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Lots of other Forums haven't been helpful, so i guess its time to Try SEN.
every know the other "im Depressed tell me what to do" topics havnt gotten to much positive feedback...

Alright well, i havent really been "YAY! im Happy for no Reason!" in that mood in afew months....13 Months now?, over a year...i was Trying out for Autumn Soccer to get on the Team, my gf was a big soccer fan at the time (my ex-) So she wanted me to get on the team, but i didn't i got turned down for the Coachs son. and she left because of it, after that i just Went and dicked around for afew months until Christmas, i was hoping for an iPod or an mp3 Player, whatever since i dont have one. of Course, i didnt get one..so i moped around on that for afew months until my Birthday, and then worst of all which really got me depressed. They didn't do Jack crap for my birthday, not even a cake. And when your parents are all like "oh we'll never forget your birthday! your special =D" and then they dont give crap it hurts...

After that i just dicked around here on SEN for awhile seeing as though i had no GF at the time and my friends we're busy doing other crap, So i just dick around here...

Yay! more depressing crap (even know it was my fault) I Stole a map and got caught, and then i got shunned for afew Months (until the Current Day)

Yay! the Second-To-Last week of school! im out next week and a girl asked me to go out with Her (isnt how it usually goes) so we went out afew times, alas. the Last week of school, i don't know what happened to her, But she left. i dont know why, i didnt really care to ask her friends she was just gone.

Moped around that until the Current Day, and then i looked back at all that had happened in the past Year or so (thats not all that happened, in this post i mean)

And then i made this topic on sen...

im not Sure why all this Crap would seem depressing to you, but to me its strangely depressing, and i don't know why....i could use some help/advice or something here...

Most of it appears to be your fault. The map stealing... obviously your fault. Sure, the coaches' son may have gotten on the team because of his dad being coach, but there's other players that made the team, they must've just been better than you. With all the depression talk you probably chased that other girl away. I never really got anything special for my birthday either, you can't have everything you want.

This probably isn't going to cheer you up, sorry man.

Well, it's pretty much all been said right here.

Lyon, blame fate. Some things just can't be helped man. What you've absolutely got to do is rip down your britches and crap all over fate. Tell it what you really think about it, and then you make a good life for yourself. Girls can be absolutely... the worst things to have around at times, but then again, just remember that there will be many times you'll not have a better companion, and they'll see you through. My birthday this past year really sucked too. Sometimes it's actually fun, but sometimes no one cares at all. In a few years you'll be making your own dough, so you can grab your iPod! Then again, I'd rather have another fifty books to read (for the price of an iPod), but I'm just geeky like that. The thing is your life will begin to pick up (it already has! It's summer!). Heh heh, I remember one birthday of mine... I invited my friend over to game and stuff, and we ended up going to the mall, arcade, etc. However, near the end of the browsing the game stores and stuff, he bought a game right in front of me. Now, don't get me wrong. I didn't mind that he didn't get me a game. I mean, we're not all like the richest people in the world, and I have more than enough in "toys" and friends to keep my very content with life. However, he didn't get me jack squat that birthday - not even a card - and he bought something for himself on my birthday! That just kind of stuck with me, so the point of that story is that crap happens to us all. Also, when Wesmic starts talking about drugs, run away. Run away as fast as you can.

(Seriously, cheer up! Tomorrow is either a new day, a new chance for life, or we're all going to die, in which case we don't really have to worry about anything anymore!)

I'm ridiculously tired now.

Don't make a big deal about girls... you're only like what, 12?

im 13, and i knew i was going to get an answer like that

Deathawk wouldnt understand anyway

I understand, but I think you're making too big of a deal over 13 year old girls.

I mean.. it's not like you guys are going to get married or anything.

My best advice for you is to get on with your life, and find a activity to use up your free time with

since you seem to like it, you should probably start practicing and playing soccer more,
you may not be on a official team, but you can always just play the game for the fun of it and try to get your friends to play


also, if your friends don't like to play, just go ahead and practice it by yourself, by juggling the ball and dribbling through cones and such, you'd be surprised how fun you can make the game with almost noone to play against!

i am depressied also...

to get on with life i just think about "only i matter noone else does" this makes people hate me but i get by or....u could suck it up and find something to cheer you up...

I think your just taking stuff too seriously, I mean I tried out with all of my friends for a soccer team and I was the only one who didnt make it. On top of that I was a short fat kid who people teased. I would also start listening to music thats more happy or upbeat and definately stay away from emo music. As for the girl situation....there is really no point in getting a gf in middle school I mean really your not going to do anything other than hold hands and look cute, I actually never talked to anygirls at the age of 13 unless they talked to me first.

It things that happen in life. Just find something else and go over that. It will be better after. (Do new activites, met new friends, find a job, or w/e u want!)

Play some football, jack off, life is good now.

Lyon, think about this:

How do your parents make birthdays for themselves ? Easy, right ! So go and organize something for yourself, if they can't. And when you will have something done, tell your parents "PWNT, aren't you ?".

Don't you work in summer ? Even if you don't have the money now, you can earn them, and make the birthday a bit later.

Fact: If you want something to be done, don't sit around doing nothing, go and do it.

Amen. Action is the best cure for depression.

Keep things new and a alive, do something that kind of scares you, makes you nervous and jumpy about. Anything that stirs you up inside, the thought of doing or the action of doing, will make you see things differently and on a positive note. Try it and see how it affects you.

Mp, I'm going to have to say that it isn't even that easy for someone so depressed to just get up and say, "Happy world!". They can't get any motivation off of SEN. Sorry.

That's not what I was talking about. What makes you tingle, what gets your heart pounding with nervousness or fear, butterfly feelings, feeling of adventure, hysteria, etc. It's not saying that you are going to be happy by doing something different, it will make you feel different, and obviously the way a depressed person is feeling isn't quite cutting it right? Meh, im not a counsellor but I try.

thank you moose.

and of that Topic in feedback that MA Made, im not seeking "Emotional Comfort" im seeking advice, which is what u just did

thx moose!!!

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