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Yup. To bad I got banned, or I would find it and list it for everyone.
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And one simple mistake you make can change even the perception of others and the way you think, making your life harder.
Yup.
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That is a good idea, however, the thing is its actually hard to try it out. Like you get what i mean, like you go do it but you cant focus and then you go back to i donno doing something else. But i should try focusing on this more.
Just gogogo. Make some promise with yourself beforehand, and maybe have somebody around that won't make fun of you if you it f**k up, but will get you to do it once you start having second thoughts, because it's better for you if you try it.
I never had the other person, just had to fight with myself, and if I still didn't do it, I'd feel even worse for not being able to get myself to try.
Ever have those situations where you feel bad if you do it, feel bad if you don't?
There's a difference between feeling sad or being depressed. Depending on what's going on, feeling sad is a normal emotion and is perfectly acceptable. In your case, RedNara, you just randomly stop playing sports and stuff and randomly feel bad now? That's...not good.
Think hard. Do something you always wanted to. When I first got depressed, everything I loved I started to hate. A couple things I used to not like, I decided to give a shot, and now it's fun. Like sprinting and tennis. Used to be 'gay', but once I started to hate video games, music, my friends, everything, i just started running at like 2 am.
Just go against any inhibitions you have, speak your mind, don't become a clone, and do what you really really want. Life's too short to waste. If you aren't happy the way you are, you can change it.