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I suppose... That would make 7 months before you get married to have conception.

Okay...let me rephrase this.

Month One: Marriage

Month Three: Your wife finds she is pregnant.

Month Twelve : She gives birth.

Another angle,
this was sopposedly the "woman of your dreams"
this means that when she turns out she isn't, yoru dreams pretty much get shattered, and that's painful. (Almost like learning what you mean when people call you a Ham, er, not quite.)
Not to mention the fact that you obviously weren't teh man of her dreams.

simple i would kill the real father of the child, then kill the mother, then kill maria. jk

but uhh seing as it's only a few months later i probly wouldnt of gotton attached to maria so i wouldnt feel to bad if i just left the wife and the kid... i dont think i would send any money either...

ADDITION:
Also kame is this one of those "my friend has a problem storys, but your really talking about your self..." (jk)

Would leaving now be worse, or leaving after the child's grown up be worse? Will you still be able to face you wife? And what if you can't reconcile? Wouldn't it scar the child more if she lived in an atmosphere where the two people raising her hate eat other's gut?

Personally, I probably would divorce, but send support to the child if she needs it. I wouldn't be able to face my wife though, at least not for some time.

I would divorce, and not support the child, shes only four years old.

I would go on my supper massive mushroom and acid trip.

Then if the child needed support (Probibly, because the wife is a stupid whore and will just sleep around to get her money) I would give the child support.

I wouldn't be able to even talk to my wife for quite some time (Hence the week long acid and shroom trip)

I have still got the best and most accurate approach, without a doubt.

I would divorce....Thats it, never talk to her unless I had to, but i would probly have to send child support even tho im not the father cuz the Law system is gay. I would send the money and live my own life.

I would grow extremely sad and see it as a failing on my part. Knowing how I act, I would probably ask her how long ago, if at all, she had stopped seeing anyone else. If she was still seeing someone else, I would of course make her stop and ask her why. I would probably just feel deathly sick, but I would embrace her when she flew right back into my arms. I would never marry someone who cheated just for no reason at all.

(Let it be noted I'll not marry someone that cheats, because my love is perfect!)

I would continue to raise Maria because she was still family, and I would love my wife dearly.

Oh to be quite frank I would still love my wife, but I'd probably really push for having our own child at that point. Most couples don't try to have a child a year or two into their marriage.

If that sounds pathetic, too bad for you. I actually hold love in the highest esteem, above everything else. My pride would suffer a great deal, but we'd get through it. I'd also get to the real reason why she was cheating and fix it. We'd live the rest of our life together happily, without problems or "outside" interference.

Wow, this is a tough one to think about, but I know that I'll marry the woman that my love is boundless for. You won't ever find me cheating, Hell no. And if you suggest that she would, you deserve a kick in the nether region.

Cheating is a disgusting thing to consider even thinking about.

I'd ask myself, why the do I have such a crappy life, that I get into these scenarios?

Then I'd do the same thing wesmic would do. You know it's true! The woman always wins because the man isn't "trustworthy enough"!!

I have absolutely no idea what I would do in that situation. It would catch me completely off-guard. If this really is the woman of my dreams, I'd try to forgive her, I suppose.

I'd also try to find out who the real father is, because I'm curious like that. If it's someone I know, I'd cut off all ties with him, avoid him completely so that I don't do something stupid.

I would cut something else off.

Also, how could you possibly stay with her, she's off having sex with other guys (who knows if there's only been one), she has hidden it from you, she's obviously good at it, considering you never found out. Why would you want to stay in the kids life also, it's not your kid, you have no relation to it, you're obviously going to have to associate with a woman who stabbed you in the back...

Because you love her... and you have to be willing to give her a second chance.

Why, so she can your brother this time?

I was going under the assumtion that there was only the one other man, and that it was over now. I'm pretty oblivious, so it'd be easy to get it past me, but I'd be paranoid from then on. I'd hope she'd understand. I wouldn't just go on like nothing happened; there would be some serious marraige counciling. I don't know what I'd do if this were still going on.. she obviously wouldn't be the girl of my dreams in that case.

God dammit, don't even suggest that the real girl of my dreams could ever consider this!