Report, edit, etc...Posted by Trigonometry on 2005-07-26 at 22:01:37
Marriage, this is a topic that people have different veiws about, rather you should get married as soon as possible, and some to wait as long as possible. Marry to for family, marry for children, marry for love...
However this is how I see marriage... Unless you're religious, want money, or some status there's no real point in it...
What importance do you see in marriage?
However this is how I see marriage... Unless you're religious, want money, or some status there's no real point in it...
What importance do you see in marriage?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-26 at 22:09:44
Marriage is a way to get tax breaks, and to spend the rest of your life with the person you love and have kids legally....
I am going to get married to Oraya... But not for at least five years so I can have everything under control in my life.... If I even make it that long....
I am going to get married to Oraya... But not for at least five years so I can have everything under control in my life.... If I even make it that long....
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Trigonometry on 2005-07-26 at 22:22:13
You can spend the rest of your life and love someone without marriage.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-26 at 22:35:48
Yes but you won't get tax breaks
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Loser_Musician on 2005-07-27 at 03:35:44
I'm not gonna plan for kids. If I get married, (And I won't, unless my gf wants to. You know, to the be the center of attention for just a little bit) I'm not doing it until i'm either in my late 20's or early 30's. And I don't plan on having kids until I'm 30.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Vampire on 2005-07-27 at 07:31:56
Like my daddy says
3 pack for high school
2 for saturday and 1 for sunday
6 pack for college
1 for monday 1 for tuesday 1 for wednesday 1 for thursday 1 for friday and one for saturday
12 pack for when you're married
1 for january 1 for february 1 for march...
3 pack for high school
2 for saturday and 1 for sunday
6 pack for college
1 for monday 1 for tuesday 1 for wednesday 1 for thursday 1 for friday and one for saturday
12 pack for when you're married
1 for january 1 for february 1 for march...
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Kame on 2005-07-28 at 11:29:41
I see marriage as the next step in a relationship, and I think it shows commitment. Also, I would never want children outside of marriage. If my boyfriend can not be commited enough to marry me, do you really think he'll help me support our children? Its a toss up.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Trigonometry on 2005-07-28 at 13:05:27
How possibly is marrying being more commited? Marrying is just a foolish proceedure, and title.
Marrying and giving your love are seperate things. The important thing is that you're willing to love.
Let's put it this way, in the pregreek empire ages, there never use to be marriage. And love and commitment were able to exist without even the thought of marriage. And obviously it's not needed to functionally raise kids, or we wouldn't have the society we have to day.
Pretty much marriage is what our gorvenments way of placing bar codes on us. And thus the tax breaks, they're paying you to submit yourself.
And one of Religion's biggest weapons.
Marrying and giving your love are seperate things. The important thing is that you're willing to love.
Let's put it this way, in the pregreek empire ages, there never use to be marriage. And love and commitment were able to exist without even the thought of marriage. And obviously it's not needed to functionally raise kids, or we wouldn't have the society we have to day.
Pretty much marriage is what our gorvenments way of placing bar codes on us. And thus the tax breaks, they're paying you to submit yourself.
And one of Religion's biggest weapons.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-28 at 13:24:06
But submiting ourselves isn't bad, if you know the loopholes
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Trigonometry on 2005-07-28 at 14:22:01
No reason to submit yourself if you don't have a reason to.
Pretty much common sense.
Pretty much common sense.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-28 at 14:29:47
Maybe the reason to submit yourself is because you love your girlfriend and want to spend the rest of your life with them in a LEGAL BOND and so you can have kids that are not out of Wedlock.
Oh, and don't forget the taxes
Oh, and don't forget the taxes
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Trigonometry on 2005-07-28 at 14:43:41
How many times must I say that you don't need to do so the spend the rest of your life with him/her? Next time I see that bit again without stating why, I'm just going to copy and paste this.
Marriage is obviously not about the promotion of love, when two men or two women who love each other, and "want to spend the rest of their lives together," and aren't allowed to be married.
Marriage is all about fulfilling ideals.
Marriage is obviously not about the promotion of love, when two men or two women who love each other, and "want to spend the rest of their lives together," and aren't allowed to be married.
Marriage is all about fulfilling ideals.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-28 at 15:00:07
QUOTE(Trigonometry @ Jul 28 2005, 11:43 AM)
How many times must I say that you don't need to do so the spend the rest of your life with him/her? Next time I see that bit again without stating why, I'm just going to copy and paste this.
Marriage is obviously not about the promotion of love, when two men or two women who love each other, and "want to spend the rest of their lives together," and aren't allowed to be married.
Marriage is all about fulfilling ideals.
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Marriage is obviously not about the promotion of love, when two men or two women who love each other, and "want to spend the rest of their lives together," and aren't allowed to be married.
Marriage is all about fulfilling ideals.
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The reason they can't get married is because they're homosexual and in our country where religion and state are supposed to be seperate (Yet they ban homosexual marrieges because the church deems it wrong) they ban it.
Fulfilling ideals hmm...?
What are YOUR ideals then?
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Trigonometry on 2005-07-28 at 15:02:48
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Fulfilling ideals hmm...?
What are YOUR ideals then?
What are YOUR ideals then?
I'm not the one who's looking to get married.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-28 at 15:52:04
Because you haven't found the right one, aperantly
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Atreyu) on 2005-07-28 at 15:53:27
Im going to get married to Veronika. I've been with her since I was 17 so she is truly the love of my life and im going to have 1 kid I hope lol...boy name him Deryk and if its a girl MaryJane ( get it 
) anyways yeah Im not going to try to get married as soon as possible because right now im in college and I really got no time to set up the whole marry thing and stuff but when the time is right we will do it.
) anyways yeah Im not going to try to get married as soon as possible because right now im in college and I really got no time to set up the whole marry thing and stuff but when the time is right we will do it.Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-28 at 16:02:03
If I were you, I would wait till after college when you have money so you're not in debt.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Trigonometry on 2005-07-28 at 16:25:16
I will say this much, if you are going to get married. Here's a standard to go by. Don't get married until you're at least 25.
Yeah... Getting your life setup is kind of priority. Put the other stuff on hold. Because if you get the other stuff, then the hold option is buh-bye.
Yeah... Getting your life setup is kind of priority. Put the other stuff on hold. Because if you get the other stuff, then the hold option is buh-bye.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Staredit.Net Essence on 2005-07-28 at 16:38:52
For once we agree 
Yeah. When I get married it's not until i'm in my late twentys. Cause i'm going to have some debt and I want some money under myself to have in case of problems
Yeah. When I get married it's not until i'm in my late twentys. Cause i'm going to have some debt and I want some money under myself to have in case of problems
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Zb2k on 2005-08-03 at 16:01:37
Marriage is a way of making two people feel closer to eachother. Why? Because everyone else does it and religion.
It also helps legally. Lets say the in a man women marriage, the women is a housewife and the man works. Then one day they get into a huge fight, and they're not married. There's nothing stopping the man from throwing the women on the street.
It also helps legally. Lets say the in a man women marriage, the women is a housewife and the man works. Then one day they get into a huge fight, and they're not married. There's nothing stopping the man from throwing the women on the street.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by EzDay281 on 2005-08-03 at 16:35:45
Marriage, as far as I'm concerned, is absolutely nothing more than it is- legal recognition of your love for another, with love not even being a requirement, though one that, as I understand it, atleast, gives legal/financial benefits.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by Doodan on 2005-08-11 at 05:57:00
I've been proposed to before. I said no. I'm glad I did. Yes, a girl proposed to me.
The idea of marriage sounds good in the brochure, but I think in the end it leads to the death of your independence(if you're lucky) and/or the death of your ability to trust another human being.
The idea of marriage sounds good in the brochure, but I think in the end it leads to the death of your independence(if you're lucky) and/or the death of your ability to trust another human being.
Report, edit, etc...Posted by IceWarrior98 on 2005-08-11 at 08:20:56
Marriage is a bunch of bullcrap, all it does is signify your lvoe for another person. Like really, you dont to be married to love your girlfriend or w/e, its just a way of "completing the bond"...nope, no marriage for me (I hope) i hate wearing suits anyways, they make me feel funny. So yea marriage sux...
Also, either you love him/her or you dont, rings dont change anything.
Also, either you love him/her or you dont, rings dont change anything.