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I was replying to Other, and yes, but I wasnt sure what he meant by not getting off because he was tired. And I was wondering why he was tired.

Basically everyone is tired when they wake up because their body shut down for some rest for about 5-8 hours or less or more depending on their sleep.

Yes, but if it was in his dream it would make no sence for him to net get off in his dream. He was able to have sex but not get off? Happens yes, but not because of being tired.

Get off the bed? While awake? Yeah thats what happens in lucid dreams. Your body becomes immobile.

What? You move when you are in lucid dreams? News to me. I was just saying how could someone be having sex in a dream but not get off while in a dream because of tiredness.

You mean wake up? Or get off during intercourse while in the dream?

I would like to say that nothing in this post actually seems, unique or special to me, yes i have had 'lucid dreams' however at the looks of it, so has quite a few people. I will now share my most memorable and weird concepts that i have.

When i was a child, i had lost my gameboy cable and had been searching for months on end, i couldn't find it anyywhere i looked. One night in my dream i found it in a red box that was in my cupboard. The next day upon awakening i went and checked if it was there, and as you have most likely guessed, it was there. Now this may just of been a dream of me remembering where i put it, or a dream of me finding it, i don't know but either way it wasn't there when i had been checking before.

Even younger then that i had a nightmare, which most of you will probably get a kick out of, but in this nightmare i was laying in my bed, and then little smurf like characters were attacking me, tying me down, throwing pies at me, and basically neglecting me, the dream felt so amazingly real, that i could feel myself turning in my bed as i could see myself turning in my dream, then the following morning i was in serious disbelief that it was actually just a dream and extremly traumatized.

de ja vu, as most of you may know is when you dream, or imagine something happening, and then later on in your life, those exact events happen. However mine seem to have a twist, whenever i dream this stuff, something bad will always happen e.g me dying, me getting dumped by my girlfriend or something else unpleasant to me. It may be several months or even years before the actual de ja vu occurs, one of my latest most disturbing de ja vu was my girlfriend dumping me, and i had this dream before i even met her. Now the problem is it never happens, after a long line of events the problem that occured in the dream, never actually occurs. I was talking about this the otherday with a friend of mine and he said it's not de ja vu because not everything matches up. However i question that because i can remember almost every detail, who im talking to, where we was and i sometimes don't even hear their voices but i recognize the lip movements so i can tell it was that exact momment of my dream.

I've also experienced sleepwalking, it's quite weird really -- i went to sleep in my bed, woke up halfway through the night downstairs on my couch, i turned to my mom and said -- what am i doing down here? and she replied
"you came down here and i asked you why you was awake and all you could say was what" on other occasions i've woken up on the opposite side of my bed, or on my top bunk of my bed.

Now im not saying this is weird or special, however all i know is it happens way too often to me and i can control it relatively well to the extent that; yes, in a dream i have been able to fly, i have been able to control exactly what goes on, feel what happens in real life, i can wake myself up when i want to and i have found a nice way to know when i need something in real life for example; to go toilet, get food or drink. The worst part about all this for me, is that when you have dreams that become so realistic that you can control it and feel it, when you have a nightmare, it seems and feels so much realer, so before you say something like "oh i want more control over my dreams" know that when something like a dream becomes so realistic, the nightmares also become realistic.

Get off while intercourse in the dream.

the good part is, it keeps your semen and hormone levels at bay.

That is correct. However, I'm not sure that all dreams involving sexual encounters are in fact wet dreams. I would also guess that a lucid dream would be less likely to be a wet dream, because you're more solidly in the dream, if you know what I mean.

Yes, personally I find that's actually quite common. Sort of like deja vu.

Since I take a skeptical stance towards any sort of supernatural phenomena, I would say you probably just remembered putting it there in your dream. Some psychological tests have shown that everyone may have a photographic memory, like that of a savant, but most of us just can't access it.

Uh, no, deja vu is when you think you've been through a situation before, but you actually haven't.

I had the oddest experience in a dream last night. I was dreaming that I had flown out of a car (don't ask why, long story) and as I was falling I thought "Wait a minute, I'm dreaming, so falling won't suck that much. Wait a minute, this is a lucid dream; I was just reading about those. I'll try to control it so I can fly away...crap..." and then I woke up as I hit the ground. It was odd, though.

I'm pretty sure when you can remember it in as much detail as i can then you'd know you've been there before.

Addition:
Just for you, i went to wikipedia to back my statement up.

Lol, its possibily from bad experience of someone being stuck.

Thanks for clearing that up Other. Now it makes more sence to me why you couldnt.

Echo, what do you mean by that could possibly be from past experience? Am I missing something here?

Possibly that person was trapped in a place they couldnt get out of. For example a closet. That might have been changed into a form of having intercourse and not getting off

It's alright, people are entitled to their beliefs, i was just sharing my beliefs and experiences.

So a person was stuck in a closet so he couldnt get off during intercourse?

I dont get what you are trying to say. Do you mean that he has had something bad to him about that person so he may not have been able to because of this?

Well lets put it this way. The person had a bad experiance and it was shifted into another concept but different scene

During the same dream? How could someone have a bad experience in something and have it cause them to not get off during intercourse. Would it be with that person?

Basically, the mind stores up many experiences and it is shown in dreams in rare occasions. Mostly if it affected them a lot.

Ok, then I get you right, It was that closet thing that screwed me up.

So what you mean is that a past thought that somewhat conflicted with that dream could have caused him to become tired or not be able to get off.

Possibly. But I can be wrong. Dreams are strange and not much studies have been done so I dont really know

Oh ya, I kinda figured. I was just trying to understand what you are saying. Though it may be totally wrong I felt the need to know

Well, it might also be true cuz i stated what I got from sources so far