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Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kame on 2005-01-22 at 13:43:30
There's this guy.
He's being a censored.gif . I can't stand him.
He wants to go out with me.


Even though I've turned him down numerous times.

I need help. How can I convince him that I'm not interested? I've come right out and said I don't want to go out with him and he still thinks there is a chance. Now what?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-01-22 at 13:46:41
You can swear at him, =\ that's what I'd do, if he is a real ass, you could do that.

However, if you don't want to do that, the next time he asks you out, say 'NO!!' erally angrily and tell him to go away, and that you don't want to go out with him, with a lot of emotion. Don't do it in a really public place, because that's really mean, but you want him to hear it. Is he the kind of person that would cry if you did that though? =\
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Tazzy on 2005-01-22 at 13:48:09
Knee him, Knee him right in the manhood.!!!! And say No i dont like you! w00t.gif
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-01-22 at 13:49:43
He might take that as a sign he still has a chance with her, because some men would think "Great, she touched my... you can guess. Maybe she likes me a little bit and doesn't want to be public about it yet"
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Yoshi da Sniper on 2005-01-22 at 14:01:03
Get your slaves - me and tazzy - to "take him out" for you ermm.gif
Report, edit, etc...Posted by IsolatedPurity on 2005-01-22 at 14:15:45
Ignore / avoid him at all costs.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kame on 2005-01-22 at 14:16:01
The problem is that I can't be really really really mean, because he's my coworker, and we need to work together on stuff. We're both in theater and are crewheads, if that makes sense to anyone, so if I become a censored.gif on him...it'll cause problems.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Mune'R0x on 2005-01-22 at 14:22:01
[center]Well, what I do when a guy likes me and doesn't leave me alone... Actually, it did happen twice before. All I did was make fun of them for awhile until the realized I'm not gay. Hey, you could pretend to be a lesbian and tell him you're not interested in guys.[/center]
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-01-22 at 14:24:11
He may tell other people that though, and then she couldn't go out with someone she wanbted to go out with, it really depends on if he knows other people she knows, and if she is ok saying that to avoid a guy who keeps asking her out.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Chill on 2005-01-22 at 14:28:02
Tell him that you love him very much, and, that if he ever leaves, you're going to kill yourself. This will remedy any relationship problem of any sort. Trust me.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kame on 2005-01-22 at 14:28:39
We're in the same...eh..."social cirlces" as all my friends. And knowing my friends, they wouldn't believe me...especially him. He challenged my beliefs one day, so I'm pretty sure he knows I'm christian.

Besides...I don't want my other friends to think I'm a lesbian, because I'm not.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by BeeR_KeG on 2005-01-22 at 14:33:49
Go out with someone else to make him think you like someone else.
Tell him that you prefer other kinds of guys.

If not I'll go fight with him.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Urmom(U) on 2005-01-22 at 14:35:28
QUOTE(beerkeg)
If not I'll go fight with him.

that's how boys nowadays solve their problems, especially minimoose. tell him that you'll fight him ersonally if he doesnt leave you alone.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-01-22 at 14:57:29
Tell him how you feel that he is buging you... and tell him thats i'm not intertreed and i don't really like you as much and say theres other gurls out there for you but not me.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Nozomu on 2005-01-22 at 15:04:33
Just lay it out. Tell him flat out that you will never date him, that his behavior is becoming a problem, and that he needs to stop. If he still won't stop, tell your boss at work and all your friends what a problem he's being. Your boss and your friends will tell him to knock it off. Bam. Done.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kame on 2005-01-22 at 15:04:58
QUOTE(BeeR_KeG[eM] @ Jan 22 2005, 12:33 PM)
Go out with someone else to make him think you like someone else.
Tell him that you prefer other kinds of guys.

If not I'll go fight with him.
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I've never felt so loved. So many people offered to beat the crap out of him for me cry.gif

I don't want to go out with another guy only because I want this guy off my case...that's like using him.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by IsolatedPurity on 2005-01-22 at 15:08:40
Noz is right... the strict truth should totally crush him smile.gif.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kame on 2005-01-22 at 15:22:59
Aye, I'll try that. I've turned him down numerous times, and I thought that would've been enough.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Nozomu on 2005-01-22 at 15:57:47
I'm always right tongue.gif.

No, seriously, I just know this because I've done the whole high school immaturity thing. The important thing to remember is that his feelings don't matter one bit. He's young, he'll get over it. The one thing you don't want to do is let him down without hurting him, because he'll still think he has a chance with you.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by notnuclearrabbit on 2005-01-22 at 16:54:37
[center]CAVE HIS NADS IN! ...Anyway... Your life sounds alot like mine. I work in the theater at school, too! Although, I don't have dudes asking me out all the time... only once.[/center]
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