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Well, how am I supposed to know the difference of when I'm in love or in lust, is their any difference (except for the emotion itself)?

Lust is if you feel like having sex with them and ONLY sex with them. You like them only because they're hot, not necessarily their personality. It's about yourself, your own pleasures, not hers.

Whereas Love is where you actually care about this person, even if she were the ugliest woman in the world. Of course you're going to probably have some sexual desire, but not as extreme as the lust.

Gotcha, thanks a lot guys, because now I think I'm really falling in love with this girl, and the emotions for the other have completely gone away. This really helps understanding my feelings more

With my experiences, I have only fallen in love once. Well, make that twice now.

That chick online that I was talking about, is in love with me (Ha! Who could be in love with me) and I am in love with her, too.

I have never seen this girl in real life, only through pictures. I have only heard her voice once, yet we seem to have fallen for eachother...

It's her poems she writes about her feelings about me, and she is just an awesome person!

So no worries. Most likely, you do love this person. And if you don't right away, you will eventually.

I guess sex education in High school aint that bad at all; learned lots of cool and important things. But unfortunately they coerced us to watch some pretty... grotesque pictures of people with STDs

Yup, they'll do that.

I hope I never get Genetal Warts, I think those are the worst.....

There's this one wart picture which i JUST CANNOT GET OUT OF MY HEAD. It was this one where this guy had some warts or w/e in his anus.

Nasty....

But, this topic is about Love, not viral diseases.....

If you were in true love, you would have never created this topic.

That's not true. He is young, and has never fallen in love. I would have done the same thing. He was looking from advice from the older members of the forum, not remarks like that.

Simple questions don't hurt anybody.

I don't really kinow how to describe love to me, but it just happens.

Love is a tough thing, that cannot be explained through words, but through actions?

Love....is quite simply...impossible to truly identify. You can't see it coming. Never. You can't force it to happen. And you can't control it. Its like it has a mind of its own. When you are in love, you'll know it, but it will take time. No matter how experienced anyone is about the topic of love, no one can ever tell right away. (If you can, trust me, its not love)

However, the one thing you should know for sure is that love developes. Its a feeling that...grows on you. You don't just fall in love straight away. You can claim it, ofcourse...but in the end, its just a claim one would make from something they felt in a single moment...when love is actually something you would feel for a very long time... true love is, anyway.

Love also has to do with everything about the one you love. Who they are, they're personality, what they do, their interests...everything, even how they look. Atleast, thats what you THINK. But in the end, you realize you simply love them for who they are, and that you might not even give a shit about the rest.

This is how it developes, with Time. Over time, something becomes precious. Over time, some people will become more important then others. Over time, you will trust one person more then another. Over time, feelings may start to arise for that person that you didn't have before. And that is because...love developes. However, in the end, love can only blossom if it is wanted, made known, and encouraged, and all of that, depends on the those who may fall into love.

But don't take my word for it. Love is by far, one of the most complex human behaviors ever to be known. I'll be damned if I figure out it works. (Same with women, but thats another story... -_-')

Well then...... I have fallen in love again.... This time I don't want to be hurt though >.<

I'm going to take your word for it, because that is true love... I have felt that before, and i'm starting to feel it again!!!

As the wize Moogle said once:



Halelluah brotha! Lol.

Im in love with you!

You scare me.............................................

Lol.

IMO I dont think you can truly fall in love at first site. Usually that would be some form of lust. Love is something which comes slowly as you get to know this person more and more.

You don't pay attention to the threads do you?

It isn't lust because I have known her for almost 2 months (which is long enough for ME to fall in love with someone)

We have the same interests, she is beautiful...

Damnit! G2g, dad needs phone!

RAWR!
!!!!!!!

I'm talking about love at first sight. People claim they fall in love at first sight, which I dont find true sometimes.

True. It rarely happens. But, it can.

I believe that you can't really love someone at first sight, because you really have no idea what their personality is like. Although you might get an idea just by looking at someone that you want to get to know them and you like them at first. But I don't think true love is purely love at first sight.

Ah...love at first sight....I'd have to say devilisk's reply best describes it. Love at first sight is more like the rare occasion of finding the prospect of love by sensing it in a persons air/manner. For instance, lets say a certain girl acts in a way you like. I'm not referring to being sexy or anything, just a certain behavior, like, o say...extremely nice, if you were a guy to go for that type. It would spark an interest in you, wouldn't it?(assuming the perviously mentioned). You might think it to be love, but it's really just something sparked by something you would love about a women, and that causes you to think of it as love. After that point, it COULD become love, or you could get dumped(or visa versa).

Hm...I'm just curious but who thinks I'm right and who thinks I'm spouting out BS? I vote for BS

I'm a firm believer that love is mainly lust. (Except for love for friends or family or X subject)

My reason? Why does a straight guy always fall in love with a woman if love is not just lust. Why doesn't he sometimes fall for his best friend? Is it because he's sexsually attraced to the woman instead? Sounds like lust to me.

But the whole true love thing, does make people feel all warm inside. MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM....warm like cookies. Fresh baked cookies. MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM. Too bad I'm on a diet of 100%, no naive bullshit. I guess no cookies for me then. Ain't that a bitch.

Nothing pisses me off more than the "Love at first sight" bullshit. Sure, mabye Rosie O'Donnell was in love with the buffet at first sight, but there's no such thing as love at first sight between two humans. If the Olsen Twins walk into my house, sure, I'm thinking that they're all I ever wanted and could ask for, but I could never even begin to tell if I was in love with someone just by seeing them and never meeting them. After all, isn't it called "Love at first SIGHT"? What pisses me off even more is the Oprah-watching-idiots that say things like they "fell in love with the man of their dreams, and knew it was love at first sight". Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't this the same crowd of jackasses that say it's the personality that matters?

=\ jeez, who ripped your off? Lighten up man.

Love isn't something others prove for you, its something you prove for yourself. If you never do, then I would assume that you would assume that it doesn't exist. This is a natural course of action, and there is no way to factual prove you wrong, because all we can offer is "It's true! I've felt it before!". Anyway, good luck to ya. Try not to be so pessimistic, you sound like an old ass politician.