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Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 01:58:53

I have been wondering this for some time now.

Do you think it is bad that you fell in love with someone who lied to you about their age and gave you fake picture, and then you find out the truth about them and they are four years younger than you?

And you still love them....?

Any flamming will result in closing of topic and report of your post.

This is a very serious manner because sociaty deems this bad.....

Report, edit, etc...Posted by IceWarrior98 on 2005-07-30 at 02:04:55

Depends, how old are you and old is she? If shes 14 and ur 18 it might not be too bad, but ultimately it aint societies choice as to who u can love no matter their age.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 02:06:07

well it depend on her Age, If she's 11 Year old... No....NO!!
If we talk about 18 and higher yeah it's alright.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 02:19:42

I'm 18, and she is 14....

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Loser_Musician on 2005-07-30 at 02:30:55

QUOTE(Kellimus @ Jul 30 2005, 01:19 AM)

I'm 18, and she is 14....
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It's fine by me, but to the law, that's a diff situation. (Assuming you're in the us)

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 02:31:50

Nevermind then. She too young and you know it. They parent won't give a heck about love, they won't let you see her!

edit: I type too fast

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 02:38:41

If the parents are scarred i'm going to do stuff with her, they can think again....

I am in to much love to do anything bad with her... I just want to hold her and feel her and look at her...

I don't care about sex with her... That can wait till the right time....

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 02:42:34

Man...you know what love can do... it's Stronger than the brain itself. You actually don't want to do bad things with her...but you know...things happen!

Anyway..man think of it a bit... she only 14 year old... she HAVE to hang out with 14-15 year old... I mean man... only damn logic... if she were 16 okay but man... 14... that young!

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Sniper on 2005-07-30 at 02:56:25

Go forward in time 4 years til she's a legal adult. Then it won't look so weird. If you think about it as if you were 14 and she was 10 then WOAH!??!?!. Bigger numbers = looks like a smaller difference

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Ultimo on 2005-07-30 at 03:12:59

Age doesn't matter when you get older. There is a 5 year difference between my parents, and mostly between everyone's. Though, I doubt you are truely in love.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 03:14:56

QUOTE(Sessasse @ Jul 29 2005, 11:42 PM)

Anyway..man think of it a bit... she only 14 year old... she HAVE to hang out with 14-15 year old... I mean man... only damn logic... if she were 16 okay but man... 14... that young!
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Maybe when we were young....

But now days, the youth is corrupted. I know that she hangs out with 17+ people... And I know a 13 year old that hangs out with 17+ people...

So yeah...

And did you not pay attention to what I :censored:ing said at the start......?!?!?!?!?

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 03:15:11

When you get Older... More than 18 Yr old

Edit: Hey what the

you want me to say? Go on? well i won't...
You know why 17 Yr old hang out with 14-15 Year Old? Cause they can

them more easilly... That a fact... Now... I won't flame you... But don't piss me off.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 03:17:39

QUOTE(Ultimo @ Jul 30 2005, 12:12 AM)

Age doesn't matter when you get older. There is a 5 year difference between my parents, and mostly between everyone's. Though, I doubt you are truely in love.
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Hmm.... True love isn't where you get your heart smashed after learning the truth, yet you still proceed to love this person...? And you can never get her out of your mind and you think about her everywhere you go...? And you would give up your future just to be in her presence.....?

Hmmm...... That sounds like true love to me.....

Report, edit, etc...Posted by wesmic da pimp on 2005-07-30 at 03:32:57

QUOTE(Kellimus @ Jul 30 2005, 02:14 AM)

Kellimus, don't take any offense to this, this isn't meaning to be offensive.

From what I understand, you met a girl on the internet, supposedly she's 16 years old. She sends you "pictures of her". You later find out she's 14 and those weren't pictures of her. The fact that you believe she hangs out with adults surprises me, you've never met her and she's done nothing but lie to you. Even if she hangs out with adults, that doesn't even matter. Just because you hang out with adults while you're a teen doesn't instantly make you cool, also, it's illegal to have sexual relations with a minor.

We're obviously different though, I don't think I can fall in love with someone I've never seen, met, or know anything about.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 03:36:15

QUOTE(wesmic da pimp @ Jul 30 2005, 12:32 AM)

That is the thing that boggles my mind.... I don't know why I still love her....

And yes, she does hang out with adults (Her friend even clearified that)

And she has sent me real pics of her (Her friend also clearified that)

And I takt no offence to it because I can understand where you're comming from.

But in the words of Durk-A-Dur, "You fell in love with the person, not the lie"

Report, edit, etc...Posted by TheDaddy0420 on 2005-07-30 at 03:39:30

When your older then 18 age doesn't really matter becuase every one looks the same age and etc....

But dude, 14......your 18........thats cutting it a little close there. If I were in your shoes I would have to meet her, see if shes mentally and physically mature, but thats still weird.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 03:41:04

QUOTE(S.T.A.R.S-Chris @ Jul 30 2005, 12:39 AM)

In about two to three weeks I am going to see her.

She looks older than 14, sounds older than 14, and sure in the hell acts older than 14.

And I only think it's strange because I found out she was 14 instead of 16.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 03:41:37

If I was Kelli, No choice man, you gotta take down this relation...She too young.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Mp)MinigameEast on 2005-07-30 at 03:41:53

sorry to say thats illegal and just a little bit nasty.
BUT KINKY.

when she is above 18 then yes its not illegal
AND IT WONT BE KINKY ANYMORE

Report, edit, etc...Posted by TheDaddy0420 on 2005-07-30 at 03:44:19

techniqually I believe he can date her, he just can't have sex wit her

many showing a picture of her will help us give you advice because right now Im picturing a annoying little girl.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 03:54:03

QUOTE(S.T.A.R.S-Chris @ Jul 30 2005, 12:44 AM)

techniqually I believe he can date her, he just can't have sex wit her

many showing a picture of her will help us give you advice because right now Im picturing a annoying little girl.
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I would love to, but all the immature wonderful friends on here will just call me a pedophile when they don't even know the actuall meaning for the word.

If you want to see a picture, PM me.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 03:56:43

Oh kelli...close this thread.. I can smell flaming 10 miles away..

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 03:58:30

QUOTE(Sessasse @ Jul 30 2005, 12:56 AM)

Oh kelli...close this thread.. I can smell flaming 10 miles away..
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The only ones I can see that are flamming, are you and Psycho.

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 03:59:45

Where did I flamed?

Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-30 at 04:14:01

Okay, my bad. I thought I had seen you flame me.

But the only one that had flammed me was Psycho in the Shoutbox, which resulted in both of us getting banned from it.

But I want everyone of you to think of this.

If there is no sexual relations between us, it really is not that bad. Well, at least I don't think so.

Because my dad was 21 when my mom was 17 (Hmm, four years difference between them, and she got pregnant with my sister)

ADDITION:
And I would like to add to Psycho's little comment in the shoutbox: "I'm not the one looking for intimate, relationships on the internet"

First off, I never was looking for a relationship on the net.

Second, I never thought it would go as far as it have.

And third, quit asuming to much you insolent jerk.

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