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All I'm saying is that there is the possibility that the kid just can't be helped, everyone's not the same and there are surely kids out there that are just very messed up.

and you blamed the mother for that you warthog faced bafoon. yes there are kids out ther who have messed up, but you put them past redemtion (not churchy) everyone has a chance tp change, at every step of his life be it young or old. they dont just wright about it cus its something the the wrighters would like to see happen one day, it happens all the time. all it takes is one second, one thought to change your hole life. sometimes you cant see it, or even note it as you live on, but you change. if you werent such a dumb you would relize that.

It can't be circular because our parent's parents didn't have the same lifestyle. Stay at home moms were more common, and children didn't have access to an anonymous life on the internet (if you see your 10 year old looking at bad stuff on the internet, it's time to pull the plug).


That's just passing the blame. It starts with the parents.


I'm a member of society who sees wrong, and has decided to bring it up, and with a lot of luck, maybe even raise awarness.


Really? Gee, I couldn't have figured that out on my own.

Clearly her best wasn't good enough, how do you know that she didn't avoid disipline so as to not make her kid cry? Lots of people don't know when to put their foot down now a days, and it's absolutly neccessary when raising a kid.

That's why you teach him or her how to figure out what's wrong. Assosiate other people's pain with displeasure and compasion.

It is completly the parent's fault, you showed the kid that it was alright to be a jackass, and so he or she felt no need not to be. Being a jackass should make your kid have negetive feelings.

A half assed appology doesn't cut it with me.

I was giving an example of how I think a kid should be raised, with disipline and a caring enviroment

You're a human being, you have the capacity to figure it out, if you need help, you can ask people who turned out well how they were raised. Parents aren't helpless and alone. We're a very social race (humans are), use it to your advantage.



Too bad your parents didn't teach you that half assed appologies only aggrivate people more, and that being too lazy to spell correctly in a formal setting is incredibly disrespectful.


I don't really like that little bit much. You know the whole "you'll thank me later". I'm smart enough to predict the near future, and I'll thank them now if I think they're helping me. That to me is so patronizing.


Where is this thread of children who aren't spoiled enough? Maybe you're refering to someone born on the streets or someone growing up in a warring country... perhaps a 2nd - 3rd world country. By my own convention, spoiling a person mean that you're giving them too much of a good thing, so that they are less of a good person then they were before you spoiled them.


1 in 10,000 people who are actually disterbed doesn't account for 1 in 1000 people with the morals to figure out what's wrong, and what's right. Those aren't proven statistics, they're blind assumptions.


Maybe I should report that... nah, the mods will probably just give him a cookie.

You act like stabbing someone close to you 100+ times is just some ordinary thing. So what if the kid has a few problems, but it should get to the point where the parent starts to get help. Kids don't just wake up one day and pull a knife on mommy, things lead up to it. And that is when the parent needs to take action.

well.....how about that, you have managed to do the same thing you were crying about, placing blame. i read somewhere on this site, i don't know who it is9 i could very well be you) but they said something along the lines of " what is right and what is wrong" what is right in the eyes of one person might be what is wrong in anothers. so said you will probably go off about " oh, is killing your mom right in your eyes" and if you do im sorry for your stupidity. example- did you father ever teach you how to fight? when to fight? who to fight? well, is that wrong? you know what...im done. im not even going into it with you. this thing can go on forever and get real ugly real fast. parents have different ways of teaching there kids. thats a fact. there is also nothing you can do about what your nabber dose with their kids. you can try, but you'll just piss them off. so, you can se all the problems in the world with other peoples parenting...thats good for you, it doesn't mean that they are bad parents. there are not very many cases of this kind of thing happening. and if you fallow a kid that you say if "bad" into the real world. ill give you 10-1 odds that they realize what there doing and change it. thusly thats why i said no one cares about what your mommy and daddy did for you. your not them. "Really? Gee, I couldn't have figured that out on my own." yeh no kidding.
and that "half assed" apiology wasn't to you, it was for the readers who might have gotten offended by what i said. i don't care about you, or what you think. but, when you respond, i will read and think about what you put and see if i can use it for anything in my life.


everyone has there own opinion, that was mine.

I'm not going to respond to that (in any meaningful way) for two reasons.
1. You didn't use grammar, you mispelled too many things, and you havn't managed to articulate your point very well. To me, you're just some little self proclaimed enlightened jerk.

2.
If you're too lazy to support your own beliefs, why should I waste my time on you. That's your parents job.

Alright, here's a common example... Almost every twit at my school litters, when the only thing it does, is hurt them and the community. If their parents taught them that littering was wrong (via teaching them to be aware of what they're doing, and the concequences and what those concequences mean) then they would all feel really terrible for littering, and wouldn't do it again, because it's impossible to like feeling bad (bad as in sort of ill, not badass or anything like that).

I think sometimes the parents just have to get down right violent with their kids for them to learn anything. I guess some kids need to learn by example. Sure you can try a nice approach and talk to them, but they might not care at all, so then you have to be mean and take control of them harshly.

You can try and be the best parent, but you won't be able to help your child if he has a disease when he's born that affects him, like ADD. That's not the parent's fault, is it?

No, but it's also highly irrelevent.

You can't teach your kid any morales if he has an attention span of 5 seconds.

Doesn't have to be a disease, just a very strongwilled kid who is very disturbed.

You know what? Closed because people aren't mature enough to put some research into what they say.

PM me if you're dying to make a post in it, I'll open.