After hearing Kame_Da_Sniper's Talk about "Parenting Scenarios" Ive come up with a "Dating Scenario"..How would you react to a situation like this..
While visiting your Family (Yes all of it) up at a lake in michigan, you see a girl who is not related to you at all. HOWEVER, you are 15, while she is 13, turning 14 in about a week, she is going into the 8th grade, but you are going into the 10th. Seeing as both of you can't drive yet, you can't really take her out on a date (Seeing as most people are visiting with friends and family.) You will only be seeing her another 3 days, but you wan't to figure out a way to somehow "Date her" or at least get her to like you as more than just "Friends". Another drawback is that she lives about 2,000 miles away from you (She lives in Texas, you live in Central whyoming) and since her tastes are more hip-Hop'ish and sports while you live in an area that is big with metal, punk rock, and Skateboarding. Although you both have the same taste for clothing (Pac-sun and such) You still think that she doesen't like you..At the moment you are playing around with a soccer ball, What should you do...
PS: You REALLY like her..
Sorry if it sounds like i'm being so exact, but i want answers that arent full of stupid questions
No Flaming OR Spamming
Find the date in question. Raise her high above your head by the neck with 1 arm. In a loud booming voice declare: BREEDING WILL COMMENCE IN 5 MINUTES. PREPARE YOURSELF.
Problem solved.
Oh, and I don't want Stupid answers either...
do you really think shes going to be like "Okay..."
The point of the loud booming voice is the scare the date into submission. Besides it's not a stupid answer. There are people who probably would do that.
ShadowBrood, your logic is very well flawed, i highly doubt that any girl no matter ohw loud the voice, would just be like "Okay.." and even if she did, shed run for her life and jump into the lake...
Be open to her, if no connection then... NEXT!
Be open to her HOW? For all you know, she could be very happy, and if your personality (like mine) is very "KoRNish" then she probably won't be to happy, and why would you say, next? i should add that you REALLY like her..
Not nescisarly, chicks are very different in preferences, to one is corny, to another is cool. Or the corny factor is "cute" and to her is attractive.
And someone who I haven't "been" with, I don't REALLY like. Being attached comes after becoming attached... If that makes sense to you.
I have never ever ever thought about dating someone I randomly see.
Just do alot of things for her! That is how a got a girlfriend!

Trig:
umm, as in the band KoRN and i understand you you mean, i woulden't do something like this if i didnt just rnadomly think of it..
Fela:
She has been attending this reunion since you can remember
Zerg:
Thanks for the spam, i thnk very highly of you now </Sarcasm>
Too far away. Long distance relationships at a young age like that never work. Life isn't a teen movie.
If you do date her, you need to go in for the kill right away. You only have less than 72 hours to complete mission. Make it count.
I love how everyone says "you," and not "I."
There's hope yet in the people here.
Trig, this is all hypothetically speaking, why in the world would you use yourself?
Alpha, if you have her email...and you can get a "Happy" relationship going, then what happens?
My advice:
TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!
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My advice:
TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!
Pretty much the same thing as I said.
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Be open to her, if no connection then... NEXT!
Advice?? Since when is this an "Advice thread"
Could you elaborate a little Kellimus, i guess i should also Credit You for being helpfull..
Comon people, this is SERIOUS (But since when will i get serious Answers from SEN'ers)
Long distance relationships never work out. Just severe your connection and get another girl, that is closer.
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Advice?? Since when is this an "Advice thread"
Could you elaborate a little Kellimus, i guess i should also Credit You for being helpfull..
Comon people, this is SERIOUS (But since when will i get serious Answers from SEN'ers)
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Okay.
If I were in that situation, I would tell them how I feel about them, and I would use charm. I would say stuff like, "When I look in your eyes I get lost in a sea of love. When you smile I can always see a new beauty shine out from the wake of your smile." That kinda stuff.
And get her e-mail address, or mailing address if she doesn't have internet.
And then just keep in touch and always tell her how pretty, attractive, and beautiful she is in your eyes

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QUOTE(Ultimo @ Jul 30 2005, 08:43 PM)
Long distance relationships never work out. Just severe your connection and get another girl, that is closer.
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Uh, my long distance relationship is working just fine.
When you get your licence, go and visit her

OMGOMGOMGOMGOMG A GOOD ANSWER *Dies*
Lol, actually that's something that is very debatable, she's only 14 though, so do you really think she would accept something like that...Depends on her personality i guess..
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Advice?? Since when is this an "Advice thread"
Comon people, this is SERIOUS (But since when will i get serious Answers from SEN'ers)
I discredit a lot of people's intelligence here... But not to that extent...
If you honestly think I'm going to drive 2000 miles to see one girl, you're dead wrong.
Quite honestly, if you see her once a year, and drive roughly 1,000 miles to get to the camp where she is at, i woulden't mind going there..
One of my friends is going to Texas A&M...We drive down all the time from Forst collins to go see her, just get off your lazy butt and go see her

Look at me. I'm going to see my gf in about a week, week and a half.
It's not hard. Just get off your lazy ass like he says.
How do you expect to maintain a decent relationship if you only visit her once a year?