Report, edit, etc...Posted by EzDay281 on 2005-07-30 at 04:15:44
I'm too lazy to read the posts right now, but I say:
It, in itself, is okay. I don't really give a damn whether two people that are in love are of different ages. If they love each other, they love each other.
If they love each other after finding out they're both lieing wonderful friends, then they love each other after finding out they're both lieing wonderful friends.
IF they don't, they don't.
It, in itself, is okay. I don't really give a damn whether two people that are in love are of different ages. If they love each other, they love each other.
If they love each other after finding out they're both lieing wonderful friends, then they love each other after finding out they're both lieing wonderful friends.
IF they don't, they don't.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Tazzy on 2005-07-30 at 04:16:02
QUOTE(Alpha(MC) @ Jul 30 2005, 06:30 AM)
It's fine by me, but to the law, that's a diff situation. (Assuming you're in the us)
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Same by me, It is fine to date a 14 year old, I see nothnig wrong with it really, Age does not really mater aslnog as you lvoe her, But if your 18 and then you said to me she was nay younger than 14 i might think other wise. Again its the way the world and the law works, If you told the police/Cop you where dating a 14 im sure he'll nick you and talk to you about the age difference and stuff. As in england, the girl ha to be 16 befor you can do anything with her, Im not saying you want to do anyhing with her, But try explain you love her and wont to anything to her untill shes the right age maybe odler to her pareants and the police.
QUOTE(Kellimus @ Jul 30 2005, 06:38 AM)
If the parents are scarred i'm going to do stuff with her, they can think again....
I am in to much love to do anything bad with her... I just want to hold her and feel her and look at her...
I don't care about sex with her... That can wait till the right time....
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I am in to much love to do anything bad with her... I just want to hold her and feel her and look at her...
I don't care about sex with her... That can wait till the right time....
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The parents will be poo scared, Im sure there first reaction will most likly ground her and talk to her. As they will be scared your ganna wanna do somehtnig with her. I mean they dont know you, they have never seen you, one day she comes home and say mum im singel, The next day she comes home and says mum im gonig out with a 18 year old, Her mum will be in some shock and will start thinknig.
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Again you try explaining to her mum and dad, Your not looking for sex or anything like that but you love her for her. They not likly gonig to beleave you no matter what you do and say. You'll be luckly if they dotn report you to the police.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 04:23:28
QUOTE(Tazzy @ Jul 30 2005, 01:16 AM)
Same by me, It is fine to date a 14 year old, I see nothnig wrong with it really, Age does not really mater aslnog as you lvoe her, But if your 18 and then you said to me she was nay younger than 14 i might think other wise. Again its the way the world and the law works, If you told the police/Cop you where dating a 14 im sure he'll nick you and talk to you about the age difference and stuff. As in england, the girl ha to be 16 befor you can do anything with her, Im not saying you want to do anyhing with her, But try explain you love her and wont to anything to her untill shes the right age maybe odler to her pareants and the police.
The parents will be poo scared, Im sure there first reaction will most likly ground her and talk to her. As they will be scared your ganna wanna do somehtnig with her. I mean they dont know you, they have never seen you, one day she comes home and say mum im singel, The next day she comes home and says mum im gonig out with a 18 year old, Her mum will be in some shock and will start thinknig.
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The parents will be poo scared, Im sure there first reaction will most likly ground her and talk to her. As they will be scared your ganna wanna do somehtnig with her. I mean they dont know you, they have never seen you, one day she comes home and say mum im singel, The next day she comes home and says mum im gonig out with a 18 year old, Her mum will be in some shock and will start thinknig.
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I really do not want to have sexual relations with her until she is ready (Which is right now but I mean like... Fawk... What is the word i'm looking for.......)
I don't want to do that with her. It's that simple. Like Sessasse said, it will probibly happen, but i'm going to make my damn sureist that it does not until she is 16 (and I hope even longer than that) because I am not after her for "teh blam". I'm after her because I am deeply in love with her and would like to spend the rest of my life with her (I only hope she feels the same, which she says she does but i'm not taking it that serious because of the lies... But if she didn't love me, she would have kept the lie going in my eyes... So I think she does love me, but anyways)
And yeah, her parents' probibly will :poo:. But I guess I will just have to meet her parents and assure them that I do not wish to have intercourse with her until she is of the legal age (Is it 16, or 18 in the US?)
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 04:26:04
17 I believed. Don't expect her parent to be ..That open...
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Chef on 2005-07-30 at 04:32:36
You sound unhealthily obsessed. Tell me, what's the difference between your best friend and a relationship with someone you love, but don't want 'any' from? Mind telling me how long you've known her? It was only a few days ago you decided all women except rexy and kame were evil...
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PS: I believe age doesn't matter as long as you're both done with your highschool education... otherwise it's best to stick with people max one grade apart... this is of course asuming you know them in person.
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PS: I believe age doesn't matter as long as you're both done with your highschool education... otherwise it's best to stick with people max one grade apart... this is of course asuming you know them in person.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Tazzy on 2005-07-30 at 04:34:34
QUOTE(Kellimus @ Jul 30 2005, 08:23 AM)
I really do not want to have sexual relations with her until she is ready (Which is right now but I mean like... Fawk... What is the word i'm looking for.......)
I don't want to do that with her. It's that simple. Like Sessasse said, it will probibly happen, but i'm going to make my damn sureist that it does not until she is 16 (and I hope even longer than that) because I am not after her for "teh blam". I'm after her because I am deeply in love with her and would like to spend the rest of my life with her (I only hope she feels the same, which she says she does but i'm not taking it that serious because of the lies... But if she didn't love me, she would have kept the lie going in my eyes... So I think she does love me, but anyways)
And yeah, her parents' probibly will :poo:. But I guess I will just have to meet her parents and assure them that I do not wish to have intercourse with her until she is of the legal age (Is it 16, or 18 in the US?)
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I don't want to do that with her. It's that simple. Like Sessasse said, it will probibly happen, but i'm going to make my damn sureist that it does not until she is 16 (and I hope even longer than that) because I am not after her for "teh blam". I'm after her because I am deeply in love with her and would like to spend the rest of my life with her (I only hope she feels the same, which she says she does but i'm not taking it that serious because of the lies... But if she didn't love me, she would have kept the lie going in my eyes... So I think she does love me, but anyways)
And yeah, her parents' probibly will :poo:. But I guess I will just have to meet her parents and assure them that I do not wish to have intercourse with her until she is of the legal age (Is it 16, or 18 in the US?)
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and would like to spend the rest of my life with her
People always say that, it never happens. Sooner or later somethnig might happen (Not saying it will) just i said that about to my X, I was even gonig to marry her. Everything was planned, But something happend (Im not gonig to say what) And ended it all.
Yes, But "TRY" and Explian it to the mum and dad. Don't even mention Sex to her mum or dad even when shes 16.. You really think her parents want to hear you say this about there daugther: "Yea im waiting till shes 16/18 befor i can have sex with her.
Im sure her mum and dad will take kindly to that. And By all rights, HER DAD mostly wil devo not like this, If he respects the law And his daugther im sure he would call the police and report you and stuff. or even talk to you and ask you kidnly to stay awya from her.
As i say, they will be thinking, Im sure they wont beleave you untill you do prove it to them, and that will take a lot of time. They might even think your gonig out with her cos shes an easy target "Shes Young" so to speak.
Reason i know this, My close friend is 18 and gonig out with a 14 year old. Her parents did everythnig under the sun to get him away from her. He they are still togther and her parents Now know they do love each other and he does not only want sex and stuff. Took a lnog time tho.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 04:38:07
QUOTE(PsychoTemplar @ Jul 30 2005, 01:32 AM)
You sound unhealthily obsessed. Tell me, what's the difference between your best friend and a relationship with someone you love, but don't want 'any' from? Mind telling me how long you've known her? It was only a few days ago you decided all women except rexy and kame were evil...
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First off, if you would read the thread, you would see that I clearly want some from her, but not until she is of legal age.
Second, a best friend is someone you talk to and know very well and don't want to spend the rest of your life with. Someone you love is the same, but you want to spend the rest of your life with them (To me it sounds like you don't even know what you're babbeling about)
Third, if you would read the thread like I stated above, you would have actually read the part where I told everyone I was going to go and see her.
So. Before you even come on here and try to make a logical statement or debate, read the god damn thread.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Chef on 2005-07-30 at 04:40:30
Haha, you ignored a question; infact... the only one that matters.
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Mind telling me how long you've known her? It was only a few days ago you decided all women except rexy and kame were evil...
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 04:42:30
QUOTE(Tazzy @ Jul 30 2005, 01:34 AM)
People always say that, it never happens. Sooner or later somethnig might happen (Not saying it will) just i said that about to my X, I was even gonig to marry her. Everything was planned, But something happend (Im not gonig to say what) And ended it all.
Yes, But "TRY" and Explian it to the mum and dad. Don't even mention Sex to her mum or dad even when shes 16.. You really think her parents want to hear you say this about there daugther: "Yea im waiting till shes 16/18 befor i can have sex with her.
Im sure her mum and dad will take kindly to that. And By all rights, HER DAD mostly wil devo not like this, If he respects the law And his daugther im sure he would call the police and report you and stuff. or even talk to you and ask you kidnly to stay awya from her.
As i say, they will be thinking, Im sure they wont beleave you untill you do prove it to them, and that will take a lot of time. They might even think your gonig out with her cos shes an easy target "Shes Young" so to speak.
Reason i know this, My close friend is 18 and gonig out with a 14 year old. Her parents did everythnig under the sun to get him away from her. He they are still togther and her parents Now know they do love each other and he does not only want sex and stuff. Took a lnog time tho.
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Yes, But "TRY" and Explian it to the mum and dad. Don't even mention Sex to her mum or dad even when shes 16.. You really think her parents want to hear you say this about there daugther: "Yea im waiting till shes 16/18 befor i can have sex with her.
Im sure her mum and dad will take kindly to that. And By all rights, HER DAD mostly wil devo not like this, If he respects the law And his daugther im sure he would call the police and report you and stuff. or even talk to you and ask you kidnly to stay awya from her.
As i say, they will be thinking, Im sure they wont beleave you untill you do prove it to them, and that will take a lot of time. They might even think your gonig out with her cos shes an easy target "Shes Young" so to speak.
Reason i know this, My close friend is 18 and gonig out with a 14 year old. Her parents did everythnig under the sun to get him away from her. He they are still togther and her parents Now know they do love each other and he does not only want sex and stuff. Took a lnog time tho.
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Lol.
Tazzy... First off, I never said I was going to tell the parents that I wanted to do her when she is 16, lol!
Her dad has passed on, and her mom ran out on her, so now she lives with her Step-Sister (Which is the reason she lied to me)
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QUOTE(PsychoTemplar @ Jul 30 2005, 01:40 AM)
Haha, you ignored a question; infact... the only one that matters.
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Whipty do. I skipped over the "main point" because I didn't want to have you flame me even more.
Almost three months.
There, you happy?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Chef on 2005-07-30 at 04:44:04
In my honest opinion, I think she's spinning a web for you Kell. Based on two things: It's not hard to manipulate people over the internet. A lot of people (especially girls, it seems) like to feel like they have control, no matter how sick it is. Heed it, or ignore it, your call.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Tazzy on 2005-07-30 at 04:44:28
QUOTE(Kellimus @ Jul 30 2005, 08:42 AM)
Lol.
Tazzy... First off, I never said I was going to tell the parents that I wanted to do her when she is 16, lol!
Her dad has passed on, and her mom ran out on her, so now she lives with her Step-Sister (Which is the reason she lied to me)
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Tazzy... First off, I never said I was going to tell the parents that I wanted to do her when she is 16, lol!
Her dad has passed on, and her mom ran out on her, so now she lives with her Step-Sister (Which is the reason she lied to me)
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Same thing applys, Try explaining it all to her step-Sister. If her step-sister loves her she wont want you near her. Just think about it for a second, Kellimus, If your daugther came to you and shes only 13-14 and she told you sees going out with a 18-19 year old, What will you be thinkin?
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In my honest opinion, I think she's spinning a web for you Kell. Based on two things: It's not hard to manipulate people over the internet. A lot of people (especially girls, it seems) like to feel like they have control, no matter how sick it is. Heed it, or ignore it, your call.
I do have to agree with this statment, Sorry to say it is true.. After all she is only 14, Sooner or later she will get bored and want to explore the world and not be with you cos she will want to meet new people/Try new thnigs. Example: She will want to go clubbing with her girl friends, BUT SHE WONT be able to. Because shes with you, And the hole idea to go clubbing is msotly these days to go pick up a bloke/Girl.. And she wont be able to because shes with you, So it puts a strian on her. And sooner or later she will get fed up with it.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Chef on 2005-07-30 at 04:59:50
Well put, people probably won't want to have the rest of their life decided when they're so young. I can't imagine people being totally content when they're 60 years old knowing that their love life was decided when they were 14, and that there might have been someone better for them. Unless you make her feel damn good all the time you're going to run into problems by the time she goes to college.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Tazzy on 2005-07-30 at 05:58:13
QUOTE(PsychoTemplar @ Jul 30 2005, 08:59 AM)
Well put, people probably won't want to have the rest of their life decided when they're so young. I can't imagine people being totally content when they're 60 years old knowing that their love life was decided when they were 14, and that there might have been someone better for them. Unless you make her feel damn good all the time you're going to run into problems by the time she goes to college.
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Well put yourself
Young relashinships never last. But your gonig in for a fall my friend just dotn get heart broken when that happens.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kashmir on 2005-07-30 at 08:45:51
not that this matters, but if she ever got pissed at you, all she would have to say is that you touched her in a sexual manner. Then your screwed.
BTW pm me the pic, Some girls it seems if they look older, act older, sound older, etc are more acceptable to date even at 14.
BTW pm me the pic, Some girls it seems if they look older, act older, sound older, etc are more acceptable to date even at 14.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by MapUnprotector on 2005-07-30 at 11:50:05
4 years apart AND having a relationship over the internet?
The age thing doesn't really matter only if both of the people are like old enough to be legal adults. In the teen years there's just too much diversity between the ages. Hell a 10 year difference wouldn't be too bad if the people were like 30-40 40-50.
And I agree with PyschoTemplar, 14 is just too young, especially if you've only talked to her on the internet or haven't seen her in person. But I suppose you "know" her more than anyone else here so do what you want. I don't think it should matter to you whether I think it's bad or not, if you truly love her, and society deems the age difference is bad.
I just wouldn't bother with so much drama and complicated things. I think there's too much going on when you are young.
The age thing doesn't really matter only if both of the people are like old enough to be legal adults. In the teen years there's just too much diversity between the ages. Hell a 10 year difference wouldn't be too bad if the people were like 30-40 40-50.
And I agree with PyschoTemplar, 14 is just too young, especially if you've only talked to her on the internet or haven't seen her in person. But I suppose you "know" her more than anyone else here so do what you want. I don't think it should matter to you whether I think it's bad or not, if you truly love her, and society deems the age difference is bad.
I just wouldn't bother with so much drama and complicated things. I think there's too much going on when you are young.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Loser_Musician on 2005-07-30 at 14:43:08
Ya, show us a picture. And try to make it 2 or 3 if you can. (People sometimes look different in some pictures)
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 14:55:55
Haha, you were so sure that pic was hers!
The chances are even higher that it's an old pervert now.
The chances are even higher that it's an old pervert now.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by EzDay281 on 2005-07-30 at 15:43:44
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well it depend on her Age, If she's 11 Year old... No....NO!!
Don't see what's wrong with that.
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Anyway..man think of it a bit... she only 14 year old... she HAVE to hang out with 14-15 year old... I mean man... only damn logic... if she were 16 okay but man... 14... that young!
"Only damn logic" and you give no logical explanation at all...
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Hmmm...... That sounds like true love to me.....
While for the most part I would agree, it could also be obsession- not that I'm saying it is, since I don't know you very well.
Would anyone mind explaining to me what is so damned special about the number 16/17/18?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by wesmic da pimp on 2005-07-30 at 15:58:24
16: Minor.
17: Old enough for an adult to
without getting in trouble.
18: Adult.
17: Old enough for an adult to
without getting in trouble.18: Adult.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by EzDay281 on 2005-07-30 at 16:12:47
Umm... yes... but what makes them so special?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 16:13:31
and you don't love "her", because you still don't even know who "she" is
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 16:43:16
QUOTE(ihatett @ Jul 30 2005, 01:13 PM)
and you don't love "her", because you still don't even know who "she" is
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If you continue to asume things, I will close this topic.
You my freind, ASUME to damn much
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Felagund on 2005-07-30 at 16:45:48
..... Damn you to Hell for trying to tell everyone exactly how they feel. He does love her, and who the Hell are you for trying to say he doesn't?
Besides, here the laws are as such: noone under 16 is legally allowed to have sex. If you're between 16-17(min inclusive), anyone between 16-20 (inclusive) is allowed to have sex with you. If you're over 18, have sex with anyone 16 or older. If you're over 21, they have to be 18.
Besides, here the laws are as such: noone under 16 is legally allowed to have sex. If you're between 16-17(min inclusive), anyone between 16-20 (inclusive) is allowed to have sex with you. If you're over 18, have sex with anyone 16 or older. If you're over 21, they have to be 18.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 16:46:54
QUOTE(ihatett @ Jul 30 2005, 11:55 AM)
Haha, you were so sure that pic was hers!
The chances are even higher that it's an old pervert now.
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The chances are even higher that it's an old pervert now.
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When her picture has been clearified by four people, that removes all doubt.
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and you don't love "her", because you still don't even know who "she" is
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And I do know who she is.
You don't pay much attention to details, do you? They go in one ear and right out the other, don't they?
If you would read you will clearly see that I have been shown the real her, and not the lie.
So if you continue to make asumptions, I will close this topic.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 16:47:06
QUOTE(Kellimus @ Jul 30 2005, 03:43 PM)
If you continue to asume things, I will close this topic.
You my freind, ASUME to damn much
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haha
you ASSUMED (note the spelling) that that pic was actually "hers" when it wasn't
edit: oh yea, I removed the slash from my avatar to make it more clear that the swastika was part of the original pic