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Report, edit, etc...Posted by The Black Hydralisk on 2004-09-08 at 01:19:53
well here is how my life goes(these are all the major haigligts and bad memeories):im born mom and dad get along,3 years later mom and dad split up,a few months later i get picked up out of my preshool iligely by my dad and stay there for a week or two,i come home and my mom and dad file a divorce,mom and dad are divorced and my moms parents are living here to help mom with the bills,im 9 years old and im visiting my dad he takes out a meth pipe and uses it i ask him what is that and he says its him "medicine"(i was nine so i believed him)
so i spend the night there and in the morning his probation officer(oops forgot to tell you he was in jail for strangling my mom)comes and because i was staying there they search the house and find a pipe so my mom picks me up and my dad is sent to jail(i didnt know what in the name of god was going on)now my mom and dads trust factor goes down the drain on the way home i ask my mom what happened and she dadnt awsnser i am home and when she is more calmed down she says he was doing drugs i asked her what kind and she said meth..the probation officer comes to my house and asks me if i saw any drugs(by that time i figured out his "medicine" was the meth and of course hes my dad and i said no)she showed me a picture of the pipe and asked me if i saw that and i said no then she said ok and left,at age 12 my dad gets out and all peace is restored he is no loner on probation and my mom and dad are completely trustful (but still divorced and not living with eachother),and now i am 17 and as far as i know they are getting along just fine
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Wolf on 2004-09-13 at 21:22:55
QUOTE(FireKame @ Sep 7 2004, 05:17 PM)
I'm sorry your life sucks. I'd offer you a hug, but that's hard to do over the internet... cry.gif

my life comparatively is pretty relaxed, but my friends' lives suck. Two of them have attempted suicide in the past month (both of which who are stuck in divorce issues), and a third has contimplated it. I don't know how to help them either, except to be there for them and give them a hug when life really sucks.

someone said marry a hot girl than terrorize your children...
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if you do that, make sure you love that woman, and never get a divorce. that is cruel to the kid.
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cry.gif thats sad, i feel sorry for your friends, but my friends have the same issue

as for one, my best friend just lost her boyfriend in a car crash cry.gif
shes really sad, crys almost everyday

they went out for 4 years

and then he died cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif

it's really sad
but i'm always there for all of my friends

my other friend was playing football about a year ago and he broke his leg in 6 diffrent places

it still hasen't helled
so he pretty much in a wheelchair right now cry.gif

my life is pretty good, but i think my life sucks becouse my friends lifes suck, so it makes me sad
which makes me want just do something bad(of corse i won't)

but i like it when i tell them a joke and they laugh for about 3 seconds
but at least i see them smile
and thats the best thing ever from a friend with problems
since there almost always depressed sad.gif

so heres my smile to all you people out there that are sad biggrin.gif
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Andy on 2004-09-14 at 15:39:21
Ive had a stressful life my whole life, and it only gets more stressful as I get older. I have so many decisions to make that I have been putting off for a long time. There are different ways of dealing with stress they you could find on the internet.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2004-09-14 at 16:36:47
Oh please Andy, you know you have your own ways to get less stressed tongue.gif

We both perfectly know you wouldn't go on internet to find infos on that xD
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2004-09-14 at 17:14:26
Rev dude that family sounds like my family intill i got better in school and made a perefect family. You gotta get good grades and don't kill yourself i try t kill my self over 5 times... You family will be impressed by the grades and soon your family will think about being nice unless your family is :censored:ed up....

PS: Beware of social people that might come to your house if you try to kill your self i've been though that censored.gif ....
Report, edit, etc...Posted by man6311 on 2004-09-15 at 17:40:05
I think that all familys have something they don't like about each other. i for intance. my dad is a control freak that is way overprotective
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2004-09-15 at 21:49:17
Nah... I used to know friends that had perfectly correct families... They were getting along, watching movies each Fridays, the usual brother-sister relationship... Bleh.

These families are too perfect ;P
Report, edit, etc...Posted by MapUnprotector on 2004-09-15 at 22:09:10
whoa thats scary, i wanna shoot that family
Report, edit, etc...Posted by EzDay281 on 2004-09-15 at 23:05:02
I'm lucky.
My mom is just plain idiotic and nonsensicalsometimes, and my brother can be a major hyproctical ass, but Id on't have to put up with anything serious.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by High on 2004-09-16 at 03:35:23
Meh, my parents are cool i guess
Report, edit, etc...Posted by man6311 on 2004-09-19 at 00:03:59
my entire family is computer illiterate so i spent hours today trying to make my dads file that he some how locked to open
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2004-09-19 at 00:07:43
i think i'll be divore soon cuz my parents are fightin kind of....
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kame on 2004-09-19 at 00:10:07
it might just be they are both tense right now. If the fighting continues for a few years though...
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2004-09-19 at 12:10:28
Depends of the fight. I don't recall ever seeing my parents fight... Which could be worst since some families tank up all emotions for 20 years and then BANG! Divorced in 2 weeks...
Report, edit, etc...Posted by EzDay281 on 2004-09-19 at 12:17:11
Well, my mom's been divorced twice, but both times, it was before I can remember, so again I'm lucky there.

My mom and my brother both no much much much more about computers than me, unlucky/lucky me.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Cobra on 2004-09-19 at 13:44:41
Yo revelade, my dad is the exact same way, he even says the thing about not breaking his doors. Often times I just ignore him. And sometimes it is a good idea to obey his rules, even if you don't like them. So get off the computer when he tells you sometimes, and go to a friends house. Im part of the AV tech at my school where i moderate starcraft games in the mac lab. Find something like that to do which is a good excuse for getting out of the house. "I have to go to AV Tech"


You know what i mean?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by ShadowSnipe4 on 2004-09-23 at 09:47:24
QUOTE(Cobra @ Sep 19 2004, 12:44 PM)
Yo revelade, my dad is the exact same way, he even says the thing about not breaking his doors. Often times I just ignore him. And sometimes it is a good idea to obey his rules, even if you don't like them. So get off the computer when he tells you sometimes, and go to a friends house. Im part of the AV tech at my school where i moderate starcraft games in the mac lab. Find something like that to do which is a good excuse for getting out of the house. "I have to go to AV Tech"
       You know what i mean?
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Lol, Seeing all these different stories makes me think my life owns.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Revelade on 2004-09-24 at 02:56:27
My dad gets angry like lighting a gallon of oil.

Recently, he got angry in the morning because he thought we were late, but we actually came to school VERY early...

Now he's saying WE LEAVE AT 6:30, which means I have to wake up at 5... Not only that, but our school starts at 8:00 which means an hour and a half of wasted sleep time... God he is so retarded, and he makes multiplies my stress level by a thousand...

He always comments:

Remember if you fail this year YOU WILL BECOME THOSE LAWN CARE PEOPLE!

DON'T TALK TO ANYONE IN SCHOOL, THEY ARE STUPID AND THEY WILL USE YOU!

DID YOU DO YOUR HOMEWORK? (this said about 5 times per day)

YOU KNOW WHEN I WAS YOUR AGE I WAS TOP OF CLASS AND I HAD TO WALK 1 MILE TO GET TO SCHOOL!

Not only that, but when I try to engage in a sport such as paintball or boxing, he says they are a waste of money and time... Right...

Someone needs to tell him to STFU and loosen up a little and STOP OVERREACTING (He tries to crash the car on the freeway after I told him, "I KNOW, YOU SAID THIS 5 YEARS AGO!"...)
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Foamy on 2004-09-24 at 21:00:58
Okey,

Don't think I care about you, cuz I don't... just wanna give my mind to you... so you stupid people knows what to do..
(oh, I did not insult the whole board, I mean stupid people that let themself be depresst over another humans actions.)


1. be a nice boy for about 1 week, only , "yes dad", "no dad"...
2. get yourself a notepad, typ everything that you hate about him, and what he does to piss you off.
3. get yoursefl a baseballbat.
4. Late at night when you are alone with him, go to his room or anything, with the bat, make him sit down. Than read the notes, and SCREAM out all your anger. Use your bat as you please...
Then leave, and come back next morning.


Sure worked for me...

ADDITION: lol.

just thought of something, show him this board...
hehe..
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2004-09-25 at 15:59:34
That was quite stupid...

Talking to dad often makes things worst, seeing the way he's started, I would suggest just ignoring him whatsoever...
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Zergling[SK] on 2004-09-27 at 21:37:58
I live ina big family (5 brothers 2 sisters) and we are always fighting, even my parents fight each other when they should b keepin the peace. 1 of my brothers is in college, and the other one who is 19 lives here, but the only thing bout the 19 year old, he aint very responsible. So im basically the peace keeper of the house, and im only 15. Ive been forced to grow up pretty fast, but i try to keep a care free attitude. At sometimes its a bit hard, but i kno that if i can keep the peace for a bit longer, and get through the hard times it will end up alright. So just keep on keepin on! You can either just rough it, ignore it, or try to change it (just don't kill yourself that is takin the easy way out). I switch between the 3, either way u wanna do it is fine. I hope that is some help to ya mellow.gif
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