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After reading this topic
http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat

I came to the point is it good for parents to hit there children or should parents just give them the lame rules like grounding them or sending them to there room.
Also for anyone who has a child heres something you might want to try on your child.

17.The grocery stuffer
If your child starts B*tchen to pick up all these food and you don't want to then show whos in power and give him\her a smack to the back of the head and a few mighty words. If they keep talking trash then say to them.
"Hay is that poo on your shirt"
They look down and then upercut there mouth and they'll learn there lesson.

I spank my son occasionally when he goes too far. I believe it's good for kids to have a healthy fear of their parents. I had the same for mine.

How else will kids learn discipiline?

My party is backed by Maddox.

What do you think I think?

As said before, if a child doesn't fear his parents he won't be afraid to lie and everything like that. As said by someone sometime somewhere, 'The soldiers should be more afraid of the officers then the enemy'. In time, it teaches your children wisdom and what not to do and what to do.

Sometimes it's hard to teach a child to fear his parents. I have a Bi-Polar step bro and he has no fear of whatever my dad and my step mom do. They have tried the belt(on the butt only). That never worked he cried for five minutes or even laughed afterwards and sometimes its impossible to tell if hes lying he has a good poker face he always switches things around like laughing when hes lying or telling the truth so you have to guess(hes 11 years old). I never got the belt by my mom or dad but I am usually good I've never had a fear of my mom, but I've feared my dad though not for conventional reasons. I would probably be less spoiled if I had a healthy fear.

Then they didn't start it early enough. You need to start disciplining children as soon as possible, except at baby stage.

You wana know whats the best way of using the belt. By wipping it at the childs ears which stuns him then kick him\her in the intestines.

Or sometimes if they're extreme throw them on the ground and pull down your pants and press your bum agaisnt there face to show whos boss.

I'd love to see a picture of you disciplining your children. Except for the bum part.

You wont see that for a couple more years. But I'll go soft on my children only when they p*ss me off ill throw eggs at there face.

My parents started it pretty early though. Though they went soft till school were he was a menace.

I don't think parents should hit their children. To me, it seems like it is an archaic practice put in place because people lacked alternative means of controlling their children.

Now, there are new, more effective ways of controlling your children, ones that do not require you to punish them using violence. After all, the line between child abuse and punishment can seem vague at times. How would you like it if your child was punished by some random person on the street for an action that they deemed inappropriate? You probably wouldn't. Is it better to beat someone under the guise of loving them? I know love hurts, but I think that it's taking it too far when you intentionally beat someone.

Often, violence on the child doesn't work, and merely leads to the child being violent to other children at the school. If you beat them for that behavior, it will probably be reciprocated upon other children more.

Also, if you beat your child, you often lose their respect, which I view as more important than their obedience. I find that a system of trust often works better than violence, as I would rather have my parents hit me than say that they were disappointed in me, as the guilt propagated by those words lasts longer than the temporary pain.

I do agree with Cow, at least partially. I think that disciplinary violence works up to a certain age, and then you just get into the respect loss.

Well, yeah, it doesn't work beyond a certain age, but before that the child has to ph34r the parent.

LOL

I believe it works until they start Elementary School. After that, your child is just going to dispise you for the rest of your life(or the child's)