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Anyway, first off, i posted tis here cause i dont really think that my life is garabage...

To the point

Lately, ive started to make friends with this girl, we chat all the time and we always aheva good time. Anyways, we both know that we are both ONLY friends. And it was all good

2 nights ago, i put her name in my msn name, and instantley i started getting from all my mates. They were all like "You want to get with her dont you". "You want to ask her out dont you" I instanley replied no, cause thats true.

yesterday, at school, someone spread the word, so now everyone i know is saying , naturally, i got really pissed off.

Last night i told her what happened, and started blaming it on herself and feeling bad, she didnt :censored:in deserve that.

Anyway, today on the way home, one of my best friends would not shutup, so i punched him in the :censored:in face, got busted by teachers and now my parents are getting informed.

Since all my friends are the problem and parents dont understand , you guys are the only people i can really talk to, i dont know what the :censored:in do...

hahaha so fun.. T_T but what the heck you gonna do now? lol

im not laughing man...

nah true... but what u gonna do to make ur girl friend and ur self happy again? i dont have a option cuz i thougt these things only happen in movies

» Stop overreacting. Punching people is fine with me, but not in the face.
» Before you do anything, take a day or two to think of other things out to clear your mind. You need it.

» Listen to some kick-ass music like slipknot.
» Play some CS.
» Kick some ass at CS.
» I'm stealing moose's symbol.
» Haha!
» Anyone who talks behind your back, tell him to listen to your music (Slipknot) at full blast.

That's my good relaxation.
I'm not responsible for an troubles..

I wouldn't know, High... I've always been stuck with these problems myself (not sentimentals, though)...

I just let it go... Though I never punched anyone (you wouldn't believe how many people I could have killed in 18 years)... Just TRY and live with it for a couple of days. Technicaly, the friend you punched should come FIRST to apologize about what he did (if he really is a friend). If not... I really don't know...

Never got to deal successfully with these situations...

It sounds like your friends are causing this very uncomfortable situation... I had the same problem when I gave Marle in Chrono Trigger the name of a girl I had a crush on . Just ask your friends to back off in a calm and collected manner. Say something like "Guys, seriously, that's enough. That's over the line." As long as you're calm and serious about it they should take you seriously. Make no threats, and apologize to that guy for hitting him. Tell him you were very emotional and that he went too far.

Well everyone has problems.High your cool and all but i would't consider this a major problem just take it easy and move on.



edit: somehow i have way lower posts then u use too and bumped down to a newb again lol.No biggie just wondering whats up with that.

Yeah I know how it is sometimes. When people start to piss me off I rarely show how mad I am because I have learned self-control through martial arts. But sometimes I just get too angry and I have physically harmed people, that was a long time ago though. I'm not like that anymore.

In a while I bet your problems will probably go away and you'll have your old friends back.

CRAAAAAAWLLLLINNNNG IN MY SKIIIIINNNNNNNN!!!1111!


Anyway, how old are you? It seems that youre pretty infatuated with her, so itd be a little natural to WANT to include her name into stuff, but you shouldnt, seeing as how thatll just show her and other people that youre really into her, which might spook her and make things awkward. But thats a little late now, aints it?

Punching in teh f4ce = overreaction. You couldve handled the situation a lot better, perhaps by laughing along with them and joke about it as well? Yes, you like her, but you dont need to get superserious and uptight about it. Ease up, laugh, roll with the flow.

Anyway, an update, its all cool now i guess, my friend admitted he was wrong, and so did I. Everyone stoped saying ti after i punched him, so thats ok, so its all better, and im happy

Im just taking a few days to cool off as some of you said, and i should be fine

Thanks guys

Damn my attempts to broker peace were to slow and the fight has ended on its own before I was able to do anything... I have no choice but to start a new conflict and resolve that one instead...

Must use all of brain to create ultimate insult.......... You all are a bunch of booger heads


Just kidding. Glad to see things went ok High.

with friends like those, who needs enemies?

there u go it wasnt a big problem.. just a daily bagatell

Ah the drama of highschool. You guys have it so easy. Here at college all girls want is to sleep with or not talk to you, one of the two. Yuck!

I personally have stopped going after girls in high school. They seem to be attracted to gangster-wanabes with failing marks. Its probaly a phase their going through anyway.

My advice, stay away until everyone gets more mature

LP for teh win!

Yea, just forget about it.

I've done some retarded stuff in my life, but yea, once your older, it'll be gone. Just play some CS or SC or listen to music or something. Punch the wall, eat some raw meat that's uncooked for 5 days... that's fun.

well, your relationship problem is solved, so now i get to rant about mine!
why boy-girl relationships SUCK:
I think I'm cursed. All the guys I like are gay.
oh yeah, and I have a lot of guy friends. Arguably more guys than girls, because all girls want to talk about is boyfriends, boys, boys, clothes, makeup...etc. I'm not into any of that, beyond being friends with guys. ANYWAYS my father doesn't like that and all but called me a to my face for having so many guy friends. It took so much will power to not tell him what my sister does on friday nights...

Easy way out would be to lower your standards so you have a wider pool of people to choose from. Hang around with them and just try to have fun, and if something happens, then kudos and gl taking another step up. Go with that.

Personally I always like to seem and appear casual and calm. If something like this happened to me and a girl I was friends with, I'd just tell the guys sure I like her, but make sure she knows the truth beforehand. Then you can just be friends and most likely the guys you know will stop being s. There are a few girls that you can find that are worth talking to, and some of them you can actually look at without gagging... Anyway you got it resolved, but do your parents know why you punched him?

I have some suggestions:
To relax:
1. Listen tou your favorite music.
2. Laugh at other peoples misfortunes. (It always works for me. I'm not laughing at you though.)
3. Don't let you emotions get to you. Many emotions just get in the way.

To fix the problem:
1. Try to explain it to your parents as best as you can.
2. Get rid of all of your friends that are retards.
3. Tell your girl that it's not her fault at all.
4. Try anything else you might think of.
5. If all else fails, become a Goth like Stan did in that one episode.

There should be Goth smilies.

hey if people are giving u like that make sure they dont have a girlfriend or whatever and say "well at least i have one". it worked for me. my friend just shut up and left me alone about it. o btw a good way for dealing with anger is listening to some death metal. alot of energy goes through tht type of music and usually makes anger go away. i udnno if it works for u but it does for me

idk they do for me too, the one girl i actually liked liked me too then she went to puerto rico and stuff, lifeguards, (bas ) and so...u can guess wat happened, yep she "broke up with me" w/e its majorly blew and i can relate dude everyone has problems


and that blows 4 u

Glad your doing fine High,
Could I offer you a kiwi for you great achievement?

Thanks for the advice Yoshi,
stupid gangster kids stealing all the girls -_-;;