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I don't know how your guys' Emotional Lives are but I know that mine is pretty *ucked up...

Every time I start to like someone, they always get stolen away from me...

For example:

The first girl that was stolen away from me was my actual first love at the time... She broke up with me for "no reason", then went out with a guy I was friends with...

Next, was a girl named Summer... I had taken a liking to her for a long, long time... Then I was about to get her and boom, another friend of mine took her away from me...

Third, was a girl named Jalisa... I liked her imediatly... She was the same sign as me... Liked the same music as me (Credence Clearwater Revival, and all the old rock) and she was very, very pretty... I had been holding off on this one, cause everyone told me to... Then they were all like, Make your move now!... So I did... And she backed away from it... Then the next day, "I don't like you like that"... Then she went out with a douché bag older dude... Then I found out that she actually did like me like that... Then finally her and her older douché bag bf broke up... I tried to make the move again... I then gave up...

And last, is a girl named Tristen... I never got to know her, but my friend told her about me... And now, she is going out with my friend's little brother...

Why does this shit always happen to me...?

I want you guys to logically answer this... No stupid ass remarks or comments, or I'll temp close the topic... Any more obsessive dumb ass comments or remarks, will result in topic closed forever....

Well the first one just sounds like a bitch.

The second girl... well who's this "friend" who steals away girls if they know you like here (assuming they knew).

The fourth girl, well she wasn't "stolen" if you never got to know her, unless your friend's lil bro knew you liked her.

Don't worry though, there's more out there. And I hope your saying crap to your friends if they're doing shit like that to you. You don't have to make a huge scene in publich but at least say something to them.

Well, You're not lucky indeed. I know by experience that love is Crual for everyone. But It come that a day, you'll meet the perfect person for you... well Near perfection...
Your Situation is Hard, Because you can't tell your friend that you don't want him to Hang out with a girl you like.

You could... Tell your friend to stay out of your new girlfriend.

Or

Never let your girl meet your friend...

Well. It's not easy for everyone. But trust me, one of these days... you'll meet the right person.

How can you call it stealing? You act like you have a right to her.

Don't really listen to your friends. Make your move when you think is right, when this girl is actually in love with you, and you love her back. Emotional pain is just there to make you know you did something wrong, and to not do that again. But then again, its all theory, the emotions are so complicated.

Yeah right... Don't make me laugh... For some reason every girl I like that way, "Doesn't like me that way. Only as a friend" (except the girl on the internet that I have met... I hope she doesn't get stolen away from me either....)

ADDITION:


I used the word stealing, cause I didn't know what other word to use... And I do believe I have the right to them if they like me back the same way...

Kellimus, you're Young man. Hey. Like Parthx86 said, there plenty of women out there which would be pleased to meet you! Anyway, You're lucky in a way because there some Man who never had the pleasure to hang out with a women.

Edit: Damn I can't type right I'm drunk or what?

Here's how I look at it. If you want to make your move on a girl, do it when the two of you are alone, if she doesn't go for it, then just think of it as nothing other than a friendship, mabye not even that.

Wesmic, Somes Girl are shy. That don,t mean that they actually don't love you.

I'm 18... Is that considered young?

Anyways, I did make my move on all of them when we were alone (Except the 4th cause I never was introduced to her)

And I am still without a gf........

Hey, I got a girl I liked flowers and a teddy bear at our grade 9 grad, and guess what she gave me in return? Hooking up with another guy then having sex with him. Life sucks.

I agree, it does suck. At least that isn't as bad as what my first love did to me.....

"I don't like you anymore" *later* "You take one drag from this smoke, and i'll go back out with you" *takes drag* "okay cool" *15 minutes later* "I don't want to have sex again until i'm 16... And this relationship isn't going to work out" *next day* I find her getting ready to *uck some guy!!!!!!!!!!!!

So yeah. That really *ucking sucks

Kell, you need to leave an open mind. I've met so many guys who have had the perfect chance with a girl of their dreams but turned it down because of past experiences. Some girls are just jerks and love to mess with guys, while some will actually care of you and love you one day. Make sure you never ever say women suck because then you're gonna stay alone for the rest of your life.

I do have an open mind. I never have chances with chicks because i'm to shy, and to scared to even talk to them.

Allow me to show you your problem, Kellimus.

You're a *ucking *ussy . I can confidently say this cause it takes one to know one. Now look here, you know that the only one that can fix your problem is you, right? But you're a *ussy , so we have a problem on our hands... And before you think i'm acusing you of anything, dont. Its ok to be a *ussy , most men really are when it comes to going for someone that they truly want. Hell, even I'm that way, but I'm learning to get over it. The best thing for us pussies to do is ask for help. Not advice, no, thats total bullshit. Ask for moral support, and for your friends to back off. If you really do like someone, trust me, most buddies will give in and lay off. ESPECIALLY if they know you've had it tough. And if they don't, theyre not real friends, they're bullshitters. Dump em and get better ones. If you're gonna make friends, make real ones (That is the most important part of friend-making). Anyway, like I said, in the end, its your real friends that will help you beat this thing. So although I appreciate that you would so willingly confide in us, you must remember that were only internet people. We can't send a Cupid.zip file over to you to make all your problems go away. All I can offer you is what I've just said. The rest all depends entirely upon your actions, just like the rest of your life. Goodluck, Godspeed, and don't commit suicide. That's the *ussy 's way of going.

Kamikazi on the other hand... nah, thats like terrorism. Nevermind that last part.

P.S.: Please excuse the hugely annoying blob of text. And sorry fer callin you a *ussy, but I'm afraid it was required.

I figure that these high school relationships are going to get me no where. All they do is cause this Emotional Pain, which is what this topic is about. I have no problems being friends with a female. The only time that I will get in somewhat of a relationship with a girl is if I think I can get some . That's just the type of person I am.

Well thanks for the info

I know i'm a puss, so no offence taken. I just don't know how to do it. I just can't fathom me going up to a really attractive chick and saying whatever.

I won't ask for advice, i'll ask for help.

HeLp!?

lol...I told you, not on the damn internet! >< Go to you friends in the physical world, they can actually do something about it. All I can do is make words appear on this forum. Which is pretty awesome, but not really contributing to solving your problem... -_-'

I've tried to have my friends help, and they wont. Seriously. So I don't know wtf to do..... I'm soooo lost!

make your friends force you to talk to this girl. Go up to her with your friends for some support. Make sure they don't exceed you though, just have them there for moral encouragement. It might not seem like itll help, but trust me, being with people you know makes everything a lot better. Maybe if she's with a lot of others, you can be with too, and you can get with one of the girls!

I've dated three guys...
One had a boyfriend at the time
One never wanted to make it official (and had gay/bi tendencies I found out)
One was in the closet

But I'd hardly call high school dating emotional trauma *shrug* That's just me though. Why do put so much emphasis on dating?

edit--spelling

For some reason I get the feeling you like gay guys

Not really. -_- I didn't find out until after I dumped them about their tendencies. Except the second one...heh heh.

That's very distrubing Kame At least they could have told you while you were dating.

Go infront of your mirror right now, and start working on your charisma. That's the best way to practice building confidence w/ out any real stress involved. People do it all the time. Even me.

I used to have your same problem until I was about 15 or 16.