Report, edit, etc...Posted by Sinister_X on 2006-08-05 at 03:10:02
Dude i hate girls who flake. especially when they have no reason to. this week i was supposed to go on a date with desire today which is friday. get this SHE ASKED ME TO TAKE HER! so anyway i say sure and immidetly begin flirting. i talk about stuff like how she should "do" stuff for me. she says she doesnt know how so i joke about how i will teach her and we will practice all night if we have to. things are going great as the week progresses we decide we will go out to eat and that i will get drunk before we go to the fair and she can drive. so anyway we are doing some hard core flirting this whole week and friday roles around.
FRIDAY
friday comes along and i suddenly do not feel like i really want to go out. not because im a jerk or not attracted to her i just dont feel well. nevertheless i decide i will go through with the plan. but will make sure she still wants to go. so i call her at about 2:00 and say in a normal cheerfull voice..
ME
"hey?, still feel like going out tonight?"
HER
"Ya, but not till later."
Me
"alright what time did you wanna leave"
Her
"i wanna go at seven so we can see the lights at the fair."
Me
"alright you know where i live just come over at seven and if im sleeping just come in. i've got the alcohol.
Her
"K, cya then later!
Me
"Later babe."
So i clean up my house and seven roles around. i figure shes late and wait till seven thirty at this time i call her house, she doesnt own a cellphone. her mom answers.
Mom
"Hello?"
Me
"hi is des there?"
Mom
"no shes at the mall with her cousen."
Me
ok
im thinking wtf? but i suddenly realize/hope mabie she lied so she can stay out all night
i wait till 9:00 before i decide to say screw her and i go to my brothers house where i am now.
I dont get some girls man i mean its not like this is the first time have gone out we do it a few times and she has flaked twice before for no reason. well third strike yuor out i guess im going to make an ass of myself tommarow as i crush her simpalist thoughts that i possese any attraction to her after something like this. no one freaks with Sinister_X i mean err Abe. ill give you the update tommarow after i see her at work. if she tries to rescedual im going to be like
Me
"hmmm how bout no."
Her
"eh..."
Me
"all done then?"
Her
"..I"
Me
"good, later
Then ill walk away damn its a good thing i dont get emotionally attached to people i cant wait for tommarow.
Am i wrong here?
FRIDAY
friday comes along and i suddenly do not feel like i really want to go out. not because im a jerk or not attracted to her i just dont feel well. nevertheless i decide i will go through with the plan. but will make sure she still wants to go. so i call her at about 2:00 and say in a normal cheerfull voice..
ME
"hey?, still feel like going out tonight?"
HER
"Ya, but not till later."
Me
"alright what time did you wanna leave"
Her
"i wanna go at seven so we can see the lights at the fair."
Me
"alright you know where i live just come over at seven and if im sleeping just come in. i've got the alcohol.
Her
"K, cya then later!
Me
"Later babe."
So i clean up my house and seven roles around. i figure shes late and wait till seven thirty at this time i call her house, she doesnt own a cellphone. her mom answers.
Mom
"Hello?"
Me
"hi is des there?"
Mom
"no shes at the mall with her cousen."
Me
ok
im thinking wtf? but i suddenly realize/hope mabie she lied so she can stay out all night
i wait till 9:00 before i decide to say screw her and i go to my brothers house where i am now.
I dont get some girls man i mean its not like this is the first time have gone out we do it a few times and she has flaked twice before for no reason. well third strike yuor out i guess im going to make an ass of myself tommarow as i crush her simpalist thoughts that i possese any attraction to her after something like this. no one freaks with Sinister_X i mean err Abe. ill give you the update tommarow after i see her at work. if she tries to rescedual im going to be like
Me
"hmmm how bout no."
Her
"eh..."
Me
"all done then?"
Her
"..I"
Me
"good, later
Then ill walk away damn its a good thing i dont get emotionally attached to people i cant wait for tommarow.
Am i wrong here?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Mp)7-7 on 2006-08-05 at 03:15:32
Dood, that sucks, screw her and go for some other chick.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by TheDaddy0420 on 2006-08-05 at 03:16:20
If she does call, give her a chance to explain herself, and if it sounds legit, then try again. But if it sounds like B to the S, then just be like "tough luck hoe" and hang out. Either way you should get some ass through my method haha. Don't ask how on option 2, it will just work out.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Sinister_X on 2006-08-05 at 04:00:29
i wont lower myslef to ask why. she could have called to tell me she wasnt coming.
the funny part is i know her well enough so that she will prolly give me some half ass excuse tommarow but im going to call her on her crap. im going to just be like yo're a flake and i dont waste my time with those.
the funny part is i know her well enough so that she will prolly give me some half ass excuse tommarow but im going to call her on her crap. im going to just be like yo're a flake and i dont waste my time with those.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by RexyRex on 2006-08-05 at 04:49:18
And the booze?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by VizuaL on 2006-08-05 at 22:00:20
wat does it mean when a girl flakes? i've never herad of that.. i thought we were talking dandruff problems.. but i get wat u mean man.. maybe something came up? i couldnt imagine her just.. ditching u
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kow on 2006-08-05 at 22:04:35
Flaking or being flakey means you're really iffy on plans and 'stand up' people a lot, or in other words, not show up for a date or otheriwse preplanned meeting, or if you just opt out of it last minute.
Tough luck. Find a different chick.
Tough luck. Find a different chick.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by n2o-SiMpSoNs on 2006-08-05 at 22:10:36
QUOTE(VizuaL @ Aug 5 2006, 08:59 PM)
wat does it mean when a girl flakes? i've never herad of that.. i thought we were talking dandruff problems.. but i get wat u mean man.. maybe something came up? i couldnt imagine her just.. ditching u
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Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kow on 2006-08-05 at 22:29:00
Waterboy?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kupo on 2006-08-05 at 23:06:41
bang her then go onto a serious relationship.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Arbitrary on 2006-08-05 at 23:24:18
Eat her skin.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by JoJo. on 2006-08-05 at 23:57:07
QUOTE(Arbitrary @ Aug 5 2006, 08:23 PM)
Eat her skin.
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dont do that...
i think you should stand her up or maybe ask her if she is flakey to find out if she admits ...then you know its true but really when you see her you should make plans if shes like that it would work out better
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Sinister_X on 2006-08-06 at 03:21:26
ARRG!
I went into work and made it obvious that i was pissed and pretty much didnt talk to her but then something happend where everyone was pissed at her or something and i made fun of her saying well come come crying to me for me to take your ass anywhere becuase you are a flake.
Her
"huh?"
Me
"...yesterday."
Her
ooohh.....
she starts looking all sad i joke about how she has to think of a way to make it up to me she suggest takeing me home today and i allow her. she asks if i will go with her somewhere tommarow and i say No. she gives me sad look and before i know it im flirting again and makeing fun of her. GARFUNKLES!
I went into work and made it obvious that i was pissed and pretty much didnt talk to her but then something happend where everyone was pissed at her or something and i made fun of her saying well come come crying to me for me to take your ass anywhere becuase you are a flake.
Her
"huh?"
Me
"...yesterday."
Her
ooohh.....
she starts looking all sad i joke about how she has to think of a way to make it up to me she suggest takeing me home today and i allow her. she asks if i will go with her somewhere tommarow and i say No. she gives me sad look and before i know it im flirting again and makeing fun of her. GARFUNKLES!
Report, edit, etc...Posted by JoJo. on 2006-08-06 at 03:31:10
QUOTE(Sinister_X @ Aug 6 2006, 12:21 AM)
F U C K!
I went into work and made it obvious that i was pissed and pretty much didnt talk to her but then something happend where everyone was pissed at her or something and i made fun of her saying well come come crying to me for me to take your ass anywhere becuase you are a flake.
Her
"huh?"
Me
"...yesterday."
Her
ooohh.....
she starts looking all sad i joke about how she has to think of a way to make it up to me she suggest takeing me home today and i allow her. she asks if i will go with her somewhere tommarow and i say No. she gives me sad look and before i know it im flirting again and makeing fun of her. DAMN IT!
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I went into work and made it obvious that i was pissed and pretty much didnt talk to her but then something happend where everyone was pissed at her or something and i made fun of her saying well come come crying to me for me to take your ass anywhere becuase you are a flake.
Her
"huh?"
Me
"...yesterday."
Her
ooohh.....
she starts looking all sad i joke about how she has to think of a way to make it up to me she suggest takeing me home today and i allow her. she asks if i will go with her somewhere tommarow and i say No. she gives me sad look and before i know it im flirting again and makeing fun of her. DAMN IT!
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Lmao! just get what you want get away from he..tell her your coming in 30 minutes and be there in like 2 minutes you could just wait in her driveway I think it would be a good anti-flake method plus you'd know if she was ganna ditch you right away
Report, edit, etc...Posted by n2o-SiMpSoNs on 2006-08-06 at 10:34:33
QUOTE(Kow @ Aug 5 2006, 09:28 PM)
Waterboy?
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Report, edit, etc...Posted by JaFF on 2006-08-06 at 10:34:58
Will you post every aspect of your personal life on SEN ? 
Report, edit, etc...Posted by SunMoon_Emperor on 2006-08-06 at 10:35:24
Everyone else there seemed mad at her, too? Then I'm going to suppose that she may be kind of a "yes-woman."
"Hey, do you want to go to the fair with me tomorrow?"
"Okay."
"Hey, do you want to go to the mall with me tomorrow?"
"Okay."
"Hey, do you want to go to my great uncle's stepfather's girlfriend's penpal's second cousin's foster brother's wedding with me tomorrow?"
"Okay."
"Hey, do you want to go to that new Al-Qaida cell that just opened up and help me build a dirty bomb tomorrow?"
"Okay."
Promising too many things to too many people. Like....my dad!
"Hey, do you want to go to the fair with me tomorrow?"
"Okay."
"Hey, do you want to go to the mall with me tomorrow?"
"Okay."
"Hey, do you want to go to my great uncle's stepfather's girlfriend's penpal's second cousin's foster brother's wedding with me tomorrow?"
"Okay."
"Hey, do you want to go to that new Al-Qaida cell that just opened up and help me build a dirty bomb tomorrow?"
"Okay."
Promising too many things to too many people. Like....my dad!
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kow on 2006-08-06 at 10:44:12
That may be the case, or she just doesn't like committing to an extreme.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Mr.Camo on 2006-08-06 at 13:47:22
QUOTE(RexyRex @ Aug 5 2006, 12:48 AM)
And the booze?
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Well, with his spelling, it wouldn't surprise me.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Inspektah-Deck on 2006-08-06 at 13:52:14
Didn't you already make a thread about this girl? If they flake on you then get a new friend its doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Falcon_A on 2006-08-06 at 17:01:48
that's easier said than done.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Sinister_X on 2006-08-07 at 00:14:50
Very sorry about my language earlier.
You know she is kinda of a yes woman and i dont think shes ever said no to anything i've ever asked her. like at Cedar point she was so afraid of the Millenium Force that she was actually crying but she still went with me on it and clung to me like she was going to have a heart attack.
She's a good girl but she isn't capable of learning from her mistakes. she simply repeats them over and over again until somone tells her to knock it off. "ive done so twice" and she is always asking me for advice so mabie i was too hard on her i dont know.
You know she is kinda of a yes woman and i dont think shes ever said no to anything i've ever asked her. like at Cedar point she was so afraid of the Millenium Force that she was actually crying but she still went with me on it and clung to me like she was going to have a heart attack.
She's a good girl but she isn't capable of learning from her mistakes. she simply repeats them over and over again until somone tells her to knock it off. "ive done so twice" and she is always asking me for advice so mabie i was too hard on her i dont know.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Tdnfthe1 on 2006-08-07 at 06:19:18
QUOTE(Sinister_X @ Aug 6 2006, 10:14 PM)
Very sorry about my language earlier.
You know she is kinda of a yes woman and i dont think shes ever said no to anything i've ever asked her. like at Cedar point she was so afraid of the Millenium Force that she was actually crying but she still went with me on it and clung to me like she was going to have a heart attack.
She's a good girl but she isn't capable of learning from her mistakes. she simply repeats them over and over again until somone tells her to knock it off. "ive done so twice" and she is always asking me for advice so mabie i was too hard on her i dont know.
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You know she is kinda of a yes woman and i dont think shes ever said no to anything i've ever asked her. like at Cedar point she was so afraid of the Millenium Force that she was actually crying but she still went with me on it and clung to me like she was going to have a heart attack.
She's a good girl but she isn't capable of learning from her mistakes. she simply repeats them over and over again until somone tells her to knock it off. "ive done so twice" and she is always asking me for advice so mabie i was too hard on her i dont know.
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It's kinda hilarious that you even posted this on SEN lol.
Anyway if I was a girl I would have not really cared myself.... You're kinda too much about the sex and not playin it cool, when a girl misses a date you don't call more than once. You just go make other plans once she's late, that's why most first dates should be with friends haha. Yeah you're just too over eager about it. Honestly though, you should just talk to ur friends about it... not your map making buddies, just some food for thought.
~Tdnfthe1
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Sinister_X on 2006-08-07 at 11:23:53
QUOTE(Tdnfthe1 @ Aug 7 2006, 04:18 AM)
It's kinda hilarious that you even posted this on SEN lol.
Anyway if I was a girl I would have not really cared myself.... You're kinda too much about the sex and not playin it cool, when a girl misses a date you don't call more than once. You just go make other plans once she's late, that's why most first dates should be with friends haha. Yeah you're just too over eager about it. Honestly though, you should just talk to ur friends about it... not your map making buddies, just some food for thought.
~Tdnfthe1
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Anyway if I was a girl I would have not really cared myself.... You're kinda too much about the sex and not playin it cool, when a girl misses a date you don't call more than once. You just go make other plans once she's late, that's why most first dates should be with friends haha. Yeah you're just too over eager about it. Honestly though, you should just talk to ur friends about it... not your map making buddies, just some food for thought.
~Tdnfthe1
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1.My name says "Doesnt Make Maps"
2.I get no minerals for posting in Miscellaneous
3.How do you know that im just about sex? Do you know me?
4.Calling her more than once is a waste its obvious she is with someone else at the moment. even if i get a hold of her what will she say? "crap i forgot one second while i tell my cousin to go home so i can drive all the way to you're house."
5.Not a first date
6.My friends have to see me in real life so they will say whatever makes them sound "cooler"
7. you're food is rotten and useless.
lol i guess that makes everything you just said wrong.
-no offenceReport, edit, etc...Posted by Mocha on 2006-08-07 at 11:48:03
QUOTE(Sinister_X @ Aug 7 2006, 09:23 AM)
1.My name says "Doesnt Make Maps"
2.I get no minerals for posting in Miscellaneous
3.How do you know that im just about sex? Do you know me?
4.Calling her more than once is a waste its obvious she is with someone else at the moment. even if i get a hold of her what will she say? "crap i forgot one second while i tell my cousin to go home so i can drive all the way to you're house."
5.Not a first date
6.My friends have to see me in real life so they will say whatever makes them sound "cooler"
7. you're food is rotten and useless.
lol i guess that makes everything you just said wrong. -no offence
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2.I get no minerals for posting in Miscellaneous
3.How do you know that im just about sex? Do you know me?
4.Calling her more than once is a waste its obvious she is with someone else at the moment. even if i get a hold of her what will she say? "crap i forgot one second while i tell my cousin to go home so i can drive all the way to you're house."
5.Not a first date
6.My friends have to see me in real life so they will say whatever makes them sound "cooler"
7. you're food is rotten and useless.
lol i guess that makes everything you just said wrong.
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Yeah, he practically said it was you're fault she's a flake.