EDIT: In response to Millenium:
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I mean, what are these people hoping to achieve out of their marriages?
Well, I've never looked it up so I understand that I could be wrong, but as I understand it, married couples gain plenty of benefits from state and government.
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I don't want my 6-10 year old son coming home today and saying, "Hello daddy, look at this book my teacher gave me *opens pages* see here is a lesbian, and here is a homosexual"
That's completely different.
I never said
anything about books in which the subject is being gay, only that I see nothing wrong with books with gays in them.
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Personnally, I feel that children at that age are TOO young to have matrial like that.
Again, I ask you, explain your reasoning.
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I said I would rather have that matrial introduced when they are at an age of discovering themselfs (teenage years) and your telling me thats a bad thing?
No, I'm telling you it's
not a bad thing to not hide it from them earlier.
Teaching about it specificaly and revealing it are completely different things.
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When I mean encourage, I mean I think it could possibly, key word, possibly encourage people to become gay.
Right. And Starcraft could "possibly encourage" people to go and kill people. Or those GTA games. But I don't believe there's anything wrong with them, because their effect is minimal.
To quote you: "key word, possibly".
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And when I mean encourasge Im thinking "Hey COME ON AND BE GAY, its so SUPER"
No one ever said anything at all about doing that.
Refer to my argument above the last.
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And being gay is unnatural to me
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Pay Some Attention... -_-QUOTE
And Ezday2, why FORCE something into a child's life? mmmmm
How is letting it be okay "forcing" it in someone's life? Does it even
matter??
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also, why do YOU think its ok to show LITTLE CHILDREN about this stuff when they barely understand anything at all at those ages, and if some do understand this, WHY burden them with the stress of wondering if he/she is gay or not. A 7 year old wondering if he is gay or not disturbs me.
Why would I
not think that it's okay to show them 'about this stuff'?
"Mommy mommy my teacher showed me a book that had a gay in it! She's corrupting my childhood!!"
... I don't think that will happen...
"Barely understand anything at all at those ages"... What the crap does that have to do with it?
"...and if some do understand this, WHY burden them with the stress of wondering if he/she likes pizza or not. A 7 year old wondering if he likes pizza or not disturbs me."
Second to lastly, all your reasons for not censoring homosexuality being bad could also be turned around... except for one;
We should ban all books from upto 5th-grade schooling that show a man and woman that are married.
In fact, they shouldn't
ever see a someone wiht a boy/girlfriend or spouse!
They don't know about this stuff!
Hell, let's make them not know that there's any difference in males and females other then appearance! They're too young to know about this stuff!!
And lastly...
It seems to me that them being ignorant of even the
possibility of loving someone of the same gender in anything more than a family-way is part of the cause of discrimination against gays:
They see absolutely nothing about the concept, then in 4th grade they hear about it or see someone being called "gay" and ask what it is.
It seems unnatural, but they've never been told that, in this case, it's not an inherantly bad thing, it must have been hidden from them for a reason! Because it's "bad"!
Or, of course, if all their friends are using "gay" as an insult for the same reason as above.
It's kind of hard to teach someone that it's not inherantly bad if you hide it from them until they're getting near their idiot-years(middle school).
And no, I'm not talking about teaching about it in particular, just not hiding.
As I said before, focusing on something and not hiding it are completely different matters, but you STARS seem to keep confusing them.