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Yea, you know the topic of "I have a boyfriend" should've come up. But I try not to be bitter

I think it would be more of like "You had a girlfriend"


Lol that's funny, that guy is a real player Maybe he couldn't decide which one he liked better, dating a guy or a girl.

It would have to suck to be gay. (No punn intended) People always making fun of you left and right. I'm glad I don't have to deal with that bullshit

What do you mean by Charisma? I am a charming guy, I just cannot engage in conversation with chicks so.....

I'm not an expert, but the only way you're gonna over come this problem, is if you find a girl you can kinda talk to. (Wether she be ugly, or stupid, or w/e makes you feel comfortable around her) I'm positive you can find somebody.

Yeah.... Sure..... Whatever....

I'm to ugly to get a gf... I'm to stupid to get one... To pathetic... To ... Yeah, everything negative you can think about, that's me...

I guess i'll just stick with hanjilla and hanjalea the rest of my life....

With the attitude you got going on right now, of course you're having a such a hard time. If you think you're a loser, then you'll be a loser. (When it comes to dating anyways)

Hey, you might luck out. Some girl might feel sorry for you or w/e, and then you guys can hook up. I gurantee there are girls that have a problem a lot like yours.

He's right. You'd be suprised actually, there are quite a few... anyway, quit with the damn loser attitude. I told you, if you wanna fix this shit, you must do it with your own strength, even if you have to fake it.

Build up confidence, and if your friends don't help you, figure out why. If it's "just because," then get different friends that WILL help you. Trust me, you'd also be suprised at how many people love to play matchmaker and help out guys with problems such as yours. Moral support and any other confidence booster you can find will help you. And although it just sounds like a stupid idea popping out of "The Sims," try the whole mirror thing. Anything is worth a try.

P.S.: By confidence booster, I don't mean Viagra, so don't get the wrong damn idea.

What kind of friends are those?

My point exactly.

Why do you feel you need a girlfriend to validate who you are?

EDIT:
hmm, that sounded meaner than I intended. What I mean is, you don't need a girlfriend to survive; its not like you'll literally fall over and pass into oblivion if you don't have a girl around your arm.

Sure, it sucks to be the third man in a group, hell I went to prom alone with five other couples. It was entirely my fault, I could've asked someone to go with me, I don't know if they would've said yes or no and I'll never know. All that matters is having fun. Don't let this stuff get to you.

EDIT 2
God damn. Enough psuedo-wisdom outta me.

Well, my closest friends (with the exception of 2-4) hate me now because of what a narc has put into their minds (I'm the one that narced everyone out, when i'm not even a narc)

Some of my friends will help me, just not all of them. (maybe 1 or 2 will help, and maybe not even that >.<)

And I had that attitude cause I was depressed over stupid shit.

I am now in a happy mood, and I now know that internet chick I was talking about (wesmic can vouce for me that she is hot) loves me. I have fallen for her, too.

But I still want a gf for the time that i'm still here in Idaho (I leave for Phoenix Arizona on August 11th. Then i'm going to drive to where this girl lives)

Anyways..... Anything else?

A long time ago, i made a poll in the garbage forum (oh wait, excuse me. I mean the "moose zone") about whether mental or physical pain is greater. The physical pain one won, but i still believe nothing is greater than this mental or emotional pain.

Great point. Relationships are not vital to everyone. And if you need a friend, (And judging from what I know from your friends already, I'm gonna assume you do), just get a normal friend. They do the same stuff, except women add in the sex part. And loving a woman just for sex is good, however, don't mislead her into thinking that you actually love her love her, when you really don't. Then she ends up loving you, and when you're tired of her or w/e and want to break up, It'll be extremely awkward and it makes you seem like an asshole when you do. Trust me, I've done it twice. It sucks.

As for the physical and mental pain thing, I picture them as really the same thing. They're both really mental. They effect mainly the mind. Except the so called phsyical pain, can effect another part of the body directly a lot greater. (Like a serious burn or severed limb) The question would be, which one causes greater pain over all, and that's all opinion. However, physical does cause more physical DAMAGE than mental. Mental may break your spirits, make you not want to live, and commit suicide. Phsyical could kill you right away. So looking at a stoic's point of view, physical would be worse. But I hate stoics. They're snobby wannabe emotionaless cliche robots.

Then that means, she was using you so she can meet your friend, That's what happen to me, lucky my friend didn't like her. I knew she was using me for some reason.



Either, your friend was jealous or you were too late to get her.



Well, maybe you haven't found the right girl? Don't like a girl if she doesn't like for who you are. The right girl is a girl that likes you for who you are. If your gf brokes up with you, remember this. There are more girls out there that you can find.

my advice is to just do it! if you feel like a fool, then your doing something right. basicly, you manna make them laugh before you even ask them any questions. and even after you make them laught, just walk away and talk to someone else before you ask them there name. if you can make them laugh right off, your in forever. they will always think of you as funny. first impresions last dude. you can do it!!!!! oh and onther thing i see is wrong, you have to get out of MC, and preston. GTFO!!! move to arizona or something and find a hot chick and bang the out of her

Lol. I already have my hot chick. Her name is Oraya!

you havent got shit yet, shes still in...wherever.

But she is comming to Preston to see me (Which I find very odd) So technically, I do have her.

I have her for when I get out of college though

there you go, go for shit dude!!!

It hurts more because mental pain stay with you longer than physical pain, physical pain may last from an hour to 3 months, while usually emotional/mental pain is with you for ever.
but you got to keep on moving on, and i've gone through what your going through before but then you meet that one special girl that you know is perfect for you, when you find her, your protect her, you put her in front of everything, you future, your life, everything

and if your friends are mean enough to take your girls away then they arn't that great of friends, are they?

don't put her in front of EVERYTHING. not until you know that she will be with you thru it all. until then, just be friends that hang out A LOT more. think of this, what happens if you put her in front of everything and you change you hole life so that you can be behind her.....and she leaves. what then? you just say " well let go back to the way things were." then hit the "system default" button? you cant.your that way until you change your self back to what you think you were.but your never really the same. its like beating the shit out of.....a toaster....then trying to put it back the way it was. it can get close, but it will never truly be the same. so just weight to see if she is going to stick around before you start changing. besides, she likes you the way you are,so i have been told.

Who told you that?

you did