Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kame on 2005-07-26 at 01:35:57
You walk in on your 16 year old daughter and her boyfriend (four week relationship, FYI) when they are going 'all the way.' You kick him out of the house and go to your wife. You dispair over it for a few hours, worrying about what happens if she has an STD or is pregnant, so your wife agrees to take her to get testing done. The next day you find out your unwed daughter is pregnant. What do you do?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by wesmic da pimp on 2005-07-26 at 05:05:39
First of all, chances are, I wouldn't just "kick the guy out". Second of all, how could she be pregnant if they're "in the middle" of doing it, I mean, sometimes males have "pre-cum", but they would have to be finished, or at least the guy would have to have ejaculated for the girl to be impregnated, but, let's say the story falls through and the girl is pregnant. I would probably go over to this guys house, during the workday so hopefully his parents were gone, and after a long discussion I would let the kid be, I wouldn't injure him, only talk to him about the mistakes he made. Then I would talk with my daughter, I expect I would be more mad at her. Knowing that it was probably the wifey's fault, I would be extremely mad at her, capping off our already dying relationship, we get a divorce. After moving into a small apartment, sending a child support payment off every month while still trying to support my daughter and her unexpected baby. With all the anger built up from unexpected problems, I would probably go back to the guy who inpregnated my daughter, and smash his head into a wall. After ending up with a felony, spending 12 months in prison, I come back to visit with my daughter and the family that has grown there. I noticed that my ex-wife re-married an extremely rich business owner, who supported my daughter, the baby, and the baby's daddy, I notice what I great family has grown, in which I should have been a part of. Many times I would go weeks without seeing my daughter and the family, due to a restraining order set by the baby's daddy. After being separated from my family, I turn to a life of drug abuse. Also, working odds and ends jobs after getting out of prison, I notice that I can't pay rent, child support, and all other unexpected bills, so I start to sell drugs. Selling drugs to whomever I can, I notice quick money, and begin hope to prosper, however it ends quickly after being charged with contributing to a minor. Getting my 2nd felony throws me back in the slammer for 4 more years.
Four years pass, slow as ever, and now I come to see what a big family has grown, my daughter with children, a husband. My ex-wife is also very successful. Sometimes I would sit back and wonder where I messed up, being an ex-con, twice, also realizing that I'm a grandfather, yet I'm sitting alone in an apartment in which I can't afford because I'm at a minimun wage job where everyone around me is a teenager, yet I'm a grandfather. Realizing that I really don't have a chance to prosper anywhere, I run away to California, to give life one last chance. At first things are great, I can find cheaper rent, and higher paying jobs, however, I realize that my family is thousands of miles away, and I might never see them again, they never heard from me, because I disappeard. Being unsuccessful while everyone that you turned away from ended up successful really gets your hopes up, so you decide you want to end it, and decide to spend all your money on drugs, and decide to overdose in your car out in the woods, that way no one would save you in time, and you would die an easy death.
Yes, all of this is because of a 16 year old daughter getting pregnant.
Four years pass, slow as ever, and now I come to see what a big family has grown, my daughter with children, a husband. My ex-wife is also very successful. Sometimes I would sit back and wonder where I messed up, being an ex-con, twice, also realizing that I'm a grandfather, yet I'm sitting alone in an apartment in which I can't afford because I'm at a minimun wage job where everyone around me is a teenager, yet I'm a grandfather. Realizing that I really don't have a chance to prosper anywhere, I run away to California, to give life one last chance. At first things are great, I can find cheaper rent, and higher paying jobs, however, I realize that my family is thousands of miles away, and I might never see them again, they never heard from me, because I disappeard. Being unsuccessful while everyone that you turned away from ended up successful really gets your hopes up, so you decide you want to end it, and decide to spend all your money on drugs, and decide to overdose in your car out in the woods, that way no one would save you in time, and you would die an easy death.
Yes, all of this is because of a 16 year old daughter getting pregnant.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Chef on 2005-07-26 at 05:08:45
Ditto.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Wilhelm on 2005-07-26 at 05:09:37
Ditto.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Leon on 2005-07-26 at 05:43:49
Ditto.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by High on 2005-07-26 at 05:44:15
Ditto
Meh
Meh
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Felagund on 2005-07-26 at 08:55:56
Firstly I would ask my daughter if she wanted an abortion or the such. Can you really test for pregnancy one day after conception?
Besides, knowing that such things are beyond my control, I would at least sit down with the kids and talk with them about contraceptives. And then I would have a talk with my daughter about random sex.
Besides, knowing that such things are beyond my control, I would at least sit down with the kids and talk with them about contraceptives. And then I would have a talk with my daughter about random sex.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Infested-Jerk on 2005-07-26 at 16:09:50
Not to be a jerk, but try to remember yoru daughter can no longer become a nun.
On the serious side:
What was your wife doing this whole time?
What was the household standing on sex.
Did you ever discuss teh matter before.
Does this guy have a criminal record?
Is he older, younger?
And so on, this is very complicated, and doesn't have a simple answer Kame. I mean, if this guy is 2 weeks yonger, she'd probably gte in more trouble if it were to reach the police's ears.
be more specific!
On the serious side:
What was your wife doing this whole time?
What was the household standing on sex.
Did you ever discuss teh matter before.
Does this guy have a criminal record?
Is he older, younger?
And so on, this is very complicated, and doesn't have a simple answer Kame. I mean, if this guy is 2 weeks yonger, she'd probably gte in more trouble if it were to reach the police's ears.
be more specific!
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kame on 2005-07-26 at 16:15:55
Eh, its a general scenario; it could be whatever specifics you want. For example, to Wes the relationship with his wife was already falling apart, where I said nothing of that in the scenario.
Great to see that people know the word ditto.
Great to see that people know the word ditto.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Tazzy on 2005-07-26 at 17:14:31
First, I would not kick the guy out First I would threaten him, " If you should come with in 10 steps of my daughter and i find out, God have mercey on your soul, cos i will show none" Then kick him the fcuk out of ym house.
Second, I will ask my wife:
"What the fcuk, Women. You let this happen under your nose?"
3rd'ly, I will drag my daughter myself to get a test done, And by god if she is pregnant, I will Teach her a right god damn lesson
The way i see it, I will teach my daughter/Son when i have kids to have more commen sence than that.
Second, I will ask my wife:
"What the fcuk, Women. You let this happen under your nose?"
3rd'ly, I will drag my daughter myself to get a test done, And by god if she is pregnant, I will Teach her a right god damn lesson
The way i see it, I will teach my daughter/Son when i have kids to have more commen sence than that.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-26 at 21:09:27
Same with me.
But if it happened, ditto to wes
But if it happened, ditto to wes
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-27 at 18:38:35
well....not to get off subject.........ditto.........ok, that wasnt off subject. i wouldnt go that far tazzy......that seem that your "family"( hope you dont have one yet) is already falling apart. but thats just me.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by n2o-SiMpSoNs on 2005-07-27 at 19:42:49
QUOTE(wesmic da pimp @ Jul 26 2005, 05:05 AM)
First of all, chances are, I wouldn't just "kick the guy out"..............
Yes, all of this is because of a 16 year old daughter getting pregnant.
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you should wright a fiction book with this scenario
Report, edit, etc...Posted by TheDaddy0420 on 2005-07-27 at 22:21:00
QUOTE(wesmic da pimp @ Jul 26 2005, 01:05 AM)
First of all, chances are, I wouldn't just "kick the guy out". Second of all, how could she be pregnant if they're "in the middle" of doing it, I mean, sometimes males have "pre-cum", but they would have to be finished, or at least the guy would have to have ejaculated for the girl to be impregnated, but, let's say the story falls through and the girl is pregnant. I would probably go over to this guys house, during the workday so hopefully his parents were gone, and after a long discussion I would let the kid be, I wouldn't injure him, only talk to him about the mistakes he made. Then I would talk with my daughter, I expect I would be more mad at her. Knowing that it was probably the wifey's fault, I would be extremely mad at her, capping off our already dying relationship, we get a divorce. After moving into a small apartment, sending a child support payment off every month while still trying to support my daughter and her unexpected baby. With all the anger built up from unexpected problems, I would probably go back to the guy who inpregnated my daughter, and smash his head into a wall. After ending up with a felony, spending 12 months in prison, I come back to visit with my daughter and the family that has grown there. I noticed that my ex-wife re-married an extremely rich business owner, who supported my daughter, the baby, and the baby's daddy, I notice what I great family has grown, in which I should have been a part of. Many times I would go weeks without seeing my daughter and the family, due to a restraining order set by the baby's daddy. After being separated from my family, I turn to a life of drug abuse. Also, working odds and ends jobs after getting out of prison, I notice that I can't pay rent, child support, and all other unexpected bills, so I start to sell drugs. Selling drugs to whomever I can, I notice quick money, and begin hope to prosper, however it ends quickly after being charged with contributing to a minor. Getting my 2nd felony throws me back in the slammer for 4 more years.
Four years pass, slow as ever, and now I come to see what a big family has grown, my daughter with children, a husband. My ex-wife is also very successful. Sometimes I would sit back and wonder where I messed up, being an ex-con, twice, also realizing that I'm a grandfather, yet I'm sitting alone in an apartment in which I can't afford because I'm at a minimun wage job where everyone around me is a teenager, yet I'm a grandfather. Realizing that I really don't have a chance to prosper anywhere, I run away to California, to give life one last chance. At first things are great, I can find cheaper rent, and higher paying jobs, however, I realize that my family is thousands of miles away, and I might never see them again, they never heard from me, because I disappeard. Being unsuccessful while everyone that you turned away from ended up successful really gets your hopes up, so you decide you want to end it, and decide to spend all your money on drugs, and decide to overdose in your car out in the woods, that way no one would save you in time, and you would die an easy death.
Yes, all of this is because of a 16 year old daughter getting pregnant.
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Four years pass, slow as ever, and now I come to see what a big family has grown, my daughter with children, a husband. My ex-wife is also very successful. Sometimes I would sit back and wonder where I messed up, being an ex-con, twice, also realizing that I'm a grandfather, yet I'm sitting alone in an apartment in which I can't afford because I'm at a minimun wage job where everyone around me is a teenager, yet I'm a grandfather. Realizing that I really don't have a chance to prosper anywhere, I run away to California, to give life one last chance. At first things are great, I can find cheaper rent, and higher paying jobs, however, I realize that my family is thousands of miles away, and I might never see them again, they never heard from me, because I disappeard. Being unsuccessful while everyone that you turned away from ended up successful really gets your hopes up, so you decide you want to end it, and decide to spend all your money on drugs, and decide to overdose in your car out in the woods, that way no one would save you in time, and you would die an easy death.
Yes, all of this is because of a 16 year old daughter getting pregnant.
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Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-27 at 23:30:50
thank you for that lovley bit of spamming....yes. i do beleave that if my son/daughter was cought in the act, i would drag the boy down to the kitchen, tell him to put it on the table and grab the biggest knife i could find, and say" next time, i take it and nail it to my wall."
Report, edit, etc...Posted by CaptainWill on 2005-07-27 at 23:38:14
Seeing as I'm not against sex before marriage and think that 16 years is fine for a sexual relationship, I wouldn't be too concerned about that.
As for the pregnancy. I would encourage an early abortion if the daughter expressed a desire to have one. Morning-after pill would still be viable in this case.
As for the pregnancy. I would encourage an early abortion if the daughter expressed a desire to have one. Morning-after pill would still be viable in this case.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by wesmic da pimp on 2005-07-28 at 01:40:37
QUOTE(n2o-PiMpSoNs @ Jul 27 2005, 06:42 PM)
you should wright a fiction book with this scenario
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I personally like my quote from Parenting Scenario II better, I was kind of in a hurry here.
QUOTE(Chris)
And the oscar goes to.....
I don't want one of those crappy awards, plus, I wasn't acting.
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thank you for that lovley bit of spamming....yes. i do beleave that if my son/daughter was cought in the act, i would drag the boy down to the kitchen, tell him to put it on the table and grab the biggest knife i could find, and say" next time, i take it and nail it to my wall."
I'm sorry, but if I was boneing some girl and the dad told me that after he walked in on us, I would just laugh.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Loser_Musician on 2005-07-29 at 15:37:59
QUOTE(Kame da Sniper @ Jul 26 2005, 03:15 PM)
Eh, its a general scenario; it could be whatever specifics you want. For example, to Wes the relationship with his wife was already falling apart, where I said nothing of that in the scenario.
Great to see that people know the word ditto.
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ditto.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-29 at 15:41:14
I won't do a Thing... her baby, Her decision.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Dr.Shotgun on 2005-07-31 at 06:13:00
Abrtion. Now. Then time for some serious discussion, with my daughter, wife, and the boy.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Tazzy on 2005-07-31 at 06:40:01
QUOTE
I won't do a Thing... her baby, Her decision.
I can clearly see what kind of parent your gonig to turn out like
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2005-08-01 at 04:56:07
Wow, I just stumbled across this topic. I was once the guy in question in that scenario. I was 16 when I got my g/f at the time pregnant(and her dad once walked in on us 
). After my son was born I got this:
"Your son's mom has left the game"
And now here I am, almost 4 years later... Raising my son alone. Not that I regret it, but still. I advise all you youngsters to wear jimmyhats. I won't B.S. about it, kids create lots of LAG in your personal life.
I guess my words to you Kame are: I hope this guy's dedicated!
). After my son was born I got this:"Your son's mom has left the game"
And now here I am, almost 4 years later... Raising my son alone. Not that I regret it, but still. I advise all you youngsters to wear jimmyhats. I won't B.S. about it, kids create lots of LAG in your personal life.
I guess my words to you Kame are: I hope this guy's dedicated!
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-08-01 at 14:25:49
Jimmyhats eh? LOL!
I agree. I have had my share of unprotected sex and I almost :poo: when I heard that one of the people I did was pregnant (Thank god it's not mine)
I agree. I have had my share of unprotected sex and I almost :poo: when I heard that one of the people I did was pregnant (Thank god it's not mine)
Report, edit, etc...Posted by ShadowBrood on 2005-08-01 at 14:50:18
Ask her if she wants an abortion, if she doesn't, then oh well, bust out the chlorophorm and get her one.
Hell, even though I'm against senseless killing, why not.
Then, the matter of the boy. With my 1337 ninja skills I'll poison his family's food and kill them all. That's what he gets
!
You may think I'm kidding, but I'm not
Hell, even though I'm against senseless killing, why not.
Then, the matter of the boy. With my 1337 ninja skills I'll poison his family's food and kill them all. That's what he gets
!You may think I'm kidding, but I'm not