic purpose in life. Society, however, disallows that to happen.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Snipe on 2006-03-18 at 13:54:24
If i was under aged like 15 16 or 19 and under anyways and i got a girl pregnant i don't know what i would do. My life would be soo messed.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by BeeR_KeG on 2006-03-18 at 13:58:44
Single and without compromise FTW!

I can be with one girl one week and dump her without thinking it twice nor having second thoughts.

I really do think that being so closely attachted to someone in a "Fool's love" will just be a disaster at the end. To me, having a girl right now is all about having fun, not about getting plans to get married or stuff like that. The other week my girl asked me if I planned on marrying her, I said: "Hell no, I just like you, I like being with you and having fun with you!".

Seriously though, a serious love relationship won't last long at this age because people change, goals change and a shizload of stuff happens along the way because you aren't stable. Enjoy your life.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kow on 2006-03-18 at 14:10:51
QUOTE(SiLeNT(U) @ Mar 17 2006, 03:14 PM)
Can you honestly tell me that you wouldn't make out with your girlfriend? (Assuming you have one)
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Those lyrics aren't saying "All love is is just a show", it's saying everyone wants to be in love to SHOW they are, if you know what I mean.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Freedawk on 2006-03-18 at 14:22:58
If I got a girl pregnant, I would help her take care of her baby. You know, maybe everyday after school you get dropped of at her house and spend yoru day there. Aroundafter dinner, you can go home. Then everything is perfectly fine.

But when the baby needs you, parents of either of us would take care of them.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Loser_Musician on 2006-03-18 at 15:14:22
If you're young, just hit it and quit it. This goes for girls too. I'm all in for equality.
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