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well today is probably be the weirdest day today(january 7)
well one me and my girlfriend broke up which was screwed up sence..well it was weird we got in a fight over nothing and she just left it was so lame

so that was the bad thing
heres the good thing

i also found out that my best friend has loved me for a very long time which is cool but weird we have been friends sence 4th grade and now were in high school

well shes got a great personality

she looks great(well she does to me)

heres a pic
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Her names Jessica i call her Jessy for short

well i need your opinion what would you do in this situation

would you give it some time
go out with her
or something else
please help

shes awesome i would love to go out with her but i really want to give it some time sence i just broke up with my g/f

please help


ADDITION:
heres another pic i caught her off guard with my camera
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in a purely materialistic sense, she's really pretty.
Why wouldn't you go out with her? Tell us what's 'wrong' with her.

Relationships do suck...my ex-boyfriend is weak and really fragile. I'm like the only girl I know who doesn't find that 'cute'

(Haha FK)

I dunno if she likes you ask her out I don't even know here though. But when a girl likes you she likes you a lot. Go ask her out!

Can be few problems dating your best friend, You pretty much almost know everything about each other, your dislikes, likes, what annoys ya all that stuff so good thing, but if you two do date and break up can ruin your friendship, sure may stay friends but wont be same. Looks is not everything Firekame, You also need feelings towards the girl. Just liking her, kinda ok, you dont know, not good, If ya in love with her sure give it a shot. But all relationships have risk the whole point of them to try something new and to fall in love and being happy hell, humans emotions bloody awesome ; But final choice up to you, Do you want to take your friendship to next level and see way she feels about you? Well i better stop typing and let you make up your mind.

theres nothing wrong with her
i'm just wondering if i should give it some time sence i just broke up with my g/f

I wouldn't date my best friend, he's almost like the brother I wish I never had (and I say that with deep endearment). I don't know, if you date your friend, you're risking not only losing a romantic relationship but also the friendship you once had.

I'd deffinatley give it some time. Love/lust/infatuation s with your head too much for you to go running into another relationship.

Come on, your a male you dont need time. Where horny little rabbits lol.

Yea understandable mate, i been hurt by girls and kinda takes abit get over. (1day) j/k.
So just take ya time and work out what you wanna do.

c thats what i'm worried about right there she told me she likes me as more than a friend and that she wants to be more than a friend, but if we do date and things take a turn for the worse i'm gona miss when we were just friends

Well mate, this where hard part comes in, what you doing do?

If was me, i wouldnt date my best-friend been there done that, not pretty picture i can tell you that much. But, then again you have learn from you own mistakes, i can paint your picture for you, just wrong. Do you like her more then a friend?

women are fickle creatures and have this thing called "PMS" she may love you right now, but in a week she may hate you.

Maybe she wants to be more than friends, but not go out. I call them friends with commitment problems, but I think there's another name for them...friends with advantages or something...

true that, i love jessy very much i just really don't want to lose her as a friend, and yes dating your best friend is kinda like dating a family member that you never had, i eman i know so much about her and she knows so much about me, if i date her and it s up our friendship then i'll regret this whole thing if that makes sence

Well, i have friends who are just " Sexy-buddies " and friends who are close and friends who are not, along with all my x-g/fs (whoa that deadly subject, got black eye from one, due fact i dont hit women and wont defend myself because female can get hurt)

u mean friends with benifits or something like that

That mind set will get you killed by an ex someday, moogle.

And I'll laugh my ass off when that day comes.

My final thought on this is shadow.

Yes you both love each other, yes you want date her, but is it worth losing your best friend and gainging a lover, in turns of event can all go up creek and your left witout a lover / friend. So meh, dont date her.. Best stay friends.

FK. wow harsh very harsh, just because im australian and gentleman dont mean going get killed, Plus im nice to females i dont do much to piss them off. I rather be myself then some who hits female out anger. damn blek~

FK don't talk like that I'll say it.

Jesus Christ. You're a kid. Just have fun and party with whoever you want! You have your whole life to start taking things so seriously. They're just girls. There will always be more of them coming into your life, so who cares? If you make a mistake, learn from it and don't do it again, but other than that just have as much fun as possible while you still can.

Thats a good way to look on it.. I suppose.

There's alot of ups in downs in going out with a friend you've known for along time here is a few:
Goods
You 2 will know what eachother like
Bad
You 2 will know weeknesses of eachother
Goods
You know exactly what she wants out of a guy
Bad
She knows alot about you (don't get me started with that..happend 2 me)
Goods
She is atractive

Over all ide give her a chance, so i guess ide go out with her.

If you want to stay frieinds with her I wouldnt suggest going out with her at a young age, every relationship I've been in/around hasnt ended on a good foot, thats why I refuse to date really close chick freinds.

Dont go out with her, it seems to me that she is confusing friendship with love (which ive done). It can up your freindship

Not like im a good person to give advice (trust me i'm not). But i'll tell you what i think anyways. I don't think you should go out with her if you just want to date, or have a fling, whatever. Unless you want to be very serious then, I wouldn't do it. And if you do then take it slow.

But after all don't listen to me, just cause I'm old doesn't mean I know about this kinda stuff. (actually moogle is older than me and nozomu is pretty my my age, so listen to them)

First off, you don't know what love is, and chances are, neighter does she. If you both loved each other (not just 'as a friend' bs), it wouldn't be a hard decision for you in the first place.

Secondly, don't worry about loosing her as a friend, you already did. She, specifically, already crossed the line.

Third, yes, give it at least a little time, depending on how serious your last relationship was (although, by your age, I would doubt (hopefully) it wasn't anything too serious). Relationship experts say to wait 6 months after a serious relationship. Although I don't necessarily recommend that long, but you'll know yourself when you can stop waiting because 1. You won't ask question's like "should I wait?" , and 2. You'll just feel it. The main reason not to start after a break up, in my logic, is after you break up, is the whole rebounding thing. Any relationships started while you are still hurting will be doomed to failure. You need to revert completely back to your orginal self and own state of mind before you can successfully date again.

Lastly, Noz is right... you are just a kid. People change, plans change, etc... There's only a small posibility you'll eventually marry her if you try to hold this serious relationship now. Take it very slow because if you eventually decide you aren't right for each other, you might be able to unwind things and still have your friend.

She is pretty hot though.

Moogle, lol... it's not cool to hit a lady, but a is a different story. Although, I don't believe I've ever done anything to a who was deserving. I don't know the story, but I'm betting she deserved at least a -slap in retailation .

Listen to Nozomu and IP, they know what you're talking about.